Takkita
Jayden Kogane
Takkita
Jayden Kogane
Takkita
yeah I think parents don't like to be criticized about their decisions. . . even when their kid is an adult themselves
Not sure how she'll survive next year when her daughter actually has to be at the campus for university... they can't do anything without each other. They need to call each other at like 11 am each day, then see each other at lunch...
The daughter had a job for a week and the mother missed her a lot when she wasn't home at lunch....
Sounds like the mother is a bit too needy. Did she make the daughter quit? Poor daughter...how can she become an adult like that? Does she not have a life?
No she unfairly got fired.
It was just for the holiday season and someone else applied who had more sales experience so they fired her and hired the other girl... or so I was told.
I think the two of them cling to each other. She's divorced and her ex is an a** who doesn't want anything to do with his daughter. I guess since the kid was 12 all they had was each other...
sweatdrop That is pretty sad...but time changes things. At the same time I understand. Same thing happened with me and my mom. I was her security blanket. I was a baby when they split. It was 12 years till mom remarried. Even now she relies on me for emotional support more than dad. I get he's not me and the two of them don't have the same history as me and her...but that's how it's supposed to be! She married him, not me lol. Different roles in theory.
My parents had me so scared to leave. They made it out to be that I couldn't survive without them...turns out looking back...it seems that they may have felt that they couldn't make it without my money. I had no life outside of them and whenever I tried to they would find reasons to stop it. Being an adult with a 10pm curfew sucks when you as a teenager never had a curfew XD. Dad says he would've done things differently if he knew then what he knows now. But it's hard to say. Smothering the things you love is a good way to kill them XD
Yeah, I think you've done better since you've moved out.
I just find it a little much that one of them has to call the other at about 11 am every day (usually the daughter calling the mother to fill her in on what homework she's working on and what time she got up and stuff) and then the mother goes home for lunch at 1! Why can't they just have that discussion at 1??? They even sleep in the same bed since apparently the daughter needs a new mattress so she doesn't sleep there. I need a new mattress but I still sleep in my bed.
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And if the mom is missing her like crazy when the daughter has to work through lunch hour, how will she survive her daughter moving out???
Next year the daughter will be in university like 2 hours away. The mother plans to pick her up EVERY Friday night and drive her back EVERY Sunday... That's 8 hours of driving each weekend. Her daughter can't take a bus or train or something...her mom has to go pick her up..
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I think she's insane to be planning that.
My parents keep offering to pick me up and drive me places and I usually decline since I don't want to put them out...and I'm only about 30 minutes away from them.
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