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i go to a vocational school with uniforms and i HATE it. i've had a lot of classes with kids that went to my old school and they're still as dissobediant and add as they were in middle school. my polo's are ill-fitting and ugly as ever. my unirom colors are baby blue polos, black pants or shorts or skirts, and royal blue hoodies. i go to school everyday looking like a giant bruise. kids still misbehave in my school, i still get teased and picked on for whatever reasons (i don't even know any more) along with all my other friends. the rich kids still think they're better then everyone one else, and one of the kids from camden still had the nads to punch an assistant principal in the face. if the results from my school doesn't prove that uniforms don't work then what will? oh and the reason a uniform code was instilled in my school was because all the freshmen from '04 were following the pj bottom trend and wearing their pajama bottoms to school stressed WTF!!!! scream
Why do people care so much about what they wear to school? It's school, not a fashion show. I'm not being forced into a classroom to show off my designer jeans.
I agree with most of the points you made; yes is slightly prevents children from expressing their independence (although kids still have their own bags, pencilcases etc), but the main reason for school uniforms is for equaility. My school always used to go on about how "multi-cultural" it was, so the uniform brought everyone together, I suppose.

I live in the UK and majority of schools require uniforms so I haven't really known anything else, but now i'm going to college (which doesn't require uniforms), and as nice as it is to wear my own clothes, it's a bit of a hassle really, having to pick out something different everyday.

There were non-uniform days for charity, but that was used by kids to decipher what cliques everyone fell into, and often people would get picked on for their choice of clothing.

It's not that I don't agree with not having school uniform, I just think uniform is better suited for younger kids.
TigerlilyMae
HehFire

I put out more money in my semester at public school then I did my entire 4 years at my uniformed high school.


Well, great. But yours does not equate everyone elses.
You said uniforms in general are more expensive. I said mine isn't. I don't see a hole you proved in my arguement.
TigerlilyMae

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How does a uniform make socializing HARDER.


Did I ever say that? No, so let's not put words into my mouth, please.

TigerlilyMae

And school is not just about education, on a math and science level. School is also a breeding ground for socialization.

that was either a strike at uniform inhibiting socializing or a totally irrelevant statement.
TigerlilyMae

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REALLY. I'm sorry, but have you looked at all the little cliques? They all dress oddly similar... Same idea applies.


Our school didn't have cliques. We all melded and molded together. Cliques are stereotypical. We never judged upon someone's interests.
Total bullshit. If people didn't base opinions on clothes we wouldn't be having a discussion on uniforms.
TigerlilyMae

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They give one less thing for them to poke at, PERIOD.


Yes, b/c bullies just suddenly 'fade away' when uniforms are applied. Guess what, sweetie? They don't. They still exist. A bully will find SOMETHING to pick upon. "Walmart" vs "The Gap" still occurs. That's a fact you cannot deny.

First, your statement is condescending. Second, I never said they go away, I said it takes away one thing for them to make fun of you for. Third, we only made fun of kids for a lack of social grace or hand-eye coordination, something they can improve on. Kids can't change what kind of clothes their family can afford.
Ha ha ha. That's not a uniform. Uniforms are specifically designed. That's just a generally strict dress code. Uniforms are all the same, and the only changes are boys vs girls, skirts or pants. And which is more? Some overpriced made-in-China Abercrombie wardrobe that you can get for a quarter of the price at a non-label store, or a few pairs of pants/skirts and shirts from French toast?
For one year I had to wear uniforms, and not only was it expensive, and it doesn't make children get along any better.

...I remember on my last day at that school I wore my blue jeans, a t-shirt with a tiger on it, and my regular tennis shoes. You should have seen how fast a staff member came up to me and demanded for my i.d. and asked me why I wasn't wearing my uniform. I had a note from my mom saying it was my last day and, surprisingly, I was allowed to wear my regular clothes.

