[ Poll ] Transgender Issues- not just "men in dresses"

Are you affected by trans issues?

Yes- I'm trans/I think I might be trans		16.0%	[ 902 ]
Yes- I have a trans friend or relative		12.1%	[ 683 ]
Indirectly- I have a trans acquaintance		6.1%	[ 341 ]
Not directly, but I feel these issues affect me indirectly/ I feel that these issues affect everyone		23.5%	[ 1325 ]
Not at all		31.0%	[ 1747 ]
I don't know		11.2%	[ 629 ]

Total Votes: 5627

[Sexual Chocolat]

Woa I just realized the name of this thread again so hi. I'm Rio, I'm FtM, the ******** up. 9-11 called my a** at 130AM telling me to get off Facebook and come here so why am I here. Hi good morning from Joisey.

[Rosetta Celestine]

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My two cents: I don't need to prove I'm a girl by doing stereotypically feminine things. I just enjoy doing them. mrgreen

I don't think you need to prove you're a girl to anybody.

I'm really hoping you understood what the argument between Poe and I was about... Because I wasn't saying you're not a girl for using your d**k. But she obviously totally misinterpreted it, and made this argument about identity, when it never really was. I never said anything about gender identity.

You said something earlier to the effect of "I don't know why a woman would be okay with being ******** like a man with tits".

It was offensive, but I forgive you. You were just frustrated.

Thank you. You understand where I'm coming from.

But yeah, I legitimately don't understand that. I would not like to be ******** like a woman with a beard (sorry, can't come up with a better example). BUT like I said earlier sometimes I'm horny enough that I would go to that extreme just for sex. And I don't think that makes me a nymphomaniac as Poe accused me.

I just realized she hasn't gone by that name for SUCH a long time. Does she still go by that? >_>

It's what I call her.

I don't normally like my genitals to be touched, but I'm not going to judge someone else if they can handle it.

[Rosetta Celestine]

Sexual Chocolat

Woa I just realized the name of this thread again so hi. I'm Rio, I'm FtM, the ******** up. 9-11 called my a** at 130AM telling me to get off Facebook and come here so why am I here. Hi good morning from Joisey.

Hiya

[September the Eleventh]

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I know what you mean there, I've gotten hella pleasure from a**l too. The whole "female prostate" thing's probably true though as for location we're all different so meh. Mine's like, way deep...damn this conversation's gotten hot.

Finally someone else knows what I'm talking about. gonk

Lol, I'm not hot and bothered. I had to beat one off like, a half an hour ago, because the testosterone is relentless. The way I masturbate (if it isn't a**l) has to be really indirect, and purely external, for me to be able to get off enough to put my libido at bay. :/ If I had a d**k it would be so much easier to just jack off and get it done with. But because of my dysphoria I have to circumvent around my physical body, and work at it for a damn long time before things feel right.

Damn that sucks a**. I know what you're talking about in terms of FUKKIN HORNY
it seems my body makes too much testosterone for a normal female. Which is funny as hell since I've beyond D-Cups and a very curvy figure. I talk to other girls about this and I get WTF looks. I have to bust one off at least three times a day, on my period, maybe four times a day. And is it strange that I prefer penetratING to being penetratED?(with strap-ons of course though at times I would prefer to own a p***s.)

Yeah, it's really damn annoying. Another thing that bothers me; transgirls have the tools, but their libido goes down so they need it less. Transmen lack the tools, but their libido goes up, so they have a dilemma. Therein lies my dilemma.

Grrrrrrrrl, when I had periods I was so turned-off. Then again, I didn't feel like I was supposed to have periods. But I'd go without masturbation for the whole 5-7 days of bleeding nightmare. Fortunately I didn't have the sex drive then that I have now, and I don't have the periods now (As much, I'm running out of T, can't get more, so I've lowered my dose, as a result am having a period every couple months.

I don't thing preferring penetrating or even wanting a p***s is weird for a girl. A lot of girls have completely natural p***s envy. It's when they hate their vag, have serious discomfort with their female attirbutes, etc. that they might want to consider seeing a therapist and seeing if they need to transition.

Daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayum, that's ******** up.
Glad I'm not trans though thinking about it I just may be in terms of sex.
I don't know. I don't think I have p***s envy as I just enjoy being dominant and on top. ALWAYS. I'm only submissive with myself, alone, with toys. Man I ******** hate periods not only do I get turned on IMMENSELY FOR NO REASON the bleeding's a real b***h. But I deal with it. One word. TAMPONS. FUKKIN TAMPONS. PADS ARE FOR BITCHES. But I fukkin hate my vag. Would rather have a c**k but I don't want to be a man. If I could somehow have a c**k and be a woman through and through then I'd sign RIGHT the ******** up I would yes I would!!!

