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Have you ever considered Infantilism?

Yes. 0.10983563788155 11.0% [ 421 ]
No. 0.69449517349335 69.4% [ 2662 ]
I am an infantilist...And I hearby claim one of your cookies! 0.1956691886251 19.6% [ 750 ]
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i never heard of infantilism until i ventured into this topic, so thankyou for educating me.

reading the first post, i can see nothing that is any way 'disturbing' or 'freaky' about infantilism, it seems to me like a perfectly, well not normal, but harmless and acceptable fetish/lifestyle.
it sounds cute to me.
i hope you manage to find a mummy and can carry on with your lifestyle choice without too many narrow-minded people being.. well.. narrow-minded.

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Aww! Thank you for your kindness! I agree, it's not 'normal' (If normal can even ever be correctly defined) but it brings me enjoyment, i'm glad you find it cute.

I'll PM and talk to you some more.

And thank you for your encouragement. ^_^
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1) Entertainment is to make you feel good...Thats what you said you use it for.

2) Closed.

3) Closed.

4) They don't control each other, I as a concious being control them both in relation to each other. And having sides is strange? Everyone can be angry or sad. I am just mature or immature. Not really all that different.
Everyone acts different when they are angry or sad and thinks different in either mindset, as do I when i'm mature or immature.



Entertainment is to entertain you... I never said it makes me feel good. I watch TV when I'm happy and sad.

4)Happy/Sad are emotions. Mature/Immature are personalities/states of being in the mind.


Then define the meaning of 'entertain' and what it is supposed to do upon the human body.



True, it comforts/makes you happy, but from your posts, you assume that I am a sad/miserable person who turns on the TV for comfort from the outside world and to manufature happiness. stare


I don't assume your NOT happy, I don't assume anything. I'm just saying people use TV to make themselves happy, I'm just saying, if you didn't have TV arround when you don't have your family and friends about you, what would you do for happiness?



See? You deny what I said you said and then you go ahead and assume s**t. I DON'T need friends/family to make me happy. You ever like a show and decide to watch it? Yeah, you aren't searching for happiness.
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Quick Question - How are you in college and own two businesses at age 16?


Website design, graphic design and low level bespoke software whilst on a BTEC national diploma in computing and a CCNA course.

How is that hard to believe?
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Um, no. My best friend is gay, thanks.

And actually, I know enough people whom have develloped homosexuality through life as they've gone along. But there is no scientific evidence that homosexuality OR fetishes are nature or nurture. So in actual fact, it's difficult to debate either in either manner.



I didn't say you hate homosexuals, I just said that having a pacifier in your mouth and wearing adult diapers is not like homosexuality. They didn't "develop" it, they probably didn't realize it.


Sexuality and fetish can go hand in hand, for some males, those with a fetish for a**l penetratio
n, they may turn homosexual to meet their desires.

For infantilists, they may find they like pacifiers, so they meet their desires by adpating to them, simple really, it can be EITHER nature or nuture or even a combination of both, it's impossible to argue it.


Your example is not homosexuality. I'm talking about truly loving/being attracted one's own gender, not having sex with one's own gender to satisfy sexual needs.


Looking for a directly motherly woman is just the same as looking for a male who will love a male in the same manner. Fetishism and Sexuality are the same as it all comes down to love and compatability in the long run.



You are ignorant. You are looking for someone to satisfy your fetish, maybe to even play your immature game. YOU ALREADY HAVE A MOTHER. Homosexuals don't date their gender to satisfy sexual needs, the date their gender because thats who they like.


And you think infantilists are infantilists just to satisfy sexual desires? Now I believe it is you who is ignorant.
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en·ter·tain
v. en·ter·tained, en·ter·tain·ing, en·ter·tains
v. tr.
To hold the attention of with something amusing or diverting.
To extend hospitality toward: entertain friends at dinner.

To consider; contemplate: entertain an idea.
To hold in mind; harbor: entertained few illusions.
Archaic. To continue with; maintain.
Obsolete. To employ; hire.
To give admittance to; receive.


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hap·py
adj. hap·pi·er, hap·pi·est
Characterized by good luck; fortunate.
Enjoying, showing, or marked by pleasure, satisfaction, or joy.
Being especially well-adapted; felicitous: a happy turn of phrase.
Cheerful; willing: happy to help.
EliteDanneh
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Quick Question - How are you in college and own two businesses at age 16?


Website design, graphic design and low level bespoke software whilst on a BTEC national diploma in computing and a CCNA course.

How is that hard to believe?



I didn't say I didn't believe you. I just find it interesting. 3nodding whee
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sugardose
i never heard of infantilism until i ventured into this topic, so thankyou for educating me.

reading the first post, i can see nothing that is any way 'disturbing' or 'freaky' about infantilism, it seems to me like a perfectly, well not normal, but harmless and acceptable fetish/lifestyle.
it sounds cute to me.
i hope you manage to find a mummy and can carry on with your lifestyle choice without too many narrow-minded people being.. well.. narrow-minded.

heart


Aww! Thank you for your kindness! I agree, it's not 'normal' (If normal can even ever be correctly defined) but it brings me enjoyment, i'm glad you find it cute.

