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Have you dated online?

Yeah, it didn't work out though. 0.19203557711744 19.2% [ 6650 ]
Nope. 0.36348147506425 36.3% [ 12587 ]
Yes! And things worked out great. 0.1101100233908 11.0% [ 3813 ]
I didn't choose to date online, I just fell in love. 0.14279938779636 14.3% [ 4945 ]
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You know its somthing I dont do, but Im not against it. The only thing that makes me mad is when they are offered a relationship in real life that they really want and say "No Sorry I cant I have an online gf" uh? yeah I dont get that, but your right it isnt for everyone. It usally takes a really mature person to make an actual online comitmint, and in other news my sisters cake is burning and that means no dessert!
(sorry I know I cant spell worth crap!)
Pepper2005
With all those killers out there, I won't even date a real person. It happens every hour I bet, but hey I am a lone man, and I want to live untill I am 90. There ARE crazy people out here, there, everywhere. If you DO met a person in real life, make sure its in a people infested area, that way if he/she does kill/harm you, you have witness, it happens EVERY day. Don't get confident, it could cost you your life.


And that is why you meet the person with a group of people.

demonic angel of the dead
You know its somthing I dont do, but Im not against it. The only thing that makes me mad is when they are offered a relationship in real life that they really want and say "No Sorry I cant I have an online gf" uh? yeah I dont get that, but your right it isnt for everyone. It usally takes a really mature person to make an actual online comitmint, and in other news my sisters cake is burning and that means no dessert!
(sorry I know I cant spell worth crap!)


Maybe the person fell in love? Don't give me the crap and say "omg but it's only online, real life iz soo much betta!11" Cause you know what?

It's possible for two people, online, to fall in love and take their relationship offline.
[I am teh Haruka]
So you're saying that people who date online aren't EVER gonna meet offline?

That's really ignorant.

What's wrong with communicating over MSN, yahoo, or AIM? I see nothing wrong with it. If a couple is dedicated enough to meet eachother offline in the future, why should you say that it's a waste of time?

There's something called a webcam.

No, I didn't mean it like that at all. I was talking about those people who don't make the effort in meeting htem offline, and for personally expecience, I have had an online relationship where it ended up being a 57 year old man in Chicago who pretended to be a 17 year old...
Trinity Kitty
[I am teh Haruka]
So you're saying that people who date online aren't EVER gonna meet offline?

That's really ignorant.

What's wrong with communicating over MSN, yahoo, or AIM? I see nothing wrong with it. If a couple is dedicated enough to meet eachother offline in the future, why should you say that it's a waste of time?

There's something called a webcam.

No, I didn't mean it like that at all. I was talking about those people who don't make the effort in meeting htem offline, and for personally expecience, I have had an online relationship where it ended up being a 57 year old man in Chicago who pretended to be a 17 year old...


Didja use a webcam?

x_x;; Cause if you didn't... then there's your problem.

Those who do not make an effort in their online relationship is just like a person offline not making an effort.

It ends right then and there.
[I am teh Haruka]
Pepper2005
With all those killers out there, I won't even date a real person. It happens every hour I bet, but hey I am a lone man, and I want to live untill I am 90. There ARE crazy people out here, there, everywhere. If you DO met a person in real life, make sure its in a people infested area, that way if he/she does kill/harm you, you have witness, it happens EVERY day. Don't get confident, it could cost you your life.


And that is why you meet the person with a group of people.

demonic angel of the dead
You know its somthing I dont do, but Im not against it. The only thing that makes me mad is when they are offered a relationship in real life that they really want and say "No Sorry I cant I have an online gf" uh? yeah I dont get that, but your right it isnt for everyone. It usally takes a really mature person to make an actual online comitmint, and in other news my sisters cake is burning and that means no dessert!
(sorry I know I cant spell worth crap!)


Maybe the person fell in love? Don't give me the crap and say "omg but it's only online, real life iz soo much betta!11" Cause you know what?

It's possible for two people, online, to fall in love and take their relationship offline.

I didnt say there was anything wrong with love online, I'm talking about people who meet a girl and date them the day they meet them then get offered to be dated by some one they really love, and they say "aw no I cant cauz I have an online girl friend"
[I am teh Haruka]
Didja use a webcam?

x_x;; Cause if you didn't... then there's your problem.

