Hehekea
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- Posted: Thu, 18 Sep 2014 23:42:28 +0000
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Actually while it does talk about those issues, it more goes into the way the woman feels about her own breasts, picking the right bra, dealing with clothing related to their breasts, etc. So its more than the basic complaints although those are completely reasonable complaints for a large breasted women to have regardless of how you personally feel about your breasts.
A lot of women don't know how to get a properly sized bra, and because of that have back pain. And if you like uninvited sexual attention for sacks of fat hanging off your chest thats good for you but its hella annoying for most women so regardless of you not finding it a "problem" its still a legitimate problem. :
so were talking about feelings. being more attractive is a problem?. i dont know what to say. i have big feet. i have to get custom made shoes. if i want t wear nice shoes. thats a money problem. a first world money problem. like the bra thing. women have had big breasts for centuries. the back pain is a problem. thats the only thing i can agree with you with. i am under the impression. that if you work out though. you can relieve back pain by having a stronger back. but usually most people arnt going to work out
Yeah the documentary goes into working out and how to deal with your breasts. What I'm saying is that regardless of it being a "first world problem" that doesn't negate the problem at its core. Its still an issue tons of women have to deal with, in all walks of life. Just because a problem is a problem to you, doesn't mean problems that don't effect you don't count for other women. That's ignorance. You can't say "I like the male attention, so therefor this woman who doesn't like the male attention can't call it a problem."
The problem isn't "being more attractive" the problem is "I am reduced to my breasts" and that is a problem regardless of what you personally feel. On top of that the costs of bras isn't a cutesy first world problem especially when women of color and disabled women often have financial issues. Suddenly its not a first world problem anymore, is it?
Don't undermine the struggles of another person cause your better off. It makes you sound like a self righteous a**.