Sweet, sweet revenge.
merixthexninja
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Teki

Let’s start with the cost. It has cost my mom more this semester in "Uniform" school clothes than any other year in any of the lives of me and my two siblings. Now at first I thought this was just us, because my sister got brand name polo's etc. So I talked to some other parents who have children attending my sister’s school all of which told me the same thing. That it cost them a small fortune.


Actually, considering the cost of clothing in stores, and having to have all sorts of different clothes to match I dont see uniforms cost being a factor as you do not need to buy nearly as much to accomplish the same thing. Also, depending on the uniform they are often better manufactured and able to stand up to wear and tear. Would you like me to post an actual cost comparison between the uniform clothing of some popular uniform providers and the cost of clothing in stores in the mall?

The people who can afford to shop at stores in the mall don't have to worry about not being able to afford uniforms. "do not need to buy nearly as much to accomplish the same thing" What are you talking about, there? Less clothing needed per outfit, or less outfits total? Both are wrong, by the way.


Thank you for actually offering up a real analysis of the options instead of just making assumptions.

Let us look at clothing first since you are making accusations. For a week of school you need minimum 5 shirts, 5 pairs of pants or skirts. 5 different pairs of socks, at least 3 different pairs of shoes if you are a girl, then earrings, headwear, and other accesories to go with the individual outfits. Then the next week you need more of the same. Seriously, what are you going to do, wear the same clothing week after week? Guys might be able to get away with something like this, but if you are a girl wearing the same outfit to school every week you are going to be laughed out of school. Now, you might save some money by mixing and matching outfits so you could wear different parts at different times, but really you are going to need at least 2 weeks of clothing.

Let us do some basic cost. (you would have trouble in walmart at these prices)
10 shirts dirt cheep 10 dollars a peice. 10 shorts/pants/skirts dirt cheap 10 dollars a peice. 3 pairs of shoes 15 dollars a peice. We will say you dont wear anything else like jewelry, hair accesories, hats, jackets, belts, or anything else.

You just spent 245 dollars. Of course, this is buying cheap walmart clothing

School uniforms. They are all the same, so if you and you don't want to wear the same uniform twice without washing you could probably get away with 3 days on your top and bottom. You have your single jacket which I never even mentioned up above. You have a pair of dress shoes and a pair of sneakers. You have the same number of socks, undewear, and other things as above.

So, let us analize the uniform prices. Quick search for a school uniform company.

Blouse 8-10 dollars (expensive 15-1 cool
shorts 12-13 dollars (expensive 17-20)
Jumper 12-13 dollars (expensive 18-20)
Skirts 11-13 dollars (expensive 15-1 cool

Let us do the addition. 3 of each uniform. Blouse or shirt, pair of pants/shorts or skirt. Then one pair of shoes bought at walmart (15 dollars). And we will even throw in a school jacket for 20 dollars. That is 104 dollars, and you are covered for the year for school. then you could buy the headbands, hats, or whatever else you want to accesorise with. So, let us say you spent 40 dollars on other things, you are still 100 dollars less than your walmart hanna montana clothing. You would probably get beaten up less in a uniform than if you were wearing walmarts hanna montana line.

Now, do I need to go to walmart and add up what 10 cheap outfits are actually going to run for you, or are you capable of actually doing the math. BTW the site is french toast a uniform provider for schools. Yes, you may get into a more expensive uniform depending on the prestige of your school. However, maybe you want to go to a cheaper school or bring it up with the board if you want a more reasonable uniform provider. Just because a school choses an expensive uniform provider does not mean it has to. Even so, if you had to pay 300 dollars for 3 uniforms you would be hard pressed to get 10 different full outfits at walmart for that price.

Your point is hereby disproven until you can offer up something other than the "i hate uniforms response.



merixthexninja

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Teki

I also believe kids should be able to choose what they wear and express themselves through their clothing (with in reason of course I don’t think kids should go to school naked or anything). Kids have everything chosen for them from when the go to bed to what they eat the least we can do is allowing them to pick out what shirt they wear each morning.


