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After examining the behavior of modern men, I am seriously beginning to sympathize with feminists.

Disclaimer: I am a man myself, and by no means a p***y - I am definitely the pants-wearer in the relationship I am in.

With that said, I'm starting to feel the pains of women everywhere and understand why the become man-eating feminists. The more I begin to listen to my fellow men b***h about their relationships with women and the more I examine the behavior of men towards women, the more annoying and disgusting I find men in general, aside from a small elite minority of classy, fun, well-mannered men including myself and a small fraction of the male gender.

The thing that really pushed me over the edge was this place and some experiences I've had net-trannying.

This place would blacken the soul of any young lady who happened to stumble upon it and read it. That's obvious. With wonderful threads like "How do I get a girl to ******** me," and "I got a girl to sit on my face," a woman could easily start hating men with a short glance at this site. The best characterization I could come up with is that most of the guys here seem to think of women as an equation to be solved, ever searching for that one thing they have to say or do to make a girl put out like clockwork and worship the ground he walks on. "What do I do to make her like me? What do I do to make her have sex with me? What do I do to make her treat me in such-and-such a way? How do I make things non-awkward, so we can get back to the business of having sex?" These are the kinds of questions you guys ask here, and it betrays the obvious fact that none of you really seem to give a s**t about the companionship or relationship elements of love and just want to get at her axe-wound as rapidly and consistently as possible.

I'm not trying to bust your balls and act like you shouldn't want sex. I am just as horny as any of you here, but the difference is that I enjoy my girlfriend's company and take great pains to maintain and improve our relationship week by week, day by day and minute by minute. If I didn't already know pretty much everything there is to know about women, I'd be the guy posting here asking, "How can I be a better man? What should I improve about myself? How can I satisfy her better? How can I improve my understanding of the subtle inner workings of the female psyche, and modify my treatment of my girlfriend for mutually satisfying results?"

I'm not pussywhipped either - the reason I behave this way towards women I'm in a relationship with is because a high quality woman will treat you better in proportion to how good her treatment is. Whether you know it or not, a woman can give you far more pleasure in life than sex - in fact, that's what you should count on, because when you're and old married couple, you won't be having much sex then. Her constant companionship, love and support should be what you look forward to, in addition to the prospect of one of the only friendships you might actually have your entire life to build. This is infinitely more important than sex, but having read posts here I am having serious doubts that any of this has crossed the minds of the average internet retard. Most of you morons do not know woman, you do not understand them and you do not value them, and by extension you do not deserve women or have their company.

What really pushed me over the edge was my net-trannying. I masquerade on some videogames as a girl, because I'm a manipulative a*****e and I like to take advantage of the fact that certain personalities will snap to attention and immediately jump to the defense of anything with a pair of ovaries. One of the more recent developments of my net-trannying was how I got some guy in the Eastern U.S. to buy me a multiplayer server for this game. Within the first two days of talking to this guy, he was telling me he "loves" me in almost every sentence. He was talking about marriage and love and wanting to move in together. Meanwhile, he is ugly and poor, and has no skill in anything. He is completely unfit as a man to provide, protect or even be good company. He sends me dozens of emails every day proclaiming his "love" for somebody he's only been talking to for a week or so. He's already sent me his pictures and phone number, and he's already bought me a server. He soon will fly out to the general vicinity of where I live under the impression that he can stay with the "woman" he met on the videogame, even though he has only a few hundred dollars to his name. By his own declaration, he "Would live on the streets and eat out of trashcans if I could be with you." He also is a huge lecherous scumbag, referring constantly to "********," and how he wants a**l sex. He doesn't even pretend to be romantic about it at all either - he just says "Are you okay with ********? I love you baby" all the time.

After all of this you'd think I must have fed him a good line of s**t, but the truth is that I've barely talked to him at all. I sat there and said "yeah" and "lol" over and over to his MSN messages and occasionally listed off some bands I like, and this is what I get for it.

It literally went about like this:

Me: "I like Metallica"

Him: "Really? Me too! I love you, let me buy you s**t! I'll come live in the gutter by your house if you'll let me ******** you in the a** behind your parents' backs. I will love you forever!"

To this day I still tell him that a lot of things about him are stupid, and he still says he "loves" me over and over and over again.

With behavior like this floating around, does it surprise any of us that our women no longer respect us? I know for a fact that this is the norm too - I know my friends, and I hate to listen to them talk about women because this guy is hardly different. I overhear other men too, and I know that this kind of obsessive, overly-sexual, short-sighted, single-minded behavior is typical of the "love" most men have to offer. The only difference from man to man seems to be whether or not they are capable of paying bills or if they'll have to mooch off of their girlfriends.

