My brother has been married to this woman for about 25 years. She tells him what to wear, what to eat,what to do even tells him not to talk to his family (but its okay if he talks to her family) she doesn't work, cook, clean or even do the wifely duty (aka smex
emotion_awesome ) She can drive, strong as an ox but lazy. After my brother gets off work at 6, he has to go to the store, cook dinner, to which she complains isn't "how grandma made it" and insinuate that he wasn't "taught how to even cook" (which he wasnt) She even calls our grandmother nasty, called mom (RIP
crying ) a b***h, and all his sister (he's my half: same mom diff dad, he has 2 sisters same dad diff mom) lesbians and whores and he takes it. His two grown kids, will make him keep their wild a** kids on the weekend and if he dont "I hate you daddy" followed by "I wish you were dead!" and the wife sides with them "You must not love our grandbabies" (right in front of the kids) but he stays with her.
I got a guy friend whose girlfriend cheats on him, makes him change his number so that only she knows it, forced him to close his fb and all social media sites (create a new one with only shes on it), who wants him to buy her new expensive items like macbook pro and iphone 6 although he works at rite aid (drugstore cashier) and yet he stays with her.
another online friend has a bf who verbally calls her fat (shes 5ft5 125lbs), ugly, and stupid. Who takes her pay check (he doesnt work) and spends it on other women. Even stole from her dying grandmother when they were at her house in a pseudo coma yet she stays with him because "He's got a nice c**k"
why do you people stay in unhealthy relationships?
I think it's self esteem or lack of. They like this attention they're getting or they like the idea that they will change the person,yet never happens. Or it's a fear of being alone. ("I've never get men to notice me"
wink How many times have we heard about men and women in abusive relationships who have died at the hands of their partner because they didn't just walk away before it got worst?