pocohantas/50 shades of grey crazy real life situation

[Liliahna]

The situation: A girl meets a guy from a long distance away. He is visiting the area working on a project for his business. They begin to spend a lot of time together. Get along and feeling begin to come into play. He wants her to drop everything and come with him. Her back-end job, friends, and family and not to mention her lifestyle would be dramatically effected.

In your oppinion what should this girl do?

The possibilities: He could be lying to her about everything that he has told her and his life is much different than what he revealed to her. He could be some super crazy psycho.

OR

He could be telling the truth. His feelings are real and all he wants is this woman to be with him to continue the happiness that they have found in the time that they have spent together.

Keep in mind!
Both parties in this situation are adults

[tangochan85]

I would say if she questions if he's telling the truth, it would be best not to upend her life for him. If she doesn't doubt his story, then she should go for it. She should go with her gut instinct and if that gut is saying, "I dunno," that's not a good reason to upend her life for him.

[Bogotanian]

So if this is a real life situation, when does the Pocahantas girl get smallpox?

[DontWannaGoHome]

Bogotanian

So if this is a real life situation, when does the Pocahantas girl get smallpox?

that question tho'

[Yoshpet]

Dropping everything and running away sounds romantic as a movie plot but it's not the product of adult sensibilities. It's reckless and dangerous, and even more so when there are doubts about how genuine this person is.

If they really have feelings then they'll have the patience to wait and have a long distance relationship while they sort out if they should move. Get confirmation about the guy's living situation. Picture of him in his apartment, in his office, with friends, etc. And also to see if the invite still stands after the high of visiting a new place has worn off.

[Avgvsto]

The guy should ask her fathers hand.

[Reiken no Tenshi]

There's a lot of information we don't have here. How long have they known one another? How well do they actually know one another? Who are the other people involved in the situation? Where does he live in relation to the girl? What would she be able to do if she DID go with him? I mean, sure, she'd be with him, but she would essentially be leaving everything she's ever known, and while that's not necessarily out of the norm for people to do, there have been many an instance of the person regretting it and being stuck wherever they're at because they don't know anybody else there and don't have a job or means to support themselves or get the necessary funds/resources to leave. What other reasons does she have to go with this guy? What other resources/support would she have besides him in case something went wrong?

[Liliahna]

Thank you. She appreciates it.

[Chahklet]

Why the ******** does she have to be the one to give up everything?

[Griffin Kaige]

Liliahna

The situation: A girl meets a guy from a long distance away. He is visiting the area working on a project for his business. They begin to spend a lot of time together. Get along and feeling begin to come into play. He wants her to drop everything and come with him. Her back-end job, friends, and family and not to mention her lifestyle would be dramatically effected.

In your oppinion what should this girl do?

The possibilities: He could be lying to her about everything that he has told her and his life is much different than what he revealed to her. He could be some super crazy psycho.

OR

He could be telling the truth. His feelings are real and all he wants is this woman to be with him to continue the happiness that they have found in the time that they have spent together.

Keep in mind!
Both parties in this situation are adults

She should use her brain, tell him she is not ready for that, but would like to continue in an LD relationship to see if it works out, THEN when she can financially support herself in a move, find a job near where he lives, and a place to rent,she could move.

[from blue to]

Chahklet

Why the ******** does she have to be the one to give up everything?

Obviously, he only want her if she values him above all things...or he's kind of a control freak. Not good, though.

[sitting cow]

i guess it depends on how long you know a person but even then sometimes there will be a falling out of friends after years spent together

or people will get divorced after years of being together

etc

just because someone changes into a psycho and you have to drop them, doesn't mean they were once a good friend. s**t happens.

and also what does this have to do with pohcahontas/shades of gray? lol...

[sitting cow]

Avgvsto

The guy should ask her fathers hand.

lol..

[Arcoon Effox]

Bogotanian

So if this is a real life situation, when does the Pocahantas girl get smallpox?

Since this is a "Pocahontas + 50 Shades" scenario, smallpox isn't likely the thing she should be concerned with catching... just as he should be worried about catching some prison time. If memory serves, wasn't she only like 14?