Philanthe_Scott
Who is Morgan
I honestly can't understand this concept. Every relationship is based on compromise.
I've been in a lot of uncomfortable situations and generally, if you just kind of let it go, it stops being uncomfortable. If your partner has a pacifier and you just ignore it and never actually see it, then I don't even see any compromise or anything there. It's just an object that your partner uses from time to time.
I guess it's the same as the fact that I can't understand people who dump their partners for looking at porn, though.
Listen, life's full of people that wil endure anything and there are people that won't. That's just life and your philosophy (see the bolded) isn't the law of the land and it doesn't work for everyone just like one-size-fits all isn't always true. I have my own ways of dealing with things. I don't expect anyone to agree with me or to stop keep picking at me until I break and submit at the threat of being called an intolerant b***h. Sorry.
I really think that if you leave every situation that makes you uncomfortable, you're doomed to a life of loneliness, but hey, if your philosophy works for you, or if you want to be lonely, that's your prerogative. I'll be happy with my friends and partner who can tell me anything without being worried that I'll abandon them for being weird and who don't have to worry about me running off because I don't like some little part of them. You can deal with the people who do have to worry about that and see what kind of lasting friendships you can form.