Infantilism Discussion - In need of more cookies. o.o

Have you ever considered Infantilism?

Yes.	11.0%	[ 421 ]
No.	69.4%	[ 2662 ]
I am an infantilist...And I hearby claim one of your cookies!	19.6%	[ 750 ]
Total Votes:			[ 3833 ]

[EliteDanneh]

Elf Lord Chiewn

Alliyah Strife

^-^; If you're talking about on Gaia, though, I'll have to agree that most people do come off as a bit....dumb.

Gaians? Dumb? never. xd

I want my slaw!

I can't take martial arts training crying If I could I would learn grappling. I love grappling.

What's stopping you?

I'd imagine distance and funds?

[Frosting 7]

EliteDanneh

Some people believe infantilism is wrong and incorrect.

Some people believe that infantilism is even somewhat peadophilic.

Some people believe that infantilism is just sad and stupid.

Being an infantilist myself, I would like to discuss with you all my reasons for which I enjoy it, I am willing to take on all criticism as long as it is constructive, and i'll TRY to answer all questions to the best of my ability. Now...I'll give you MY best definition of infantilism:

Infantilism is the act of having the mindset of a chiild or roleplaying out the act of a child at a much younger age. (Usually below nine...Anything past such is usually referred to as age play.)
Infantilism consists of different elements for each infantilist.
Now, I will try to address some of the items what make it special for an infantilist and why some infantilists may enjoy it.

Pacifiers: Many infantilists (Like myself) take great security and find safety in sucking a pacifier. For some it is because of an oral fixation, and for some it is just all part of being an infant.

Diapers/Nappies: Too many infantilists, they may remember the love put into the application of such items...The feelings, the love, and just the general idea of it. For some, the dirtying and wetting of a diaper is a major turn on, these come under two categories:
Coprophilia - A paraphilia in which sexual arousal is attained in connection with feces. (From the Greek copros, meaning "dung." wink
Urophilia - A paraphilia in which sexual arousal is associated with urine.
(Thank you to Mallow Nimbus for finding this information out for me.)

Clothing: Many infantilists find comfort and innocence in the clothing...For some its all just about the look.

TV Programs: Depending on the regressed age of the infantilist and maturity of the real person, this can vary, programs can vary, and as their are too many programs to mention, i'll not give examples...Though for many of us, the bright colours and odd elements of such programs are quite attractive and entertaining...Much like any of you watching a drama or a documentary.

Cribs, cots, strollers, toys ETC: For some, the fixation with toys is all part of the fun and can tie in with the TV programs. Strollers are a rare fixation as are cots/cribs. These are usually for those lucky enough to have found a 'mommy' or a 'daddy'.

To make it easier to understand, I have decided to define 'mommy' for you, this can easily be changed in the basis of a 'daddy'.

A mommy is a person who will 'take care' of the infantilist in a manner which is desired by both parties, this mommy is rarely a legit mother, but usually a sexual partner or a VERY close friend, in the rare cases of teens who have come out about it, it's possible to be a nanny, a legitimate mother or a surrogate mother...And in quite a few cases, a friends mother.

Now. What I'd like to ask is:

How do you view people like myself?

And before you judge my needs and likes. Here is some general information about me:

I am 16, own three of my own business', have an active social life, was never sexually or mentally abused and am what most would consider normal being a college student studying both BTEC computing and CISCO Networking.
My interests in infantilism are: Pacifiers, TV Programs, fuss, love and attention.
I DO NOT have issues, as proved by several psychologists and psychiatrists whom I have spoke to about this subject.
My involvement within this activity varies from about an 1-2hours a day and usually sticks to my own bedroom. It usually consists of me watching TV programs at about 6am to 7am and sucking a pacifier to get me off to sleep.
Out of the home, my activity sometimes extends out to giddiness and clingyness, I DO NOT have any interest in strollers or baby like toys. My infant age is '4'.
I have considered diapers and am still willing to try them, I don't know if I could bring myself to USE them, but the idea of the comfort of wearing one fascinates me and I know the only way i'll find out is by wearing one.

Now, I hearby claim this discussion thread to be open!

Topic of the thread as of current: (Due to the need to always change the topic on hand, topics will be changed with posts from myself stating a topic change, please read round to find out the most recent topic or raise a relevant topic yourself.)

Links:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ageplay - Contributed by Ruffil
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Infantilism - Contributed by EliteDanneh
http://www.arielcrawford.com - Awesome 50 chapter story about a young 6 year old girl who regresses backwards and forwards, it illustrates that infantilism can incorporate both adult and infantilist items, for a mix that the person is comfortable with. - EliteDanneh

http://www.toddlertime.com/dx/regression/infantilism.htm - Contributed by Open Book.
http://www.toddlertime.com/regression/infantilism.htm - Contributed by Open Book
http://www.gaiaonline.com/gaia/redirect.php?r=http://www.toddlertime.com/regression/infantilism.htm Contributed by EliteDanneh
http://www.dpf.com - Contributed bylucivaryaslana
http://www.gettingit.com/article/621 - Contributed lucivaryaslana
http://www.liljennie.com/infdef.php - Contributed lucivaryaslana http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Meadows/5838/facts.html - Contributed by lucivaryaslana

well i say no to it

[EliteDanneh]

Demon_Eyes_Kyo6X4

I want my slaw!

