Your genitals do not matter?

do genitals matter to you in a romantic relationship?

I am straight and I will not date anyone within my gender	51.1%	[ 113 ]
I am gay and I will only date people of my gender	6.8%	[ 15 ]
I am bisexual and I do not care	32.6%	[ 72 ]
I do not understand the definition of straight and homosexual	9.5%	[ 21 ]
Total Votes:			[ 221 ]

[tererun3]

According to a certain gaia member in another thread I am wrong in the idea that the genitals of the people out there do not matter when you are deciding to get funky with them.

So, all you straight people, does it matter if the person you are with in a romantic relationship has the genitals of the opposite gender?

For the homosexuals, does it matter if the person you are romantic with has the same genitals as you?

I would ask the bisexuals, but it would seem logical the answer is no though you may have a preference.

My claim is that if you are straight or homosexual that it matters to you in a romantic relationship the gender of the person you will potentially be involved with. Please feel free to tell me if I am wrong or right.

[Math145 Kane]

Well if it doesn't matter what type of genitals the person you're being romantic with has, then you're bisexual.

[Macaroni Junior]

It only matters when I want to do what I have to do to please them... wink
NNNNNNNNNNnnnnnngh..... heart

[Omorose Panya]

Why does everyone feel the need to make a stupid thread about a stupid question a stupid gaian asked?

[Geisterfahrer]

Do you mean gender or sex?
I'm confused.

I think you mean sex, but you said gender...

[Project 429]

Geisterfahrer

Do you mean gender or sex?
I'm confused.

I think you mean sex, but you said gender...

It's really not that big of a slip-up. When they ask you for your gender on paperwork, they mean your sex. The words are synonymous on an official level. Mechanically the words mean the same thing.

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So, all you straight people, does it matter if the person you are with in a romantic relationship has the genitals of the opposite gender?

It's not like I have a checklist, I just don't like dudes. There is not even a flicker of interest, it's all taken care of subconsciously.

[Geisterfahrer]

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Geisterfahrer

Do you mean gender or sex?
I'm confused.

I think you mean sex, but you said gender...

It's really not that big of a slip-up. When they ask you for your gender on paperwork, they mean your sex. The words are synonymous on an official level. Mechanically the words mean the same thing.

No they don't.
I should know. I make those forms that people fill out and when I say gender I mean gender and when I say sex I mean sex.

Sex is biological. XX, XY, XYY, etc.
Gender is psychological. Male, Female, neuter, bigender, etc.

It's not the same thing. A person can be an XX male or an XY female.

[Gho the Girl]

tererun3

According to a certain gaia member in another thread

Not to be too much of an attention whore, but I think she's referring to me. mrgreen

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I am wrong in the idea that the genitals of the people out there do not matter when you are deciding to get funky with them.

Actually, I agree, they do matter, from time to time, and from person to person. Some don't put much importance in them, and some put a lot in there. This isn't bad or good, it's just the way things are.

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So, all you straight people, does it matter if the person you are with in a romantic relationship has the genitals of the opposite gender?

For some, it does, and for others, it doesn't. Some straight men have been with non-op transwomen and they are perfectly happy.

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For the homosexuals, does it matter if the person you are romantic with has the same genitals as you?

When I identified as homosexual, I had a relationship with a transman, and I must say, I did mind his v****a at first, but soon came to be completely comfortable with it.

But then again, seeing as I now identify as queer, I'm not such a good reference for the general homosexual trend, however, I have heard that other gay people have and enjoy relations with people with non-matching genitals.

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I would ask the bisexuals, but it would seem logical the answer is no though you may have a preference.

My claim is that if you are straight or homosexual that it matters to you in a romantic relationship the gender of the person you will potentially be involved with. Please feel free to tell me if I am wrong or right.

You're right.

Now would you like to go back and read the posts I actually made?

[Apathetic Child]

Oh yeah, genitals are very important to me.

For starters; they must have them.

Nothing more disapointing than a guy who hasn't even got the balls to ask for sex...

[Math145 Kane]

Omorose Panya

Why does everyone feel the need to make a stupid thread about a stupid question a stupid gaian asked?

The same reason people like you feel like making these kind of posts.

[Math145 Kane]

Apathetic Child

Oh yeah, genitals are very important to me.

For starters; they must have them.

Nothing more disapointing than a guy who hasn't even got the balls to ask for sex...

So if a guy doesn't ask for sex, then he doesn't have balls?

[Omorose Panya]

Math145 Kane

The same reason people like you feel like making these kind of posts.

I love when people answer rhetorical questions.

[washu_2004]

Math145 Kane

Apathetic Child

Oh yeah, genitals are very important to me.

For starters; they must have them.

Nothing more disapointing than a guy who hasn't even got the balls to ask for sex...

So if a guy doesn't ask for sex, then he doesn't have balls?

I thought that if he did not have balls then there would be no point in asking.

[Project 429]

Geisterfahrer

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Geisterfahrer

Do you mean gender or sex?
I'm confused.

I think you mean sex, but you said gender...

It's really not that big of a slip-up. When they ask you for your gender on paperwork, they mean your sex. The words are synonymous on an official level. Mechanically the words mean the same thing.

No they don't.
I should know. I make those forms that people fill out and when I say gender I mean gender and when I say sex I mean sex.

Sex is biological. XX, XY, XYY, etc.
Gender is psychological. Male, Female, neuter, bigender, etc.

It's not the same thing. A person can be an XX male or an XY female.

The dictionary disagrees.

[Apathetic Child]

Math145 Kane

Apathetic Child

Oh yeah, genitals are very important to me.

For starters; they must have them.

Nothing more disapointing than a guy who hasn't even got the balls to ask for sex...

So if a guy doesn't ask for sex, then he doesn't have balls?

Only if the reason he's not asking is because he's affraid of rejection.

If he simply doesn't want it, well that's different. And disapointing in a totally different way.