bobloon
What ever happened to young women(late teens to early 20's) wanting to go out into the world to find themselves, experience the beautiful opportunities that are available,
What do you mean what happened to it? It's still prominent. And why are you only questioning women?
bobloon
and not be tied down instead of staying at home raising babies?
I sincerely loathe the phrase ”being tied down” because it's associated with a forcefully-negative stigma. But what's wrong with people who
want to start their own family instead of being the stereotypical version of their generation? Or having already known themselves?
bobloon
And to me personally, anyone who thinks they can do both is wrong because that child doesn't deserve to share you with anything else. Once you become a mother, your focus should be solely on the development of that kid. All your selfishness must go out the window.
Semantically, this is quite wrong.
bobloon
Oh, and it would be beneficial to know who you are before you give yourself up to a baby. I wanna smoke cigarettes, stay up late, stare at the tv for hours, only have school to be stressed about, have a job to be able to buy whatever I want for myself and family and friends, decide to go out whenever I want, drink soda, eat food that's bad for me, travel with only a toothbrush, etc.
That's nice. Not everyone has your desires.
bobloon
To be noted: all the things that I mentioned that I want to do shouldn't lead you to think that being a parent does not equal not being able to do healthy things that you love. You shouldn't smoke when you have a child;
I was impressed with a friend of mine who managed to balance smoking and an infant. She had help from the father, but she'd go out to smoke, come inside, change clothes, brush teeth and shower before handling her child. I don't appreciate cigarettes in the slightest nor have any interest in them, but I couldn't b***h, her system worked.
bobloon
you shouldn't drink soda when you have a child(because then you can't control them drinking soda), and the same for junk food;
Sure you can. It's your kid, the littler they are, the more you can control their diet (minus the things they randomly decide to test how edible an item is).
bobloon
you can't stay up late for the heck of it because it'll only be hurting you;
Doesn't really matter, you'll be up throughout the night anyway, at least for a while before their sleeping patterns synchronize to the regular day.
bobloon
you can't travel with only your toothbrush when you have a child;
I'd find that poor packing to begin with if all you carry is a toothbrush, well I guess it depends where you travel to.
bobloon
having a job means money for your child,
And bills, a shelter, warmth, food, etc.
bobloon
not for any silly thing for whomever else....
I manage my money responsibly.
bobloon
Now people are going to grumble about me stating the obvious, but oh well.
No you're displaying immense bias.