Those who do not make an effort in their online relationship is just like a person offline not making an effort.

It ends right then and there.

He claimed not to have a webcam... He did, however, send me pictures, and they were of 'he and his grandfather.'

I am far too trusting of a person, which is my downfall.
demonic angel of the dead

I didnt say there was anything wrong with love online, I'm talking about people who meet a girl and date them the day they meet them then get offered to be dated by some one they really love, and they say "aw no I cant cauz I have an online girl friend"


It's unfair to the one online. And the person knows that, maybe that's why they didn't accept?
Trinity Kitty
[I am teh Haruka]
Didja use a webcam?

x_x;; Cause if you didn't... then there's your problem.

Those who do not make an effort in their online relationship is just like a person offline not making an effort.

It ends right then and there.

He claimed not to have a webcam... He did, however, send me pictures, and they were of 'he and his grandfather.'

I am far too trusting of a person, which is my downfall.


Oh, I see.

o_o
[I am teh Haruka]
Oh, I see.

o_o


I realise that I am being a tad biased, due to my own experiences, and I appologise for it, but it does happen, like to myself.

In any case, I have to be off.

Ta.
[I am teh Haruka]
demonic angel of the dead

I didnt say there was anything wrong with love online, I'm talking about people who meet a girl and date them the day they meet them then get offered to be dated by some one they really love, and they say "aw no I cant cauz I have an online girl friend"


It's unfair to the one online. And the person knows that, maybe that's why they didn't accept?

Well I havent experienced love first hand so I dont know how strong it is, but If I were in an online relationship with a girl a barley know, and a girl who i really loved offline asked me to date I would except and try to explain the situation to the girl online. Because its not fair to not tell her. but its also not fair to the one I love to say "IM not going to date you because Im with a girl I barley know". btw I like your forum idea.
Group of people, well lets say bf or gf, has a gun and shots all of them, there goes your group of people, if not gun, knife then. YOU need a weapon, not the otherperson. The worst thing you can do is NOT bring any type of weapon.Hide your weapon in your pants or shirt. It takes less than three seconds to shoot someone.
Internet dating is perfectly fine. I've had two internet relationships and I met one of the girls. Neither worked out becasue of the distance (it takes it's toll) but I don't regret either of them.
demonic angel of the dead

Well I havent experienced love first hand so I dont know how strong it is, but If I were in an online relationship with a girl a barley know, and a girl who i really loved offline asked me to date I would except and try to explain the situation to the girl online. Because its not fair to not tell her. but its also not fair to the one I love to say "IM not going to date you because Im with a girl I barley know". btw I like your forum idea.


But why would you date someone online if you were in love with a girl offline?

Pepper2005
Group of people, well lets say bf or gf, has a gun and shots all of them, there goes your group of people, if not gun, knife then. YOU need a weapon, not the otherperson. The worst thing you can do is NOT bring any type of weapon.Hide your weapon in your pants or shirt. It takes less than three seconds to shoot someone.


You're really paranoid, aren't you?

That's why people would meet in a very public place with a lot of people around. What's the chance of the person shooting EVERYONE? And why would anyone wait a long time to kill the person?

Not only is that theory pathetic, but makes no sense anyway.
[I am teh Haruka]
demonic angel of the dead

Well I havent experienced love first hand so I dont know how strong it is, but If I were in an online relationship with a girl a barley know, and a girl who i really loved offline asked me to date I would except and try to explain the situation to the girl online. Because its not fair to not tell her. but its also not fair to the one I love to say "IM not going to date you because Im with a girl I barley know". btw I like your forum idea.


But why would you date someone online if you were in love with a girl offline?

Pepper2005
Group of people, well lets say bf or gf, has a gun and shots all of them, there goes your group of people, if not gun, knife then. YOU need a weapon, not the otherperson. The worst thing you can do is NOT bring any type of weapon.Hide your weapon in your pants or shirt. It takes less than three seconds to shoot someone.


You're really paranoid, aren't you?

That's why people would meet in a very public place with a lot of people around. What's the chance of the person shooting EVERYONE? And why would anyone wait a long time to kill the person?

Not only is that theory pathetic, but makes no sense anyway.

maybe you thought you'd never had a chance. So you gave up even though you were still in love.
i think it is not alright because u dont know the person and they can be an online preditor.they can be crazy.u just dont take that chance.ive seen too many movies like that.

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