Demon_Eyes_Kyo6X4

I am [ATOMIC]

Elf Lord Chiewn

I am [ATOMIC]

So when he explains in a drunken rage to the cops why he was wailing on a different f** in the alley he can at least have a motive.

I just hope I'm there to ******** him up if something like that happens. I have no tolerance for people like that.

I'm more passive agressive than Loraina Bobbets so I have a very high tolerance. I mean what else can you have when guys at least 3 times as big as you get you angry? I mean if you retaliate with a word that bigger than 6 letters their brains will overload and send them into a stupor induced rage.

go learn a few martial arts...then they wont seam as big

I can't take martial arts training crying If I could I would learn grappling. I love grappling.

hehe

Please make relevant posts.

[EliteDanneh]

I am [ATOMIC]

Elf Lord Chiewn

Demon_Eyes_Kyo6X4

Elf Lord Chiewn

I am [ATOMIC]

So when he explains in a drunken rage to the cops why he was wailing on a different f** in the alley he can at least have a motive.

I just hope I'm there to ******** him up if something like that happens. I have no tolerance for people like that.

*twitch* i hope somone throughs a punch at me for being bi or supporting gays just so that i would have an exuse to *acitdently* make them lose there legs

I hope the same every day. Doesn't make it happen, though.

I am [ATOMIC]

I'm more passive agressive than Loraina Bobbets so I have a very high tolerance. I mean what else can you have when guys at least 3 times as big as you get you angry? I mean if you retaliate with a word that bigger than 6 letters their brains will overload and send them into a stupor induced rage.

I don't get angry often...but I've never fought in my weight class either. I'm used to people three times my size. ^^

I'm used to them too; used to them tripping me, gawking at me, critisizing me. Oh yes, I am very used to them =/...
But onto happier thoughts; I haven't introduced myself yet have I? My name is Gordon, for future reference; may I ask of you yours?

Dan Gainsborough, nice to meet you.

So what brought you too this thread?

[EliteDanneh]

Elf Lord Chiewn

EliteDanneh

I want my slaw!

Alliyah Strife

EliteDanneh

Alliyah Strife

Hmm, I don't find it offensive or anything. >>; I'm not into it, but hey...to each his own, yeah?
I had no idea people made such a big deal about it! ._. (I think I saw one of those law shows once, though, Law & Order or something, where it was featured. I just thought it was odd, not that there's anything wrong with odd. ^-^;; )

I can't deny, it's odd, that I take in my stride, I believe the majority of bad publicity came from that one episode of CSI, it illustrated everything in a uncomforting manner when infantilists are gentle loving people...Not big fat old men with a hidden crib in their home. v_v

Yeah...I dunno, I was't bothered by the act of infantilism itself, rather the actor. CSI has a gift for putting negative spins on any fetish, though, I think? I'm pretty sure it was a CSI I saw involving the whole furries thing leading to murder too, now that I think about it!

What?! Furries are peaceful folk, the only one I've heard of that wanted to kill anyone was 2, and that's because people refused to serve him at Denny's during a convention. Of course, 2 is also a little eccentric...

Furries are not peaceful folk, they are as diverse as any other human, they are more generally friendly and accepting though, I'll openly say that much.

It's the sign of counterculture.

Any group of people that are generally not accepted are more accepting than others as way of showing up those who don't accept them I suppose.

[EliteDanneh]

I want my slaw!

Elf Lord Chiewn

I want my slaw!

I can't take martial arts training crying If I could I would learn grappling. I love grappling.

What's stopping you?

My physical condition is very poor. I have hip and leg problems, despite how strong I used to be. Right now my body is pretty much feeding off my muscles in order to get the protein it needs because I can't get other sources of it.

Try vitamin pills perhaps?

[EliteDanneh]

starmeow

wow there alot of thouse on gaia!

There is, yes, many are just not open about it.

[EliteDanneh]

Elf Lord Chiewn

I want my slaw!

Elf Lord Chiewn

I want my slaw!

I can't take martial arts training crying If I could I would learn grappling. I love grappling.

What's stopping you?

My physical condition is very poor. I have hip and leg problems, despite how strong I used to be. Right now my body is pretty much feeding off my muscles in order to get the protein it needs because I can't get other sources of it.

That sucks. I'd recommend martial arts even more in that case. Perhaps something like a Tai Chi/Qi Gong combo?

