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Penguins Eat Socks
ErectusWalksAmongstUs
Most of you morons do not know woman, you do not understand them and you do not value them, and by extension you do not deserve women or have their company.


You spent all this time ranting and raving about how women are so mistreated and misunderstood and men are pigs and nobody understands except for you, and yet you refer to them as if they're a prize to be earned?

Being deserving of something does not make it a prize obtained. It merely means that one has to qualify to even be considered.
 
     
 
Riviera de la Mancha
Penguins Eat Socks
ErectusWalksAmongstUs
Most of you morons do not know woman, you do not understand them and you do not value them, and by extension you do not deserve women or have their company.


You spent all this time ranting and raving about how women are so mistreated and misunderstood and men are pigs and nobody understands except for you, and yet you refer to them as if they're a prize to be earned?

Being deserving of something does not make it a prize obtained. It merely means that one has to qualify to even be considered.


And what would these qualifications be? Do I have to understand the complete workings of the female mind to "deserve" female company? Am I too immature to have a girlfriend because I think South Park is funny?
     
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Riviera de la Mancha
Penguins Eat Socks
ErectusWalksAmongstUs
Most of you morons do not know woman, you do not understand them and you do not value them, and by extension you do not deserve women or have their company.


You spent all this time ranting and raving about how women are so mistreated and misunderstood and men are pigs and nobody understands except for you, and yet you refer to them as if they're a prize to be earned?

Being deserving of something does not make it a prize obtained. It merely means that one has to qualify to even be considered.


And what would these qualifications be? Do I have to understand the complete workings of the female mind to "deserve" female company? Am I too immature to have a girlfriend because I think South Park is funny?

I am not sure; I did not write the OP. I was merely pointing out an issue with your argument.

I personally would say that if one is a generally good and righteous man, then one deserves the blessing of female company.
 
     
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        "And what, persay, are these 'qualifications' of which you speak? Honestly, I'm wondering: because there seems to be this standard that I, as a full-bodied female, don't even seem to know."

        "You all speak as though all females want the same thing and all of them know exactly what it is, when in reality, we're all human. You lot complain about how you 'don't want a woman who's completely skin and bones', yet all the while we're only doing it to garner your attention and affection. At the same time, if we respond with not wanting a total bodybuilder, it doesn't change the overbearing opinion of you lot."

        "It seems that no matter what, we all have expectations of what means qualify us to even be looked at in an appreciative manner by the opposite sex."

        "In all honesty, everyone has different qualifications."

        "I like a man with a good sense of humor, intelligence, and generally shares my interests. I know females who need men who take things more seriously than that, need them to like the exact same kinds of music as they do, need them to have good fashion sense, need them to be overwhelmingly, insurmountably attractive. I've seen women with all different preferences in their men, so I honestly don't know what qualifies anyone for anything."

        "Not all women are classy."

        "Yet not being classy doesn't automatically mean that they're whores."

        "As a matter of fact, this entire thread seems to be speaking in ultimatums. You deserve it or you don't. You're a classy lady or a cheap, worthless whore."

        "Now really THINK about this; how true is any of that?"

     
Aden: *rolls his eyes* Just cause the Boss can't get any why should I be punished? *pout*
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Johari Window
Am I wrong in thinking that treating women as if they're some form of deity who demands the utmost respect is some form or another of objectification?
 
     
 
For a man to agree with feminists....He must have his balls surgically removed.

May a donation to do so find its way to all males who are.
     
I could say that he's not a pansy because he agrees with feminists, but rather because he's projecting his insecurities onto his peers and is using that projection to run away from the fact that he likely views women in the same manner that he supposedly despises. But, I'm gonna eat some cereal instead.
 
     
"I blame most of our problems on the microwave. Anything that gets that hot without fire is from the devil." -Ellen DeGeneres
 
Your personality seems dangerously manipulative. Why do you feel the need to deceive men online and create unstable and impossible relationships? You are simply adding to the agony and confusion of the genders that you claim to oppose.
     
Hate is the only evil in this world.
I agree with you.
 
     
GOD CHARON YOU'RE SO ANNOYING STOP IT
 
SosukeSuigetsu
So men are ******** and women are saints?

Please, women lie more than men do, and women are the first to try and use their tits to get out of a speeding ticket or get a promotion. Men treat women like ******** because the majority of women act like them.


I also hate when women act like this, but I believe that "the majority" is very far from reality.
And I must say I like the OP; unfortunately what it says is true for a lot of men cause from what I see a lot of them are disrespectful jerks.
     
Stuch BSc
Generalisations for the win?


QFT
 
     
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Stuch BSc
ErectusWalksAmongstUs
Well for any number of reasons it seems to be true of the vast majority. Listen to how pathetic most peoples' relationship stories are. They get in petty fights over s**t like whether the dinner one of them cooked was good or not. This is because their relationships are unstable, because they were initially only based on sex.

Good lord, you're a generalisation machine!


Translation: Stuch is not at all like the OP story. There have always been gentlemen and scoundrels. At times it seems as if hte scoundrels have the gents outnumbered but that is sometimes because good men will occasional dip to lower levels that is truly in keeping with their souls.
     
Yoshpet
Your personality seems dangerously manipulative. Why do you feel the need to deceive men online and create unstable and impossible relationships? You are simply adding to the agony and confusion of the genders that you claim to oppose.


I mostly speak to women who have created male accounts and they report that they are received differently as a male than as a female. However, the scientific data is not in. Just saying. I think everyone should try it.
 
     


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You manipulated a lonely basement dweller and are using that as your basis for how men act? While his behavior is certainly crude, the only despicable one in that relationship is you.

You have never examined the behavior of modern men. You have examined the behavior of teenagers and the immature. And using the internet as a way to determine misogyny is similar to me determining global anti-semitism by going to Hezebollah.

For a fun hands on type experiment you can do, go to the grocery store and pick up a women's magazine. Cosmo or Women's health or whatever they sell there. There will be an article on sex in it. Every time, all the time. Taking the stance that only men are looking for the "perfect way to get more sex" is somewhat foolish. (Grabbing Lawn and Garden or Home Decorating do not count as women's magazines by the way.)

You know everything there is to know about women? Is that so? Perhaps you mean to say, "I know quite a bit about the woman I'm dating right now and can make pretty good guesses as to what she wants"?

Out of curiosity, you specified you only act that way towards women you are currently IN a relationship with, are the ones you aren't dating chattel? Useless whores, unworthy of your consideration and respect because they're not putting out for you at that moment?


Wait. Hold the presses. A non homosexual male finds men to be disgusting. Jesus, we've been doing it wrong all along. Who would've guessed that you would prefer the company of women?

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Yoshpet
Your personality seems dangerously manipulative. Why do you feel the need to deceive men online and create unstable and impossible relationships? You are simply adding to the agony and confusion of the genders that you claim to oppose.


I mostly speak to women who have created male accounts and they report that they are received differently as a male than as a female. However, the scientific data is not in. Just saying. I think everyone should try it.

There is a difference between neutral, honest net-trannying and purposefully baiting jerks.

I'll have to assume OP did the latter.
 
     
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