So does this make me a bad person?

[II -MS MUFFINS-II]

idk i guess ur not a bad person..i mean theres worse things dat you could do rolleyes
an now everyone knos bout chu congrats! rofl

[manpixie]

romapri chu

Though I am still a "virgin",

Guys, the quotiation marks mean d**k sucker.

[internym]

Homosexual Pastafarian

romapri chu

Though I am still a "virgin",

Guys, the quotiation marks mean d**k sucker.

lol

[willneverhurtagain]

naaah... even the whole "marriage before sex" thing is a bit to traditional for me... i don't conform

[intensityXIN]

No.

[Crimson Ice Princess]

romapri chu

Positive answers, I'm glad most of you concur. P:
I was just curious what people thought - I'm really sound with my own opinion, but obviously other people have their own.

I personally think it's absolutely fine.

I have a thing about people who are against all types of sex (oh noes). There's just not a logical reason for it. Oral and actual intercourse, there are obvious reasons why not (the possible spread of STDs and/or unwanted pregnancies - if your partner has a cold sore or is shedding without the sore, he can pass it on to your nether regions with oral). But I think manual sex is a-ok for teenagers (that would be handjobs and such). Because, let's face it, whether or not society wants to actually believe it, you do have hormones and a sex drive; however, manual sex lets you satisfy that drive without having to worry about a thing.

If you do choose to have actual intercourse in the future - and from what you're saying, it sounds like you're smart enough to be abstinent until you're old enough to risk pregnancy without ruining your life doing it - then just remember to be safe, and it's still all good.

[JesusSonOfGod]

romapri chu

I'm still a young girl.
I am a straight A student.
I plan on going to college and becoming a psychiatrist.
I am very active in many clubs in my school.
I volunteer at various places whenever I have the time.
I am very close to my family, and I have never had problems with the law.
I do not drink, or smoke.

But very recently I engaged in sexual affairs with my boyfriend.
I am not married to him obviously - and we are both underaged.

I personally don't believe that participating in sexual acts with him makes me a bad person. Though I am still a "virgin", what is your take on this? Do you think that just because a person has been sexually active though they are not married and are young, that it makes them a bad person?

Just curious to know your opinions. C:

Honey, sometimes when you're worried about whether something is a sin or not, it helps to know why the rules are there.

Dad wants us to wait till we're married for sex because, while sex is fun and pleasurable, it also has major effects on your brain chemistry and stuff like that. So in order to have the best sex possible - and that's something God hopes all his children can have - you really have to be emotionally attached and committed to each other.

Also, a lot of diseases transmit themselves sexually, so if you only ever have sex with one person, your chances are drastically reduced - although I hear you guys have technology for that now.

So... as for whether or not it makes you a bad person...no... but it might make it hurt more if you end up not committing to your boyfriend for life, in sickness and in health, you know, the usual.

[DjChick731]

i don't like phsychiatrists, but other then that you seem.. like the type of person i don't really talk to o.o ..... ^-^ but you seem nice enough..
that doesnt make you a bad person but it's all how you view good or bad people... i think bad people do people that purposely do things to harm others, emotionally or physically, so based on my views, no, your not a bad person, but be careful, ^-^ rumors could start spreading about you soon