Are you an artist? I don't think so. Normally when we let children express themselves 90% of it is complete and utter crap. Really, what parts are you wanting to express? Could it be your tits, a**, legs, or whatever else you are going to expose when you go out and dress up as your favorite hollywood bimbo. When you let boys express themselves you normally get curse words and dumb a** porn drawings. OK, so maybe omne or two actual artists are in your school. They can go express themselves in many ways including art class, music, literature, drama club,. and all sorts of other ways people who actually want to express themselves in a worthwhile fasion express themselves. The fact that you cant wear a dental floss skirt and some pasties to school isn't hindering your expression. Some day you will be able to get your own pimp, get knocked up, and whore yourself out. Just maybe you will haqve a high school diploma when you do it.


So everyone who expresses themself through clothing is a whore? Wow, that's right up there with pro-lifers stating anyone who gets an abortion is promiscuous.


Well, calling them whores has about as much factuality as claiming they are an artist. Probably a bit more because I have seen what a lot of kids who are allowed to wear whatever they want wear and you aren't helping your cause any.
merixthexninja

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Teki

Lastly kids make fun of each other it’s a fact of life. When you put all the kids in the same clothing they no longer can make fun of the shirt or shorts you wear, so they will turn to more permanent things like your nose, freckles, weight, size of feet, teeth just about anything. Kid can change the kinds of clothes they wear; they can’t change their nose (at least not without costly surgery). I also think that uniforms lower self esteem. When I'm in my work uniform I certainly don't feel good about myself. When I'm in my street clothes thinking I look cute or whatever my self esteem is much higher. I can’t see it being different for a child.


Oh, so you want kids to be able to make fun of this oh so important self expression you were talking about a point ago? Wow, that makes a lot of sense. Like you said kids are going to make fun no matter what so the point is irrelevant. At least this way the people who make fun of you will have to do it in a dorky school uniform. See, there is a bright side to everything.


Isn't a major selling point of having uniforms so kids can't make fun of each other? Teki sunk your battleship.


Actually, if you were able to read what I said, and what she claimed, kids will do it no matter what so her point was moot as either way kids would do it. It would just be something different. i went a step further and showed how stupid her point was since she claimed her self expression was tied up in her clothing and she admits kids would be making fun of her for who she was rather than a uniform that really doesn't state anything.

Do you mind offering up a real argument and not proving that perhaps you need to study more and spend less time figuring out how to express yourself with your clothing.
Teki
So the kids in my area went back to school yesterday. My sister has started middle school this year. She is now attending a school that has uniforms, cleverly disguised as something called standard school dress. It basically says she can wear school colors, along with Khaki, Black, and Navy blue. Her shirts must have colors and her skirts must be below the knee etc. It’s a uniform.

I am totally 100% against school uniforms. In the following I will give the reasons I'm against them and my arguments for the reasons I have heard people say they are for me (also reasons the school has given for issuing them). I want to hear other people’s points of view about the subject and I decided to post on Gaia to get a wider spectrum of people.

I disagree with putting our kids in uniforms for three main reasons. The first reason is the cost; the second is the infringement on the child's creativity and right to express themselves, and lastly the type of teasing uniforms cause.

Let’s start with the cost. It has cost my mom more this semester in "Uniform" school clothes than any other year in any of the lives of me and my two siblings. Now at first I thought this was just us, because my sister got brand name polo's etc. So I talked to some other parents who have children attending my sister’s school all of which told me the same thing. That it cost them a small fortune.

I also believe kids should be able to choose what they wear and express themselves through their clothing (with in reason of course I don’t think kids should go to school naked or anything). Kids have everything chosen for them from when the go to bed to what they eat the least we can do is allowing them to pick out what shirt they wear each morning.

Lastly kids make fun of each other it’s a fact of life. When you put all the kids in the same clothing they no longer can make fun of the shirt or shorts you wear, so they will turn to more permanent things like your nose, freckles, weight, size of feet, teeth just about anything. Kid can change the kinds of clothes they wear; they can’t change their nose (at least not without costly surgery). I also think that uniforms lower self esteem. When I'm in my work uniform I certainly don't feel good about myself. When I'm in my street clothes thinking I look cute or whatever my self esteem is much higher. I can’t see it being different for a child.