Just not Aikido, you'd break like a stick. v_v

[EliteDanneh]

Avamp

I want my slaw!

Elf Lord Chiewn

I want my slaw!

I can't take martial arts training crying If I could I would learn grappling. I love grappling.

What's stopping you?

My physical condition is very poor. I have hip and leg problems, despite how strong I used to be. Right now my body is pretty much feeding off my muscles in order to get the protein it needs because I can't get other sources of it.

Why nothing else?

Martial arts are more than likely to cause you problems with those sorts of pains...It wouldn't be a good idea.

[Inverted_Heart]

EliteDanneh

Demon_Eyes_Kyo6X4

Alliyah Strife

Demon_Eyes_Kyo6X4

Alliyah Strife

Demon_Eyes_Kyo6X4

one thing i have noticed...and im not sure if it is completly true is that most people who dont like gays are not very intellagent

I know a number of people who are intelligent and don't like homosexuality. >->;; Gah, generalizations like that make me cringe.
Hell, I know intelligent people who are neo-nazis and the like.
I don't agree with them, but I don't think it makes them unintelligent or anything...

im not sayting that all people who dont like gays are unitelligent, just most of the ones that i have meet...i didnt mean it to be a generalization

My bad. I'm just used to the generalizations. ><;; It would be hypocritical of me to support their beliefs, but I just can't stand when people are like "ppl r dumb fur not liking gayness". o_o;;

^-^; If you're talking about on Gaia, though, I'll have to agree that most people do come off as a bit....dumb.

not just on gaia...most people at my school that are homophobes lack the I.Q. of a dead rat

Do they have the I.Q. of a dead rat or are you just saying that because they have an opinion that you dislike?

they really arnt that smart... the I.Q. of a dead rat might be an exageration but i enjoy when people have dif opinions because that usly leads to a debat and i love debating

[EliteDanneh]

Elf Lord Chiewn

EliteDanneh

I want my slaw!

Elf Lord Chiewn

I want my slaw!

What?! Furries are peaceful folk, the only one I've heard of that wanted to kill anyone was 2, and that's because people refused to serve him at Denny's during a convention. Of course, 2 is also a little eccentric...

Anyone refusing to serve me might incur my wrath as well, regardless of whether I was stark ******** naked at the time.

oO He was fully clothed. They just refused to serve anyone from the furry convention across the street. Which is good, because he didn't want to eat there all that much anyway, but still. People can be really rude. I'm trying to figure out when Denny's of all places started caring about what their customers did.

I can't see why a restraunt of any kind would wish to refuse paying customers just for some clothing. They are actually breaking a law - Discrimination.

Yeah, but they hide behind the "right to refuse service" clause. Same one used for racial discrimination...

They need a decent reason to refuse servicer though.

[ElaborateDream]

So like...do u dress up as babies to get aroused? I seen a eps. of CSI about some guy who dressed up as a baby for some sexual fantasy...

um..whatever floats ur boat...just as long as u dont harm any actual babies..

[EliteDanneh]

I want my slaw!

Elf Lord Chiewn

I want my slaw!

Elf Lord Chiewn

I want my slaw!

I can't take martial arts training crying If I could I would learn grappling. I love grappling.

What's stopping you?

My physical condition is very poor. I have hip and leg problems, despite how strong I used to be. Right now my body is pretty much feeding off my muscles in order to get the protein it needs because I can't get other sources of it.

That sucks. I'd recommend martial arts even more in that case. Perhaps something like a Tai Chi/Qi Gong combo?

Maybe. Then once my protein levels go back up I can start training again. I really want to get back into street fighting.

Street fighting? A little extreme isn't that?

[EliteDanneh]

I want my slaw!

Avamp

I want my slaw!

Elf Lord Chiewn

I want my slaw!

I can't take martial arts training crying If I could I would learn grappling. I love grappling.

What's stopping you?

My physical condition is very poor. I have hip and leg problems, despite how strong I used to be. Right now my body is pretty much feeding off my muscles in order to get the protein it needs because I can't get other sources of it.

Why nothing else?

I can't eat red meats (my throat doesn't allow me to, if I attempt to swallow them I get sick) and protein shakes are too rich for my stomach to handle. I have a very dodgy stomach. I'd eat more eggs, but my family doesn't cook them very often and we eat dinner together. I probably won't be able to bring the levels up until I move out.

Like I say, not tried protein pills to help it out? Surely they would work?

[EliteDanneh]

I am [ATOMIC]

I want my slaw!

Elf Lord Chiewn

I want my slaw!

I can't take martial arts training crying If I could I would learn grappling. I love grappling.

What's stopping you?

My physical condition is very poor. I have hip and leg problems, despite how strong I used to be. Right now my body is pretty much feeding off my muscles in order to get the protein it needs because I can't get other sources of it.

I'm just lazy D:

The majority of the population is nowwa days. ^_^