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Yes, and at times. True love can just kick you in the arse once you admit to it. My love was for a best firend, who said they would always love me and never hurt me. They hurt me a month ago and I'm in pain cause of it. If it's really love, they why must they try to hurt you at the same time?
I'm going to pose an age-old argument against this. If your friend didn't hurt you, you would grow to not appreciate her, and how she treats you well. It's like the sun and rain--you won't appreciate the sun if it doesn't rain here and there. I believe I am in true love with someone, but I do not expect him to never ever hurt me despite the fact that he says he never wants to. And when he hurts me, I'm going to withdraw into myself and be in pain for a while, but then he'll draw me back out and I'll move on and I'll love him just the same as I did before. If you're hinging this entire argument over one little incident with your friend, you're naive and inexperienced, and probably shouldn't be arguing.