Dysphoric Melody
Just do whatever I do when people are being assholes to me :3
Look them in the eye with the most leveled serial-killer stare you have and very calmly in a deadpan tone tell them to shut the ******** up. Works like a charm every time, but then again I have a glare that can make people cry soooo... ;D
oh and locking up my cat when someone came over? Not a chance in hell. I had one of my sister's friends ask once, I told her I wasn't going to but if she wanted to try she could go for it (this was with my small-dog sized mainecoon lol)
Jessie locked Kaname in the other room for her protection, as well as to avoid conflict. But I told her to just kick Sam out if he can't take it. The CAT lives there, she is more important to Jessie than Sam is, and it's HER house as well as her husband's. She has just as much say of who comes and goes out of that place as he does, and if she doesn't want Sam over because of how he treats her cat, and how he treats her, then she can tell him to either get the ******** out, or that he's not allowed over at all.
Personally, once we move at the end of summer and we get a cat, Sam will never come over if he can't tolerate the cat. Ignore it, fine, I don't care, but if he makes a SINGLE comment about the cat, me as an owner, or whatever, he's banned from the house forever. I will NOT tolerate that s**t.
On a better note, however, I get my Betta this weekend.
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