The most common excuses for why people want uniforms is that it stops gang violence and teasing. I already addressed the bit about teasing, so all move on to the gang violence bit. I’m not sure how people could possibly think that it’s really going to stop gang violence. How could you think that preventing them from wearing the colors is going to stop them from telling each other who they are? There are plenty of ways around it that a gang member to tell other gang members what gang there part of. There are symbols, they could throw up, or put on their notebooks, they could have specifically colored note books, or pens etc.

So Gaia what do you think of school uniforms?


As for the cost, its a money making deal the have with the companies that make them. As for the creativity aspect. I don't know if its just me, but kids these days, especially the little girls dress rather skanky. I believe there should be a strict dress code because most parents arn't parent enough to teach their kids how they should act and present themselves. But an actual specific uniform is too much. Skirts below the knee for example, is a great idea. Kids should be allowed to express themselves, but there's no need to let them dress like cheap floozies.
Minuialear


What about those who don't get their clothes in the mall? Are those uniform providers cheaper than the Salvation Army? stare


Actually, I did a cost analysis in a previous post of an actual uniform provider and showed how it would be comparible to walmart, and because you would need less outfits it would actually be cheaper. Feel free to try some facts sometime.

Let us also be real here. It has been a long time since i was in school, but the kids in the salvation army clothing were beaten up fairly regularly and made fun of for being poor. Come on, kids were wearing 300 dollar sneakers to school to be cool way back then, are you telling me you are going to be cool in whatever the welfare brand of shoes is? Kids can spot walmart clothing pretty well. Please, I have seen the kids pitching a fit because their parents forced them to buy at walmart, and I see plenty of kids doing their shopping at the mall.

Actually, I can tell you the quality of school uniforms is far better than what you are going to get retail. They are built to last. Especially what they sell to girls today. Have you seen how thin and flimsy that fabric is? The washing machine tears a lot of it to shreds. Not to mention the seams are often poorly sewn and finished.
Minuialear

Cool, so people are only expressing themselves if they dress like sluts or gangsters. The kids wearing normal jeans and normal t-shirts aren't trying to express their style at all. That's great to know.


yes. The kids wearing jeans and a T-shirt are not trying to express who they are. They are trying to wear clothing. The kids who are buying an image, be it whore, gangster, goth, emo, prep, joc or whatever are the ones expressing themselves through their clothing.

Minuialear

Are you trying to suggest that when bullies tease and harass other students while wearing uniforms, it's not so bad as it'd be if the bullies were in casual clothing? Just trying to understand this incredible deduction, here.


No, you really aren't. you are trying to build pointless straw men, but let me draw the picture for you with crayons so maybe you understand. I am telling you that no matter what you wear bullies will ******** with you. An a** kicking is an a** kicking in a uniform or some regular clothing. At least in a uniform you weren't getting your a** kicked for the image you tried to portray, and your clothing is less likely to be permanently ruined, and is cheaper and easier to replace.

At any rate, the problem here is not the clothing. The problem here is you tolerating bullies. There are simple ways to deal with bullies. I will tell you an interesting little secret. You attract them. It isn't the uniform. it isn't you clothing. it is your attitude. You are a target. It is fun to pick on you. Take it from someone who used to be there. It may not be right they chose you, but no one stops them. The only person who can stop them is you, and unless you are wearing a suit of armor and a shotgun, they are going to beat you up. So, don't blame the uniform for the problems in society. Blame the parents, faculty, and other people who allow these kids to roam free instead of being tossed into some prison where they belong.
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I have worn a uniform for the past eleven years, and I like it. I really do.

