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do genitals matter to you in a romantic relationship?

I am straight and I will not date anyone within my gender 0.51131221719457 51.1% [ 113 ]
I am gay and I will only date people of my gender 0.067873303167421 6.8% [ 15 ]
I am bisexual and I do not care 0.32579185520362 32.6% [ 72 ]
I do not understand the definition of straight and homosexual 0.095022624434389 9.5% [ 21 ]
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Tagra Nar
DJ-Anarchy
Goddamn Syndactyly is hypersensitive. Sorry Tagra Nar... sweatdrop

Also Syndactyly, "Because I said so" and "it's just evident!", not the greatest debate tools to use...

Nah, it's cool. It's also futile.


You should really give Syndactyly something to b***h about and say "it"...trannies HATE that.
I hope you see where I'm going with the use of gender neutral pronouns and "it." Using gender neutral pronouns is more trouble than just calling me "he". You simply have too much pride to admit that you have a problem with transsexuals. You've made it clear in the past that I can't be a "he" by your standards until I have genital reconstruction surgery. I really don't give a damn about anyone's standards, as there are people who will always call me "she" no matter what I do to my body. I know I'm a man and that's all that needs to be said.
DJ-Anarchy
Tagra Nar
DJ-Anarchy
Goddamn Syndactyly is hypersensitive. Sorry Tagra Nar... sweatdrop

Also Syndactyly, "Because I said so" and "it's just evident!", not the greatest debate tools to use...

Nah, it's cool. It's also futile.


You should really give Syndactyly something to b***h about and say "it"...trannies HATE that.
So do cissies. Because "it" is dehumanizing. The use of that word is less of a gender issue and more of a human issue.
Syndactyly
DJ-Anarchy
Tagra Nar
DJ-Anarchy
Goddamn Syndactyly is hypersensitive. Sorry Tagra Nar... sweatdrop

Also Syndactyly, "Because I said so" and "it's just evident!", not the greatest debate tools to use...

Nah, it's cool. It's also futile.


You should really give Syndactyly something to b***h about and say "it"...trannies HATE that.
So do cissies. Because "it" is dehumanizing. The use of that word is less of a gender issue and more of a human issue.


Well, I figured he might as well say SOMETHING offensive, since you were pissed at him already. Might as well have a reason for it, no?
Pissed? Not quite. I just find it stupid that he will be inconsiderate of transgender individuals, then try to act all PC but never actually follow through with it.
*Shrug

From an outsiders point of view, he seems to be trying to have a polite conversation with you, but you keep waving the flag of persecution for no reason that I can see, except for having used a casual gender neutral term, and if something THAT small offends you...damn, how do you go about your everyday and not have a rage-urism?
Syndactyly
So you do admit you're incredibly full of s**t.

No, I am not being hypersensitive, I am calling it out on it's s**t. I am not personally "hurt" by it's refusal to call me he. [/gender neutral pronouns still aren't bad]

Oh dear. You have wounded me so.
I must die now, from this mortal blow.

rolleyes
You've taken a pronoun slip and blown it into me having an undying hatred for transgendered individuals. You could have reacted in a manner that recognized it as a slip. Instead, you refuse to admit that it could have been a mistake, instead portraying it as my disrespecting transgendered individuals. That alone calls for a personal apology, for slighting my name intentionally. But no, I already know the reaction I'll get. Which is why this is futile.
DJ-Anarchy
*Shrug

From an outsiders point of view, he seems to be trying to have a polite conversation with you, but you keep waving the flag of persecution for no reason that I can see, except for having used a casual gender neutral term, and if something THAT small offends you...damn, how do you go about your everyday and not have a rage-urism?
It doesn't offend me, he just is trying to justify it and that's ridiculous.

He would not have used a casual gender neutral term if he had accepted my male identity.
Tagra Nar
rolleyes
You've taken a pronoun slip and blown it into me having an undying hatred for transgendered individuals. You could have reacted in a manner that recognized it as a slip. Instead, you refuse to admit that it could have been a mistake, instead portraying it as my disrespecting transgendered individuals. That alone calls for a personal apology, for slighting my name intentionally. But no, I already know the reaction I'll get. Which is why this is futile.
Except you're trying to pass a consistent avoidance of the usage of male pronouns as a slip. You've either called me "she" or gender neutral pronouns in avoidance of using male pronouns.

