Io[dream.eater]
EliteDanneh
Io[dream.eater]
EliteDanneh
Well. MOST carers of infantilists are infantilists themselves and are what's known as 'switch' in the BDSM community. They'll play a child sometimes but also be the carer sometimes. I fall under this term.
However...I don't actually know how you'd take a specific carer of an infantilist. I'd assume, if they were purely a carer for an infantilist/s, then they would in a way be attached to the infantilist community and be noted as one, much like those whom enjoy furry art are called furries even if they don't pretend they are an animal of any sort.
Ah, yes.
Switching has never made much sense to me, but I see what you mean.
I'm honestly starting to think infantilism could be fun.
It is! It's very innocent too! It's probably the LEAST sexual form of fetish possible, yet can still be immensely arrousing. A carer just caring to your every need is so nice, escaping from every day life, and what's better, you don't have to worry about 'satisfying' the other person sexually, because both people feel so good inside just to be together. It's such a bond building activity, at least for me.
If you really want to try it...The best way to find out if it's for you is to just pop your thumb into your mouth and curl up in bed. If you feel childish and not stupid, then you've probably got the right mindset to adapt it to a little bit of fun.
I really can't see it as a sexual fetish. It's more like a ... life fetish. I know I probably don't make much sense but, at least from my point of view, it'd make you feel good in a different way. I wouldn't relate it to my sexual life.
I don't think I'd do it often, but it could be fun from time to time anyways. I'd have to try out to know a bit more.
It can be both. Sexual and none sexual. Many infantilists enjoy the none sexual side, then later incorporate sexual things into it, whilst retaining the infantile side of such.
This can apply to several things. Enemas, diaper wearing and use, belittiling, spanking, etc.
Infantilism can be used in many ways, be it for relaxation, foreplay or even sexual fetish based play. In lifestyle, it can simply be used as a factoring tool and coping method for hard situations.