I'll PM and talk to you some more.

And thank you for your encouragement. ^_^

no problemo
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EliteDanneh

And you think infantilists are infantilists just to satisfy sexual desires? Now I believe it is you who is ignorant.



I was being general about overall fetishes, not your situation. I just hate how you indirectly binded sex and homosexuality.
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1) Entertainment is to make you feel good...Thats what you said you use it for.

2) Closed.

3) Closed.

4) They don't control each other, I as a concious being control them both in relation to each other. And having sides is strange? Everyone can be angry or sad. I am just mature or immature. Not really all that different.
Everyone acts different when they are angry or sad and thinks different in either mindset, as do I when i'm mature or immature.



Entertainment is to entertain you... I never said it makes me feel good. I watch TV when I'm happy and sad.

4)Happy/Sad are emotions. Mature/Immature are personalities/states of being in the mind.


Then define the meaning of 'entertain' and what it is supposed to do upon the human body.



True, it comforts/makes you happy, but from your posts, you assume that I am a sad/miserable person who turns on the TV for comfort from the outside world and to manufature happiness. stare


I don't assume your NOT happy, I don't assume anything. I'm just saying people use TV to make themselves happy, I'm just saying, if you didn't have TV arround when you don't have your family and friends about you, what would you do for happiness?



See? You deny what I said you said and then you go ahead and assume s**t. I DON'T need friends/family to make me happy. You ever like a show and decide to watch it? Yeah, you aren't searching for happiness.


Where in my post did I assume? I ASKED a question, never did I assume.
I stated people find happiness in TV, I never stated that was what you directly use TV for.
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Quick Question - How are you in college and own two businesses at age 16?


Website design, graphic design and low level bespoke software whilst on a BTEC national diploma in computing and a CCNA course.

How is that hard to believe?



I didn't say I didn't believe you. I just find it interesting. 3nodding whee


It's called time management. ^_^
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Quick Question - How are you in college and own two businesses at age 16?


Website design, graphic design and low level bespoke software whilst on a BTEC national diploma in computing and a CCNA course.

How is that hard to believe?



I didn't say I didn't believe you. I just find it interesting. 3nodding whee


It's called time management. ^_^


Hehe.. I applaud you for your efforts.
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Dictionary.com

en·ter·tain
v. en·ter·tained, en·ter·tain·ing, en·ter·tains
v. tr.
To hold the attention of with something amusing or diverting.
To extend hospitality toward: entertain friends at dinner.

To consider; contemplate: entertain an idea.
To hold in mind; harbor: entertained few illusions.
Archaic. To continue with; maintain.
Obsolete. To employ; hire.
To give admittance to; receive.


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hap·py
adj. hap·pi·er, hap·pi·est
Characterized by good luck; fortunate.
Enjoying, showing, or marked by pleasure, satisfaction, or joy.
Being especially well-adapted; felicitous: a happy turn of phrase.
Cheerful; willing: happy to help.


How is that relevant?
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And you think infantilists are infantilists just to satisfy sexual desires? Now I believe it is you who is ignorant.



I was being general about overall fetishes, not your situation. I just hate how you indirectly binded sex and homosexuality.


Eh? Sex is a PART of homosexuality, but in no way do I believe that it's the only thing homosexuals do, I dislike people who are against gays, and infact, almost got into a fight at college defending my friends right to be whom he wants.
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Dictionary.com

en·ter·tain
v. en·ter·tained, en·ter·tain·ing, en·ter·tains
v. tr.
To hold the attention of with something amusing or diverting.
To extend hospitality toward: entertain friends at dinner.

To consider; contemplate: entertain an idea.
To hold in mind; harbor: entertained few illusions.
Archaic. To continue with; maintain.
Obsolete. To employ; hire.
To give admittance to; receive.


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hap·py
adj. hap·pi·er, hap·pi·est
Characterized by good luck; fortunate.
Enjoying, showing, or marked by pleasure, satisfaction, or joy.
Being especially well-adapted; felicitous: a happy turn of phrase.
Cheerful; willing: happy to help.


How is that relevant?



EliteDanneh


I don't assume your NOT happy, I don't assume anything. I'm just saying people use TV to make themselves happy, I'm just saying, if you didn't have TV arround when you don't have your family and friends about you, what would you do for happiness?
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i never heard of infantilism until i ventured into this topic, so thankyou for educating me.

reading the first post, i can see nothing that is any way 'disturbing' or 'freaky' about infantilism, it seems to me like a perfectly, well not normal, but harmless and acceptable fetish/lifestyle.
it sounds cute to me.
i hope you manage to find a mummy and can carry on with your lifestyle choice without too many narrow-minded people being.. well.. narrow-minded.

heart


Aww! Thank you for your kindness! I agree, it's not 'normal' (If normal can even ever be correctly defined) but it brings me enjoyment, i'm glad you find it cute.

I'll PM and talk to you some more.

And thank you for your encouragement. ^_^

no problemo
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PMs are much appreciated


Awesomeness. ^_^

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