It hasn't happened only once. I did not talk to you for the first time today. You are consistent with your refusal to address me with male pronouns. That is reason enough to doubt it is simply an "accident."

Second guessing me doesn't make you any less of an a**. Rather to the contrary.
Syndactyly
Except you're trying to pass a consistent avoidance of the usage of male pronouns as a slip. You've either called me "she" or gender neutral pronouns in avoidance of using male pronouns.

It hasn't happened only once. I did not talk to you for the first time today. You are consistent with your refusal to address me with male pronouns. That is reason enough to doubt it is simply an "accident."

Second guessing me doesn't make you any less of an a**. Rather to the contrary.

Because talking to you negates the need to use any pronoun, except "you."
Syndactyly
DJ-Anarchy
*Shrug

From an outsiders point of view, he seems to be trying to have a polite conversation with you, but you keep waving the flag of persecution for no reason that I can see, except for having used a casual gender neutral term, and if something THAT small offends you...damn, how do you go about your everyday and not have a rage-urism?
It doesn't offend me, he just is trying to justify it and that's ridiculous.

He would not have used a casual gender neutral term if he had accepted my male identity.


Well, let's say something opposite happened, and someone called a policewoman a policeman by accident, would you think it appropriate for them to drag it out in glaring style?
Tagra Nar
Syndactyly
Except you're trying to pass a consistent avoidance of the usage of male pronouns as a slip. You've either called me "she" or gender neutral pronouns in avoidance of using male pronouns.

It hasn't happened only once. I did not talk to you for the first time today. You are consistent with your refusal to address me with male pronouns. That is reason enough to doubt it is simply an "accident."

Second guessing me doesn't make you any less of an a**. Rather to the contrary.

Because talking to you negates the need to use any pronoun, except "you."
This is NOT the first time we've had a conversatron, this is NOT the first time you have indirectly referred to me and have refused to call me he. You "slipped" twice in this thread, calling me "she" once and then avoiding gender pronouns entirely a second time. You've tried to justify it but since dropped that attempt to justify neutral gender pronoun use and have adopted the new argument of "it was an accident."
DJ-Anarchy
Well, let's say something opposite happened, and someone called a policewoman a policeman by accident, would you think it appropriate for them to drag it out in glaring style.

Hell, I've even called a customer "ma'am" who was a guy. I've been mistaken that way. Neither incident caused a shitstorm.

Syn: *facepalm*
DJ-Anarchy
Syndactyly
DJ-Anarchy
*Shrug

From an outsiders point of view, he seems to be trying to have a polite conversation with you, but you keep waving the flag of persecution for no reason that I can see, except for having used a casual gender neutral term, and if something THAT small offends you...damn, how do you go about your everyday and not have a rage-urism?
It doesn't offend me, he just is trying to justify it and that's ridiculous.

He would not have used a casual gender neutral term if he had accepted my male identity.


Well, let's say something opposite happened, and someone called a policewoman a policeman by accident, would you think it appropriate for them to drag it out in glaring style?
That's a ONE time occurance. Tagra Nar has consistently avoided using male pronouns when referring to me in several conversations, and has also numerous times tried to prove that I'm not "really" a man. This is an ongoing thing. If someone continued to call her a policeman, and he, or avoided gender pronouns entirely, yes, she would be reasonable in trying to understand why someone would do that, and calling them out on it.
Tagra Nar
DJ-Anarchy
Well, let's say something opposite happened, and someone called a policewoman a policeman by accident, would you think it appropriate for them to drag it out in glaring style.

Hell, I've even called a customer "ma'am" who was a guy. I've been mistaken that way. Neither incident caused a shitstorm.

Syn: *facepalm*


yeah, I've been called ma'am when strangers approach me from behind. Then again, I have mid-back length hair.

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