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Post: 22055569_21106 created on Fri Jul 03, 2009 1:12 amPosted: Fri Jul 03, 2009 1:12 am
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ty_ping linaloki Okay. I just recently found a "Questions about Christianity answered here!" thread in M&R. Which, really, is what this is supposed to be, just with a preemptive strike on the big'uns. Someone in there asked about Christians dating atheists. Someone else responded with this verse: 2 Corinthians 6:14, NIV Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? I'm officially annoyed at how often this verse gets yanked out of context and misused. This verse does NOT deal with dating or marriage. If one reads the entire passage, one notes that there is a severely large amount of references to temples and gods. This verse talks about not mixing pagan rituals with Christianity, which the Corinthians were almost certainly doing. Now, some will say that it lends itself the other way. To defend this point, I direct you here: 1 Corinthians 7:12-14, NIV To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy. Through Christ, we can bring a non-believer we are wed to, or even dating, to him. Clearly, there isn't a ban on dating non-believers, so long as we are strong enough to not pull a Solomon. *puts this rant in OP* So basically Paul says "If you believe, don't worry about it, either your belief with convert them or it wont. You shouldn't force it, nor should you jepordize the relationship because of it. If your belief is weak and you think they'll make you do bad things as a Christian in the name of their belief than maybe you shouldn't be with them, but that's them forcing their beliefs on you. So long as you stay out of eachothers religion you two should be happy and loving." To modernize it and paraphrase. Exactomundo. I hate seeing Christians screwing things up by dating someone for a while then breaking up with the person because they're not Christian, too. Which usually causes a crapload of crap feelings all around. |
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