Hey, if you're trans, you might not necessarily be "100% man" or "100% women." You may very well be trans but fall into a middleground. 3nodding

You probably get turned on during the period because of the increase in hormones during that time. For me it felt SO WRONG, I could tell a period was coming, the hormones increase, I could physically notice the changes; my breasts would get larger, my skin softer, and I would just feel DIFFERENT, and I HATED it... so much.

Well, it's hard to say. A lot of people deny having "p***s envy" when they really do because they think that undermines their desire. I can tell you right now: I am a transman, LEGITIMATELY a man, and I have very strong p***s envy. I don't think that undermines my desire or makes it fake or anything.

Maaaaaaaannn I notice the changes too AND I FUKKIN HATE THEM!!!
So something like third gendered? Nah. I love being a woman. Just hate periods, having a v****a, etc. xp IRL I'm pretty...well! Now that I think about it I'm pretty ******** masculine! rofl I can do 150 pushups in a row, have yet to lose a fistfight against a man, women confuse the hell outta me, all my best friends are guys and I prefer their company to women. But I do dress pretty feminine. I prefer skirts to pants and I dress sort of Lolita-ish. xp I'm a giant-a** oxymoron.

[Sexual Chocolat]

Rosetta Celestine

Sexual Chocolat

Woa I just realized the name of this thread again so hi. I'm Rio, I'm FtM, the ******** up. 9-11 called my a** at 130AM telling me to get off Facebook and come here so why am I here. Hi good morning from Joisey.

Hiya

What's good and 9-11 is there something you want to tell us and me. surprised

[Syndactyly]

@ Rosetta: I should learn to be a lot more like you. sad You're flexible, you can empathize, and put yourself in someone else's shoes... I just don't know how to do that.

September the Eleventh

Maaaaaaaannn I notice the changes too AND I FUKKIN HATE THEM!!!
So something like third gendered? Nah. I love being a woman. Just hate periods, having a v****a, etc. xp IRL I'm pretty...well! Now that I think about it I'm pretty ******** masculine! rofl I can do 150 pushups in a row, have yet to lose a fistfight against a man, women confuse the hell outta me, all my best friends are guys and I prefer their company to women. But I do dress pretty feminine. I prefer skirts to pants and I dress sort of Lolita-ish. xp I'm a giant-a** oxymoron.

Just a word of caution: Don't convince yourself you're trans. This isn't about being convinced. You either know or you don't. I'm only saying this because people who don't need to transition, and do, can regret it, and cause themselves TRUE dysphoria and realize what we, transsexuals, deal with every day. I would wish that fate on NO ONE.

Haha. I wish I could do that. I got to a point, before I started testosterone, where I could do TEN push ups. That, for me, was AMAZING. Before I couldn't even do one. Now I think if I worked at it I might be able to get up to 20.

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xCasondra

This topic has me wide eyed. I'm not even sure how to take in all this information at once.

I wish I had a d**k, tbh. Clits just seem.. not enough. You know? Can't do s**t with it other than rubbing it.

It's like women are cursed to living pleasure-less. It's not like intercourse actually completely feels good, without the pain of pounding a uterus.

I too feel I suffer from too much testostorone, though I am a woman. I have battled a few strands of facial hair for a bit, and it's not fun. I also have enormous breasts and enormous hips. But I still feel like I'm not being compensated.

Orgasms don't even feel ultimate anymore, it's gotten to where it's just boring.

Wouldn't it be kinda awesome if we were all genderless? And reproduced by cloning ourselves?

Technically, all you can do is rub a p***s.

I think a lot of women are fascinated with dicks, thanks to society's patriarchy. We are TOLD that a v****a/clitoris is useless and less exciting than a p***s. We are ALSO in a male-dominated society.

That might be (the orgasm thing) a legitimate health issue worth looking into. But it is also true that some women have difficulty orgasming. I would recommend trying a**l sex before giving up. Also, even a sex change wouldn't save you; transmen can't get a decent p***s.

If we were all genderless that would solve a lot of problems.

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@ Rosetta: I should learn to be a lot more like you. sad You're flexible, you can empathize, and put yourself in someone else's shoes... I just don't know how to do that.

