King of Havoc
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- Posted: Wed, 24 Jul 2013 05:12:31 +0000
Ninja Katze
Sometimes it depends on what you post, and where, and the type of topic. If I am on the first or second page of a hot issue or topic, and have a valid point, I get quoted more, but if it is a throw away topic, where you are just asked an opinion on a repeat topic, people are less likely to quote others in general overall.
Also, the more you post in a certain part of the forums, the more familiar those people become with you and are more likely to chat with you rather than just at you. I have made more casual friends from quoting and initiating convos with them, then trying to let them take it upon themselves to talk to me.
Avatar appearance plays a role, depending on the forum, however, your diction in specific areas may be far more important than appearance.
Overall, you'll be more accepted when you start talking, I learned it the hard way after being on here for 5 years and lurking too much.
Also, the more you post in a certain part of the forums, the more familiar those people become with you and are more likely to chat with you rather than just at you. I have made more casual friends from quoting and initiating convos with them, then trying to let them take it upon themselves to talk to me.
Avatar appearance plays a role, depending on the forum, however, your diction in specific areas may be far more important than appearance.
Overall, you'll be more accepted when you start talking, I learned it the hard way after being on here for 5 years and lurking too much.
I'm definitely trying to reach out to other people first now! As you mentioned, starting the direct conversation seems to work better than waiting it out, but it's hard staying in just one forum. There's so many places to post, and lots of different things to talk about. Haunting just one forum seems like a dreary thing to do..
As far as appearance goes.. Ergh. I'm a little overwhelmed. There's a lot to choose from and starting from an empty wardrobe is like a coloring book with no lines to color in! Hopefully no one judges posts based on avatars too much because I might be like this for a while!