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LizasaurusRex
the ultimate betrayal
LizasaurusRex
the ultimate betrayal
LizasaurusRex
Haha, my MO is to make a thread, receive a lot of well-wishing and absolutely no prospects, and within a day or so dissolve into a spiral of disappointment. At that point, I usually give up on Gaia entirely for about a month to six months, and then start the whole cycle over again.
Your method sounds a lot more organized and certainly more sensical.
I'm pretty good on this Saturday/Sunday. Just clicked to midnight for me, so I guess it's Sunday, though it still feels like it's Saturday. What about you? Which day are you up to, and how are you on it?
Your method sounds a lot more organized and certainly more sensical.
I'm pretty good on this Saturday/Sunday. Just clicked to midnight for me, so I guess it's Sunday, though it still feels like it's Saturday. What about you? Which day are you up to, and how are you on it?
aw, that's a bummer! all the search threads i see are like. always straight dudes. especially either the more established ones or the ones that keep getting remade. need more ladies.
i dunno if i'd say i'm organized, but i like keeping thing in one little compartment. i dislike making threads. it takes a lot of uhm...mental preparation to put myself out there like that, and this way if i bump it and no one posts a least i already have a few pages so it doesn't look too sad...? i dunno, i get very self-conscious if i think about it so i just don't.
ah i'm an hour behind you, i guess. it's 11pm here. c: my day wasn't so great but it wasn't terrible either. a lazy day, i guess. i shouldn't be lazy, though, i have a lot of stuff i need to get done. >w< i'm kind of irresponsible sometimes, i dunno. i at least did the dishes, so i consider that a victory. and i took a shower. two victories!
Yeah, tell me about it.
The only "prospects" I seem to garner are dudes who think I can be "flexible," or "open-minded."
I'm like, uh, no, that's not how it works, thanks. I don't want your junk, I don't need your junk, I only like ladyjunk.
Ehhh... I know what you mean about the self-consciousness. Probably another reason why I tend to abandon my threads is that after a while it's just me, alone, bumping, and that's just a little too sad. Looks like we have the same reasons for our methods, but different methods for the same reason!
My day was decent. Went to my aunt's house to file taxes... aaand promptly forgot all my documents at home, so I gotta go back tomorrow. I went to Target and bought some new socks and a cute wallet instead!
Well, you were a lot more productive than I was. And sometimes getting the little stuff accomplished feels better than the big stuff. I don't know what it is about me and showers but I drag my feet to take one, but then when I'm in there, all warm and steamy and comfy, I drag my feet to leave! I think it's the being cold and naked part in between that I dislike so much, haha. That is, of course, assuming I'm taking a shower alone, haha. X3
The only "prospects" I seem to garner are dudes who think I can be "flexible," or "open-minded."
I'm like, uh, no, that's not how it works, thanks. I don't want your junk, I don't need your junk, I only like ladyjunk.
Ehhh... I know what you mean about the self-consciousness. Probably another reason why I tend to abandon my threads is that after a while it's just me, alone, bumping, and that's just a little too sad. Looks like we have the same reasons for our methods, but different methods for the same reason!
My day was decent. Went to my aunt's house to file taxes... aaand promptly forgot all my documents at home, so I gotta go back tomorrow. I went to Target and bought some new socks and a cute wallet instead!
Well, you were a lot more productive than I was. And sometimes getting the little stuff accomplished feels better than the big stuff. I don't know what it is about me and showers but I drag my feet to take one, but then when I'm in there, all warm and steamy and comfy, I drag my feet to leave! I think it's the being cold and naked part in between that I dislike so much, haha. That is, of course, assuming I'm taking a shower alone, haha. X3
oh man. dudes like that are literally the worst. i hate it when people ask like. ~why are you a lesbian, what happened with a guy to turn u gay~ like. women's sexuality doesn't revolve around men, jfc.
hhahah yeah! usually if i bump my thread it's like once or twice a day, or whenever i remember to. i don't like just bumping, but i usually get pretty decent conversations going. i wish people would post here instead of pm me but i can't blame them for being shy 'cause i do the same some times.
aw. :c filing taxes seems stressful. i didn't have to do it this year or last year, and the year before that when i did it i had help so i didn't need to do much. I LOVE SOCKS. and wallets. what kind of design does it have?
haha i'm the same way with showers. though for me it's the fact that i have to comb my hair after that deters me from showering. my hair is long and it's curly and gets tangled a lot, so combing it can be really annoying. the thing is, the longer i take between showers the worse the tangley-ness gets...