September the Eleventh

Maaaaaaaannn I notice the changes too AND I FUKKIN HATE THEM!!!
So something like third gendered? Nah. I love being a woman. Just hate periods, having a v****a, etc. xp IRL I'm pretty...well! Now that I think about it I'm pretty ******** masculine! rofl I can do 150 pushups in a row, have yet to lose a fistfight against a man, women confuse the hell outta me, all my best friends are guys and I prefer their company to women. But I do dress pretty feminine. I prefer skirts to pants and I dress sort of Lolita-ish. xp I'm a giant-a** oxymoron.

Just a word of caution: Don't convince yourself you're trans. This isn't about being convinced. You either know or you don't. I'm only saying this because people who don't need to transition, and do, can regret it, and cause themselves TRUE dysphoria and realize what we, transsexuals, deal with every day. I would wish that fate on NO ONE.

Haha. I wish I could do that. I got to a point, before I started testosterone, where I could do TEN push ups. That, for me, was AMAZING. Before I couldn't even do one. Now I think if I worked at it I might be able to get up to 20.

Maaaaaannnnnnnnnnn do I know that. Saw some stuff on Maury about people who thought they were trans then it bit them in the a** and stuff was even worse than before trying to go back in time. And it's easy, bro! You just do a little every other day for a few weeks, keep at it, be sure to let yourself have some downtime too and eat right! Get your three meals a day in and don't push yourself as your physical strength increases slowly.

EDIT:And hey Rio, join the party. ^_^

[Rosetta Celestine]

xCasondra

This topic has me wide eyed. I'm not even sure how to take in all this information at once.

I wish I had a d**k, tbh. Clits just seem.. not enough. You know? Can't do s**t with it other than rubbing it.

It's like women are cursed to living pleasure-less. It's not like intercourse actually completely feels good, without the pain of pounding a uterus.

I too feel I suffer from too much testostorone, though I am a woman. I have battled a few strands of facial hair for a bit, and it's not fun. I also have enormous breasts and enormous hips. But I still feel like I'm not being compensated.

Orgasms don't even feel ultimate anymore, it's gotten to where it's just boring.

Wouldn't it be kinda awesome if we were all genderless? And reproduced by cloning ourselves?

Nope. One of my greatest dreams is it to be pregnant and for all I know that could become available in the future for me. I like the differences between men and women.

[Syndactyly]

September the Eleventh

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@ Rosetta: I should learn to be a lot more like you. sad You're flexible, you can empathize, and put yourself in someone else's shoes... I just don't know how to do that.

September the Eleventh

Maaaaaaaannn I notice the changes too AND I FUKKIN HATE THEM!!!
So something like third gendered? Nah. I love being a woman. Just hate periods, having a v****a, etc. xp IRL I'm pretty...well! Now that I think about it I'm pretty ******** masculine! rofl I can do 150 pushups in a row, have yet to lose a fistfight against a man, women confuse the hell outta me, all my best friends are guys and I prefer their company to women. But I do dress pretty feminine. I prefer skirts to pants and I dress sort of Lolita-ish. xp I'm a giant-a** oxymoron.

Just a word of caution: Don't convince yourself you're trans. This isn't about being convinced. You either know or you don't. I'm only saying this because people who don't need to transition, and do, can regret it, and cause themselves TRUE dysphoria and realize what we, transsexuals, deal with every day. I would wish that fate on NO ONE.

Haha. I wish I could do that. I got to a point, before I started testosterone, where I could do TEN push ups. That, for me, was AMAZING. Before I couldn't even do one. Now I think if I worked at it I might be able to get up to 20.

Maaaaaannnnnnnnnnn do I know that. Saw some stuff on Maury about people who thought they were trans then it bit them in the a** and stuff was even worse than before trying to go back in time. And it's easy, bro! You just do a little every other day for a few weeks, keep at it, be sure to let yourself have some downtime too and eat right! Get your three meals a day in and don't push yourself as your physical strength increases slowly.

EDIT:And hey Rio, join the party. ^_^

Yeah... Maury can be a d**k when it comes to trans issues but some of the trans stuff he shows can be helpful and educational.
Yeah, I've noticed. I watched one of Buck Angel's work out videos and that really put working on into perspective for me. I know what I need to do now. Now all I really need to do is find the time to do it.

[Syndactyly]

Rosetta Celestine

xCasondra

This topic has me wide eyed. I'm not even sure how to take in all this information at once.

I wish I had a d**k, tbh. Clits just seem.. not enough. You know? Can't do s**t with it other than rubbing it.

