Dandrogyny
When our relationship is going well, yeah, sex occurs every couple days at least. Right now is what I'd call a "dry spell". This isn't typical for us. I like morning sex and evening sex but yeah basically we have sex whenever we have that opportunity. It can be hard since we don't have our own place yet. Basically have to find times when no one is home. Having sex in the middle of the day is kinda weird just because it's like, we're supposed to like get all fixed up to go back to socializing after all that.
I do not understand the idea of having sex on a "set day". We've never "planned" sex. It may be on a schedule like, "sometime after work," but it's not like "on the 8th we shall have sex!" Except our anniversary. I love morning sex. I'm kinda like you. It really is inconvenient to do it in the middle of the day. It's easy at night for sure if you live with people that go to bed early, unless they sleep lightly. I love spending the night with a girl, and having sex like three times during the night. I feel like it feels the best when it's just natural like that. But yeah, if we end up doing it in the middle of the day, she sometimes complains that I messed up her hair or made her face or neck red and whatnot.