I will never understand it. It really doesn't matter. In my opinion, skin color is as relevant as hair color. "Is it dark brown or black?" "Dirty blonde or light brown?" No one seems to care and I can't wait until that is where society goes with skin color. Dark, Medium, or Light. As far as your question goes, I think the main contribution is surveyors, asking "White, Black, Native American, Asian, Hispanic, or OTHER" as if a person can't be a mixture of any of these. I like to mark "other" and in the description write "irrelevant."
As far as your question goes, I think the main contribution is surveyors, asking "White, Black, Native American, Asian, Hispanic, or OTHER" as if a person can't be a mixture of any of these. I like to mark "other" and in the description write "irrelevant."
How would an african american look? Oh, you mean hair like mine! Are you implying that your hair is more authentic than mine? Is your hair better than mine because it's not "dry rough scab?" Are you superior to us because you're mixed?
whoa I never ever said your hair was like that. Or any other black persons hair was like that. I was just using that as an opposite group of adjectives opposed to "nice". I just don't know why everyone expects black people's hair to feel like that. I always get comments like "oh I didn't expect it to feel like that" . Also when I was younger white ladies would always stop my mom and ask her how she did my hair in the style she did and how "nice" my hair was.
I presume what is "black" isn't often associated with nice in america and these stereotypes persist because black americans see themselves through that stereotypic lense.
you can't win and you can't lose, curly natural hair isn't always considered appropriate in some situations like job interviews and stuff, but perming hair and getting weaves is considered being fake or trying to be white. I'm not trying to sound rude or racist but I feel like black girls are held to a certain standard by other black girls to act a certain way or whatever. Like if a black girl dies her whole head pink she's ghetto or trying to be white but if a white girl does it it's just self expression. These are all things I've witnessed or experienced.
Why are black Americans viewed as a distorted comparison of the white standard?