There is a boy named Johnathan. The world considers Jonathan to be conventionally attractive but he doesn't see it. Johnathan purges and forces himself to vomit into a toilet so he can percieve himself as beautiful. Johnathan hates his appearance and constantly thinks about experimenting with plastic surgery. Other people like Johnathan because of his good looks and his demeanor. Eventually Johnathan will die in his sleep.
There is a girl named Jenny. The world sees Jenny as conventionally unattractive. Jenny is morbidly obese and has acne over her asymmetrical face but considers herself to be the pinnacle of perfection. Jenny suffers from Narcissism and continues consume like a black hole. Jenny continues with her destructive eating habits. Jenny does nothing to groom herself or improve upon her physical body. Jenny thinks she is perfect. Other people dislike Jenny because she is conventionally unattractive. They also dislike her unrealistic narcissistic self-perception. Eventually Jenny will die in her sleep.
Which of the two has it better off?
The first one has it better.
In both situation they are living in an unhealty way.
But in the first one, people actually like the guy while people dislike the girl.
This make a pretty big difference.