Generally speaking though, I'm starting to think that women SHOULD hate men, because most of them deserve it. Now I know fully well that there are plenty of decent guys out there still, and I know I'm one of them. I'm not going to take any crap from any girlfriend or wife of mine, but that's because I'm not only never going to give her any, but I'm going to be constantly trying to improve her experience.

As for the rest of them, I agree with the feminists.
 
 
 
 
     
 
 
Generalisations for the win?
     
 
     
 
 
 
it's hard to get out of that generalization of men due to
the media,but I have met some wonderful men over my life
time.overall,a woman is just as shallow and just as hurtful,
the only reason it's hard to acknowledge it is because we're
protected by our "frail" nature.sometimes it's just not that we're
on our period our just pms'isng,sometimes we really just like to
be bitches.besides in my opinion some women deserve to be knocked
down a peg or two.
 
 
 
 
     
 
 
Stuch BSc
Generalisations for the win?


It's true and you know it. Make a fake female dating site account if you don't believe me. If you don't believe the internet is a good enough indication, go to any social gathering and just eaves-drop for a while.
     
ErectusWalksAmongstUs
It's true and you know it. Make a fake female dating site account if you don't believe me. If you don't believe the internet is a good enough indication, go to any social gathering and just eaves-drop for a while.

It is true of some and I know it.
 
     
 
Stuch BSc
ErectusWalksAmongstUs
It's true and you know it. Make a fake female dating site account if you don't believe me. If you don't believe the internet is a good enough indication, go to any social gathering and just eaves-drop for a while.

It is true of some and I know it.


Well for any number of reasons it seems to be true of the vast majority. Listen to how pathetic most peoples' relationship stories are. They get in petty fights over s**t like whether the dinner one of them cooked was good or not. This is because their relationships are unstable, because they were initially only based on sex.
     
ErectusWalksAmongstUs
Well for any number of reasons it seems to be true of the vast majority. Listen to how pathetic most peoples' relationship stories are. They get in petty fights over s**t like whether the dinner one of them cooked was good or not. This is because their relationships are unstable, because they were initially only based on sex.

Good lord, you're a generalisation machine!
 
     
 
Stuch BSc
ErectusWalksAmongstUs
Well for any number of reasons it seems to be true of the vast majority. Listen to how pathetic most peoples' relationship stories are. They get in petty fights over s**t like whether the dinner one of them cooked was good or not. This is because their relationships are unstable, because they were initially only based on sex.

Good lord, you're a generalisation machine!


Yes, I am, but my generalizations are correct.

If you don't allow some generalizations, it's impossible to draw any conclusion about any direction society is heading. It's silly to say that generalizations are bad - the only bad generalizations are the inaccurate ones.
     
ErectusWalksAmongstUs
Yes, I am, but my generalizations are correct.

If you don't allow some generalizations, it's impossible to draw any conclusion about any direction society is heading. It's silly to say that generalizations are bad - the only bad generalizations are the inaccurate ones.

You are making the very large mistake of passing off opinion as fact in your OP.
 
     

"You guys need a Mom."
 
generalizations are really bad,because if you say otherwise you will also believe that those who are feminists are lesbian...or if you're one you assume all those who aren't feminist are.
     

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I command you to cut off your p***s, feed it to your dog, and then commit suicide shortly after.


Well I command you to stay on topic, and to improve your grasp of logic. Science is based on generalization - if a change of independent variable results in change of dependent variable greater than or equal to 95% of the time, it's considered causative and is accepted by the scientific community.

Sounds like a generalization to me! And to think, these "generalizations" that ignore the 5% of trials that do not cooperate with the experimental hypothesis are responsible for all of the technology and medicine we have today.

Huh! Guess some generalizations aren't so bad, are they? Now why don't you stop being retarded and actually think about what I'm writing here?
 
     
 
I am only worried that people being jerks inspired you to seek understanding of feminism.
     
"I would like to live forever, because we should not live forever, because if we were ever supposed to live forever, then we would live forever, but we cannot live forever, which is why I would not live forever."

-Miss Alabama; 1994 Miss Universe contest
Stuch BSc
Generalisations for the win?
QFT.
 
     
"I don't feel guilty,
No matter what they're telling me.
I won't feel dirty and buy into their misery.
I won't be shamed 'cause I believe that love is free.
It fuels the heart and sex is not my enemy."

Sex is Not the Enemy - Garbage
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