I've been on Gaia since late 2004 (December, I believe) which put me right along the edge of 2005--which isn't necessarily a bad thing, but I think it's worth mentioning, myself. In that time that I have spent on Gaia -- on hiatus, a mule, talking to friends, posting, anything -- I have had the best experience of any online forum, website, or community that I've been to. I simply can't go to another forum without saying "Eh, this can't hold a candle to Gaia."
I've gained and lost friends in my four years and two months here, all of which I treasured greatly and wish I still had. However, I lost them just as easily as one would lose and gain friends in reality, and it hasn't changed me much at all.
Gaia provided me with a way of honing my writing skills. When I first joined, like most people (older joined) here, I was riddled with grammar mistakes and loved using asterisks for actions and nothing to denote quotations. With time and experience in writing (or roleplaying, if you will) with people like and unlike myself, I gained skill and confidence in my writing and I always think back to those times in serenity, with a certain fondness to how much I've achieved writing-wise in the past four years.
I don't place all of this credit on Gaia, though.
These friends I made that I mentioned before were nice, kind, and very affable. They were nothing, NOTHING like the newer users (and that's not an insult at all--but they are better), but I can still find aspects about each and every new person I meet on Gaia that I can commend or even like.
Even on mules, my experience on Gaia has always brought me back for more, always kept me slightly sane (ha ha), and ALWAYS made me a little happier when I needed the boost.
Now, I put a lot of confidence and dependence into Gaia, but that's just how I am. I love this place and hope still that it--and everyone in it--will come to love me too.
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