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Thank you very much.
I dont try to incapacitate if its not needed. I try to react to the situation. If its serious, sure, incapacitate, but if its just some slob trying to look pro for his gal or an associate who is alittle tipsy, I see no reason to fly off the handle. Makes me look bad in the end.
I dont know if boxing cultures emphasize getting hit. All I know is its unrealistic to act like any style will always protect you, so its best to plan not just for the best but the worst as well. Contact is fine, so long as your partner can hang and knows you are playing for realzies. I dont let amateurs spar with contact in mind because most cant control themselves, so they end up hurting each other. Usually only after a year do I let them put some hustle behind the muscle.
Intentionally causing microfractures or callouses? I heard of it and seen it done. Know how to do it too. I am not against it though because your training should give you this. You shouldnt need to devote special time to making this happen. Plus, people tend to over-do both of them or do them incorrectly and end up seriously hurting themselves.
You make a good point.
Especially about styles. I've purposely switched up so that I don't become indoctrinated in any one style.. I don't like how you begin to over-specialize in certain scenarios that are productive only to that style and sometimes are just unrealistic to every-day occurrence.
I have noticed that generally my conscious goal isn't to incapacitate versus react. Though I know that I am trying to go for spots that are not safe for contact generally, like being struck in the solar plexus versus the throat... Or trying to hammer fist someone's clavical bone versus the bridge of their nose. Though a large part of it has to do with the same principle of why I'll crotch kick someone if they are trying to grab me instead of just trying to dodge.
Krav Maga training had that effect on me... Though my instructors insisted that I be more careful because my earnestness to do as much damage as possible was more of a legal risk than a necessity.
I got to admit though... Someone who is obviously drunk or not able to fight well, I don't go all out for. Those are generally the people I don't mind sucking up my pride for and getting hit by. Self defense, in my opinion at least, is a matter of keeping from being maimed or killed.. Not a ego match to see who can brawl the best.
Which is why I generally like to watch competitive fighting sports but don't ever like to participate myself. Though with the Ninjutsu, it is taught by the high-Dan grades that it's not an art for sports competition. The techniques they teach are regarded as last-resort methods and are poised to disarm/disable and kill. The weapons handling is the pinnacle of this mentality.. And the one thing I have a trouble grasping a need for despite the earnestness of instructors wanting to teach it.
Ironically the Krav Maga instructions were about the contact and practice in high-tense mannerisms. I was always told that the best way to learn to react is to learn in a situation where you aren't allowed time to think are poised against someone in a manner that demands you not think yet somehow manage to react as if you knew exactly what was going on.
Though the full-contact exercises were always done with padding on with a sparing partner, I generally didn't see how I was to gain the resilience needed for being hit with bare-knuckles like I learned training on a wood dummy and in gravel.
Ironically, I've hurt myself much more through training than I ever have been hurt by a real fight. And I've yet to have to face a person with a weapon who isn't willing to back down from my unwillingness to fight.