Riviera de la Mancha
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- Posted: Tue, 20 Jan 2015 21:39:06 +0000
Eh, I don't know dude, but it seems to me like a fair amount of this loneliness you are experiencing is self-imposed.
I have read several of your posts and all you seem to do is go to bars. I don't care where you go in this world - bars are TERRIBLE places to meet people.
When you go somewhere, you say you only go when you have a purpose, which you defined as going to meet someone you already know, or accompanying a friend. You can't meet anyone new if you only hang with people you know.
I would take this opportunity to be more adventurous than you would in the US. I mean, how likely will it be that you will see anyone in that town again? Do you plan on living there where you are in Japan? If not, then why care what people will think? If I were you, I would be going into random bars and restaurants, forcing my way into conversations, chatting with strangers, going to random events, etc. I mean, ********, YOU ARE IN JAPAN. Not many people can say that they have been there.
Plus, you seem to have the added advantage of being a foreigner around people who have met few outsiders, if nothing else, make a game of going out. Sometimes when I used to travel on my own, I would make up a totally fictitious persona before going out and would then live that life out when I went out on the town. My goal was to see who, and how many, people I could fool and how far I could carry it before I had to abandon ship.
I have read several of your posts and all you seem to do is go to bars. I don't care where you go in this world - bars are TERRIBLE places to meet people.
When you go somewhere, you say you only go when you have a purpose, which you defined as going to meet someone you already know, or accompanying a friend. You can't meet anyone new if you only hang with people you know.
I would take this opportunity to be more adventurous than you would in the US. I mean, how likely will it be that you will see anyone in that town again? Do you plan on living there where you are in Japan? If not, then why care what people will think? If I were you, I would be going into random bars and restaurants, forcing my way into conversations, chatting with strangers, going to random events, etc. I mean, ********, YOU ARE IN JAPAN. Not many people can say that they have been there.
Plus, you seem to have the added advantage of being a foreigner around people who have met few outsiders, if nothing else, make a game of going out. Sometimes when I used to travel on my own, I would make up a totally fictitious persona before going out and would then live that life out when I went out on the town. My goal was to see who, and how many, people I could fool and how far I could carry it before I had to abandon ship.