Sometimes I respond to questions like that with questions of my own, "Why are you hetero? What happened with a guy/girl to turn you straight?" If they don't get how dumb their questions are after that, I just give upppppp!
I almost prefer getting PMs, actually, since it's way easier to keep track of conversations, haha. But I do like the bonus of keeping the thread active that goes with posting in the thread instead. Also, it seems a little presumptuous to just PM someone before introducing yourself. A bit like answering an ad for a job by just showing up for an interview without calling ahead or submitting your resume. I dunno. I'm weird like that I guess, haha.
Eh, it's not the most adult thing I've ever done - that award goes to sorting out my own heath care provider this year - and it's not all that difficult. TurboTax does most of the work for me! It's a lovely little bit of software. :3
The wallet I got is one of those hardback ones, with the snap closure. It's sort of a darkish seafoam color with itty bitty navy diamonds and triangles in a repeating pattern. This one! (http://www.target.com/p/merona-printed-hard-case-wallet-blue/-/A-15008065#prodSlot=medium_1_21&term=wallet) The color is closer to seafoam in person, dunno why it looks so turquoise in the picture.
Ahh, my hair's not that, uh, high-maintenance, I guess. It's decently long (long enough to almost cover myself should I decide to become a mermaid, but not like Birth-of-Venus long), and a pain to deal with conditioner-wise, cause my scalp will be oily when my ends are still dry, and trying to only condition half your hair is a difficult task, indeed. But I can definitely see why not wanting to deal with the chore of hair-maintenance can be a deterrent, as even my hair is a pain in the butt. Frizzy as heck if I don't tame it, too, bleh.
I almost prefer getting PMs, actually, since it's way easier to keep track of conversations, haha. But I do like the bonus of keeping the thread active that goes with posting in the thread instead. Also, it seems a little presumptuous to just PM someone before introducing yourself. A bit like answering an ad for a job by just showing up for an interview without calling ahead or submitting your resume. I dunno. I'm weird like that I guess, haha.
Eh, it's not the most adult thing I've ever done - that award goes to sorting out my own heath care provider this year - and it's not all that difficult. TurboTax does most of the work for me! It's a lovely little bit of software. :3
The wallet I got is one of those hardback ones, with the snap closure. It's sort of a darkish seafoam color with itty bitty navy diamonds and triangles in a repeating pattern. This one! (http://www.target.com/p/merona-printed-hard-case-wallet-blue/-/A-15008065#prodSlot=medium_1_21&term=wallet) The color is closer to seafoam in person, dunno why it looks so turquoise in the picture.
Ahh, my hair's not that, uh, high-maintenance, I guess. It's decently long (long enough to almost cover myself should I decide to become a mermaid, but not like Birth-of-Venus long), and a pain to deal with conditioner-wise, cause my scalp will be oily when my ends are still dry, and trying to only condition half your hair is a difficult task, indeed. But I can definitely see why not wanting to deal with the chore of hair-maintenance can be a deterrent, as even my hair is a pain in the butt. Frizzy as heck if I don't tame it, too, bleh.
ime tey typically don't understand why what they said is so offensive. maybe i'm just unlucky tho. :c i generally avoid talking to dudes about it. or anyone, really, i dunno.
that's true, pms are easier but there's that awful delay which makes it so irritating when i have more than one conversation going. also i think you don't get gold from pms now, and you get some from posting so there's that? though i don't post for gold anyway, idkidk.
haha. that is pretty adult! i can't afford health care but i'm poor enough that i won't be penalized for it, so it works out, i guess. i mean, except for the fact i still can't afford health care hahaha. it seems silly that taxes are so difficult to do... :C
ahh i love wallets like that! that one is really cute. i have one that's covered in butterflies but i don't carry a purse so i never really use it.
hair is such a pain omg. i wish i could chop it off and just have short hair but i look horrible with short hair. more horrible. whatevs. :C also itgets curlier the shorter it is and i dislike having it be ultra-curly. so i just get it trimmed every once in a while when i can spare the cash.
what time is it for you? o:
