MachineMuse
Kimihiro_Watanuki
I was a bit of a sadist so creeping them out was my form of punishment. Every "Nice Guy" has a way in which they "punish" women for ignoring or rejecting them. Like making fun of her in public or refusing to return a call because she said she couldn't talk to you sometime before. My kind of punishment was placing pressure on a girl. Keeping tallies of all the "nice" things I did for her and then shoving it in her face when she didn't just flop on the bed, legs spread eagle, begging for the D.
Frankly if a girl (or guy, yes I've had to turn down a few and I'm straight at that) can't take a hint, I feel like I need to be more stern with them. It's like a child in a store begging for a toy. You say no to them a few times and they whine louder and louder. You get more stern with them until frankly it's time to grab the belt and whoop some a**.
Screw their need for validation.
Holy s**t, that's way more neurotic than the ones I've dealt with.
I am
so glad I didn't run into you when I was more vulnerable and insecure.
Exactly. I'm glad I didn't hurt anyone during the time I was like that. I sound like a mental patient. Moving on.
"Nice Guys" will do the same kinds of things. They will complain about how "nice" they are to women and say things like "All these girls say they want nice guys! I'm a nice guy but they keep dating all these assholes!" The way I used to put it in some of my old threads was:
A girl says she wants A, but constantly goes for B and then complains that B is not A.
OR
Girls always say they want nice guys "like me". I'm about as "like me" as it's gonna get.
Of course, that was when I was pretty ignorant and couldn't read the intentions behind what people say and before I knew what a false dichotomy was.