It's like women are cursed to living pleasure-less. It's not like intercourse actually completely feels good, without the pain of pounding a uterus.

I too feel I suffer from too much testostorone, though I am a woman. I have battled a few strands of facial hair for a bit, and it's not fun. I also have enormous breasts and enormous hips. But I still feel like I'm not being compensated.

Orgasms don't even feel ultimate anymore, it's gotten to where it's just boring.

Wouldn't it be kinda awesome if we were all genderless? And reproduced by cloning ourselves?

Nope. One of my greatest dreams is it to be pregnant and for all I know that could become available in the future for me. I like the differences between men and women.

This is true. A lot of my dreams very much involve being physically a man. I'd really like to be a father, naturally. But I also want to be with a man. I want my man to get butt pregnant. Lol.

[Sexual Chocolat]

September the Eleventh

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@ Rosetta: I should learn to be a lot more like you. sad You're flexible, you can empathize, and put yourself in someone else's shoes... I just don't know how to do that.

September the Eleventh

Maaaaaaaannn I notice the changes too AND I FUKKIN HATE THEM!!!
So something like third gendered? Nah. I love being a woman. Just hate periods, having a v****a, etc. xp IRL I'm pretty...well! Now that I think about it I'm pretty ******** masculine! rofl I can do 150 pushups in a row, have yet to lose a fistfight against a man, women confuse the hell outta me, all my best friends are guys and I prefer their company to women. But I do dress pretty feminine. I prefer skirts to pants and I dress sort of Lolita-ish. xp I'm a giant-a** oxymoron.

Just a word of caution: Don't convince yourself you're trans. This isn't about being convinced. You either know or you don't. I'm only saying this because people who don't need to transition, and do, can regret it, and cause themselves TRUE dysphoria and realize what we, transsexuals, deal with every day. I would wish that fate on NO ONE.

Haha. I wish I could do that. I got to a point, before I started testosterone, where I could do TEN push ups. That, for me, was AMAZING. Before I couldn't even do one. Now I think if I worked at it I might be able to get up to 20.

Maaaaaannnnnnnnnnn do I know that. Saw some stuff on Maury about people who thought they were trans then it bit them in the a** and stuff was even worse than before trying to go back in time. And it's easy, bro! You just do a little every other day for a few weeks, keep at it, be sure to let yourself have some downtime too and eat right! Get your three meals a day in and don't push yourself as your physical strength increases slowly.

EDIT:And hey Rio, join the party. ^_^

Still can't beat my 200, b***h. xd Maury Povich can lick my bootyhole and hey man I'll teach you better than her, I'm a bodybuilder, dawg. cool

[September the Eleventh]

Sexual Chocolat

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@ Rosetta: I should learn to be a lot more like you. sad You're flexible, you can empathize, and put yourself in someone else's shoes... I just don't know how to do that.

September the Eleventh

Maaaaaaaannn I notice the changes too AND I FUKKIN HATE THEM!!!
So something like third gendered? Nah. I love being a woman. Just hate periods, having a v****a, etc. xp IRL I'm pretty...well! Now that I think about it I'm pretty ******** masculine! rofl I can do 150 pushups in a row, have yet to lose a fistfight against a man, women confuse the hell outta me, all my best friends are guys and I prefer their company to women. But I do dress pretty feminine. I prefer skirts to pants and I dress sort of Lolita-ish. xp I'm a giant-a** oxymoron.

Just a word of caution: Don't convince yourself you're trans. This isn't about being convinced. You either know or you don't. I'm only saying this because people who don't need to transition, and do, can regret it, and cause themselves TRUE dysphoria and realize what we, transsexuals, deal with every day. I would wish that fate on NO ONE.

Haha. I wish I could do that. I got to a point, before I started testosterone, where I could do TEN push ups. That, for me, was AMAZING. Before I couldn't even do one. Now I think if I worked at it I might be able to get up to 20.

Maaaaaannnnnnnnnnn do I know that. Saw some stuff on Maury about people who thought they were trans then it bit them in the a** and stuff was even worse than before trying to go back in time. And it's easy, bro! You just do a little every other day for a few weeks, keep at it, be sure to let yourself have some downtime too and eat right! Get your three meals a day in and don't push yourself as your physical strength increases slowly.

EDIT:And hey Rio, join the party. ^_^

Still can't beat my 200, b***h. xd Maury Povich can lick my bootyhole and hey man I'll teach you better than her, I'm a bodybuilder, dawg. cool

...GTFO now. I don't put creatine in my Corn Flakes so I win. >XP