I know that my uniforms are ~$20 for a polo, ~$25 for a skirt, ~$20 for an oxford shirt, and ~$25 for a skort. While that may seem expensive for a lot of people, you've got to realize that I owned 1 polo, 1 skirt, 2 oxfords, and 1 skort. That's $110; much less than what I would have spent if I had to go out and buy school clothing. Plus, you add in seasonal clothing, fashion trends, and all of that jazz as well.

If uniforms limit a student's creativity, then that student wasn't particularly creative. You have plenty of opportunity to be creative with your school supplies, locker, hair, makeup, accessories, backpack, and purse. Heck, I even make my own earrings (It's actually really easy).

Also, with uniforms, no one teases you for wearing the same clothes day after day. I could wear my polo and skort every day for the entire school year and no one would say a thing because you know what? That's the exact same thing they do.

Bullies will pick on kids whether or not they wear uniforms. Do you really think that wearing casual clothing makes a bully less likely to make fun of someone's features?



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I bought most of my jeans from wal mart or the Salvation Army. The thing with the SA is, it's all based on donation, not welfare. Just keep checking and you can get some good clothes. The SA in Syracuse had a tux in it the other week. All out, in good condition. I got my pair of Rockport pennyloafers there. $300 dress shoes for $5. I've also gotten several high quality vests, pants, and jackets there as well. All for a few dollars a piece. And a set of Ping Eye2 golf clubs. My Amateur Golf friend was jealous of them, because they're a few hundred dollars.

At SA you can find any quality of clothes. Just people look down at it because normally in society, cost related to the quality. But not so in this case.

Anyways. I'm not against uniforms in private schools. Or schools with really high gang violence. Uniforms keeps gangs like the Bloods and the Crypts out of the school. And trust me, kids don't make fun of only clothes. If you think that, you haven't been in school for a long time. And even with uniforms they will find a way to make fun of them, or anything else that's easy to make fun of.

As for lower self esteem in uniform. That's a person thing. When I'm in uniform, I know I have a job to do. That certain things are expected of me because I'm a represenative of that business so long as I have that uniform on. Other people might act no differently. Or others might get low self esteem such as yourself. It all depends on the person, and you can't use a personal experience like that to support your claim.


Final note: I wear mostly T-shirts and jeans. That is a fashion you know. Just because it's jeans means they don't care about their look? Strange.
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I find nothing wrong with school uniforms. It's actually good for preparing students for later in life. And teachers have to wear them anyways, so students should have to as well.
yea i think people like street clothes much more than they will ever like what someone tells them to wear
HehFire
You said uniforms in general are more expensive. I said mine isn't. I don't see a hole you proved in my arguement.


So, wait...I never said mine was for everyone. But, now you're passing yours as all. Hypocrite?

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that was either a strike at uniform inhibiting socializing or a totally irrelevant statement.


Oh, please, learn to read. You claimed that school wasn't a place for anything but education. I clarified that you go to school, not only to educate yourself in the maths and sciences, but in socialization, too. It wasn't a strike at anything...please not to put words in my mouth. Again.
TigerlilyMae

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REALLY. I'm sorry, but have you looked at all the little cliques? They all dress oddly similar... Same idea applies.


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Total bullshit. If people didn't base opinions on clothes we wouldn't be having a discussion on uniforms.


The only reason we had uniforms was because the School Board wanted easy regulation on girls who wore low riders, and too tight shirts. It had nothing to do with opinions upon clothes. My Goddess.

And, no, we didn't have cliques, again. We blended. We didn't judge. We met, based upon personality and interests, and bonded.

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First, your statement is condescending. Second, I never said they go away, I said it takes away one thing for them to make fun of you for. Third, we only made fun of kids for a lack of social grace or hand-eye coordination, something they can improve on. Kids can't change what kind of clothes their family can afford.


Condescending, how? The 'sweetie'? Babe, that's just how I speak. It's not anything against you, nor anyone.

Exactly, kids can't change the clothes they can afford. But a bully doesn't give a s**t about that. A clothes bully is a clothes bully, no matter what the attire is.

And, why pick on anyone, at all? A little consideration goes a long way.

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