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omg, He'd be the cutest extinct reptile ever.
Are you thinking T-Rex?
rawr

This sounds cheap but most Dollar Stores have little plastic bats and such.
I say that he should play ball and get to smack people!




'Ello, Sunny.
BAM! And here I am. Rejoice mortal beings, I am a benevolent ruler~ <3
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The Great Eagle Eye
BAM! And here I am. Rejoice mortal beings, I am a benevolent ruler~ <3

:clings:

You're never allowed to leave, ever. <3
I wouldn't dream of leaving~ Everything fun is here!
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You always said the bestest things.
C:

Hopefully Pikal will stop by some times too.


SO! Beloved friend, how have you been? <3
I've had my ups and downs lately, life hasn't been the cake walk I like it to be. Got my tonsils removed last month, after dealing with five months of a tonsillitis infection and the doctor taking forever to schedule a surgery. Now because of the treatments and surgery, I have roughly $25,000.00 in medical debt, so I have to declare Chapter 7 Bankruptcy. Fun, fun fun fun. But, its almost over, and I feel one billion times better than I did, and soon I shall be free of the mess entirely~! How have you been oh wondrous one?
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At least you're feeling better! From what I understood it was a long, horrible road that you traveled. :<
And your young! Bankruptcies only stay on your record for what, seven years? That's not bad at all when you consider life in general.


I'm actually pretty good. I love my tiny apartment, my job rocks, I make enough to support myself (I'm too independent for anything else) and my family drama is finally sorted out.

My brother got out of the Marines awhile ago and was floating around for a while. He went to school and got living expenses through the GI bill. Then he dropped out, the money stopped and his bills/groceries/rent needed to be paid. Mom and I supported him for 3 sucky months. But he went back to our home town and is living with our Dad as of 2 weeks ago.

Thank goodness, I'm not good at being depressed and poor.
Indeed, seven short years. By the time I'm 32 I'll be in the clear, just in time to buy a house~!

Well, that's always good. Having a place to call your own is bad-a**~!

Ah, discharged military eh? Considering he needed the money through the GI bill, that would mean he isn't receiving retirement benefits, what did he do to get kicked out? Obviously wasn't medical or end-of-contract stuff.

Though, I can't blame him too bad... I lost my job a few months ago, hence bankruptcy being my only option, and haven't been able to find another... The economy is in the shitter for that kind of thing. Though one should never mooch off family or friends without some kind of return on their investment.

Depressed and poor is no way to go through life.
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I don't even want to think about buying a house. The property taxes here just keep going up, plus water, trash and sewer?
Not fun.

Totally badass!
I get to leave my laundry where ever I want. Like a boss~

He put in his four years and left the military. He was on unemployment right after he got out but got a job as a security job that he ended up quitting and was ineligible for unemployment after that. He decided start going to school which let him start getting checks from the GI Bill. Enough to live off of but not very well, poor guy.

It really wasn't that bad and I understand everything... But he isn't very mature and hasn't had a job, job yet. So he doesn't really understand real life finances. And he feels pity for me being a 'normal, working person'. Makes me want to pat his head.
Blarg.

But he's living with Dad now and can take his time to get on his feet. Mom and I both have studio apartments and just couldn't afford to support him. :<

Ya, I don't handle depressed well. It makes me bitchy.


I'm sorry to hear that, Eagle! The economy is really bad right now...
How are you getting by? D:
Yeah, paying for all the various utilities is a b***h and a half. But in the long run, its the best option.

Laundry on the floor and chairs and ceiling! Hell to the yes.

Ah, so he was on a four year contract, sucks, he should have kept in for a bit longer if he could. Its a shitty job the military, but free healthcare, a big paycheck, and fancy learning skills are hard to come by anywhere else.

That's one thing that I see with my friends too, apparently growing up and learning real-life finances and responsibilities are hard to figure out for some.

I hate depressed me, I would punch him if I saw him.

Well, currently I'm living cheaply off of my savings, but that won't last much longer... And I'm crashing at my friends apartment, he doesn't care as long as I don't cost money. So its been easy on that part, but I need a job soon~ Hoping to have one by the end of the month. Been shootin' in applications like a mad gunman.
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Houses are pretty expensive out here.. And I don't drive. xD
If I ever make mega bucks I might wan to buy a condo or something but that'd take years to get to.

High five!
There is something liberating about being able to make a mess if you want to. :3
You're the one that has to clean it up but that's also pretty cool.


It took me a couple of months to get going but once I had my first full time job and my own apartment... Once you're used to it, it's hard to go back.


Your friend is awesome!
I'm really happy that your doing ok. I know that you're a great guy and that everything will work out. I'm sending good vibes your way via spirit fingers. Those work best.

I love that you're so great at taking charge of your own life.
It's a trait I appreciate in guys 100% more after working with my brother. xDD <3
Houses are expensive everywhere, I was looking around here when i had a job and the lowest mortgage payment I could find was like $1,500.00 a month... that's insane... my apartment used to cost me $450.00 a month, less than a third of that!

It's especially great when one wants to have company over, then you don't have to worry about anyone intruding or being a pain 'cause its your place! Especially for sexy time~~

Well, you're on your way. Got a place, got a job, and you're not intending on going back. That's step one on your life!

Yes, he is. He's a great guy, and he pays for s**t when I don't ask him too. Even offered to front me $300.00 to file my bankruptcy papers. Didn't even expect it back, ******** awesome guy. Kinda sad he likes girls to be honest... But, hey, that's life. Heh, spirit fingers, kinky~ I mean...

I try to be... I could barely handle the last six months, thought I was going to break down and even came to the point of crying a few times. I've never had to deal with anything this bad before, took all my resolve to see it through and not give up!

And yes, it is an attractive trait in both genders. You can be fat, lazy, ugly, and stupid, but god damn it at least know what you're doing with your life. Even if you choose to do nothing and work a dead-end job and live in a one room studio until you die, at least DO IT. Of course, being awesome helps too.

Eventually, I'd like to go to college again... Get myself a bachelors degree in something, maybe even a masters. Get some cash saved up, move to a place I want to spend the rest of my life, find a boy/girl to share it with, and be truly happy! And I'll do it some day!
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I pay $450 a month, utilities included, in a great neighborhood. I honestly don't think I could find a better place. The only problem is that it's small and has a shared rest room.

Eventually I want a bigger place that I can have pets in but those places generally range around $700-1000+ in the down town area I like.


lololol, I guess that's what makes him a great friend and not your soul mate. xD
Heterosexuality, y u so mean?

Awesome sauce makes everything better and we're freaking glazed.

:hugs:
I'm very proud of you. You've had a lot of crap to deal with lately and you've done a great job.
Crying is a great way to get stress out.

I've knocked on wood and have my fingers crossed for you! Different hands, though.
Srsly.

Portland is the place I want to spend the rest of my life, it's great to have found it this early in life. I'm pretty iffy on the 'find someone to spend the rest of my life' with part. I normally find most guys I date annoyingly stupid with in a couple months. If I'm not willing to marry and spend the rest of my life with someone, what's the point in dating them?
lol, I'm not even looking any more. xD
Damn, s**t is expensive out there... My $450.00 was a single bedroom, living, kitchen, and bathroom... Decent size too. But it was in kind of a shady neighborhood... Not too bad, but not great.

Heterosexuality is a b***h. A merciless b***h.

Glazed AND marinated.

Well, I'm glad I had support from afar~ Artillery fire is the best kind after all~

I know the feeling... Guys are either stupid, annoying, or wimpy. Girls are either stupid, annoying, bitchy, or insane. None of those things I like. But I keep the hope out there that I'll find somebody I don't hate.

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