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burning_eyes
Yeah she said after the fact when she was thinking about it later on
she was wondering if it was rape, again with the facts of her story
I don't think she was, she didn't like it and blocked me so
it does push my point that she's unsure of the event in full

and her blocking me, does make me feel she
doesn't have a strong case in her favor, again with your
agism, also on the below quote..

how do you feel, I don't understand things because I have a different view also
what's your source for comparison of how a 34 year old should thing or behave??
what is your age by the way??



I expect adults to act like such. To think that her decision to block you on an online site is somehow proof she was not raped shows that you do not, and can not act like an adult.

and please try double checking your grammar before posting, I dislike having to try to guess what words you mean to use.

burning_eyes
You still didn't answer my question on your age
though I disagree with you thoughts on what
it means to be an adult and your view of it is both

flawed and unrealistic..

how is it flawed? I can understand it being unrealistic, but you're 34. You've had 16 years as an adult, and should know how to act like one by now. But apparently not.
If you don't mind me asking, why do you want to know my age?

burning_eyes
So I can see if your an adult or not
and how realistic your views are.. as you trying to use my age
in an ageist way..

where you, what you clam that an adult to be
you'd, know there's no such thing as a universal behavior for
adults... nor well there every be...

Yes, I'm an adult.
Are you admitting to not being mature enough to be considered an adult?
Because there is a universal expectation of adults to be a certain level of maturity and responsibility. However, I doubt you understand that considering how low your understanding of things such as "peer pressure" have proven to be.
Dandrogyny
I was in that thread.
She blocked you because you weren't agreeing with her. Simple as that.

I to block people who act like this. You and I argued for a good while and I have not blocked you because even though I disagree with you a lot you're not a douchebag.

burning_eyes
That's my point.... why not just ask your friends
as that topic is a hot button issue and I don't mind people disagreeing with
me, in fact I like it to see the information I lack and gather more..

she never really talked to me one on one nor
commented that my post where hurting her feelings
and the way she was playing with the topic.

then just cutting me off, really makes me feel
as if I just wasted my time.. and that annoys me..
more then the blocked thing..
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Dandrogyny
I was in that thread.
She blocked you because you weren't agreeing with her. Simple as that.

I to block people who act like this. You and I argued for a good while and I have not blocked you because even though I disagree with you a lot you're not a douchebag.

burning_eyes
That's my point.... why not just ask your friends
as that topic is a hot button issue and I don't mind people disagreeing with
me, in fact I like it to see the information I lack and gather more..

she never really talked to me one on one nor
commented that my post where hurting her feelings
and the way she was playing with the topic.

then just cutting me off, really makes me feel
as if I just wasted my time.. and that annoys me..
more then the blocked thing..
I think it's weird she blocked you honestly because some other guy was being way more of a c**t about it.
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burning_eyes
Yeah she said after the fact when she was thinking about it later on
she was wondering if it was rape, again with the facts of her story
I don't think she was, she didn't like it and blocked me so
it does push my point that she's unsure of the event in full

and her blocking me, does make me feel she
doesn't have a strong case in her favor, again with your
agism, also on the below quote..

how do you feel, I don't understand things because I have a different view also
what's your source for comparison of how a 34 year old should thing or behave??
what is your age by the way??



I expect adults to act like such. To think that her decision to block you on an online site is somehow proof she was not raped shows that you do not, and can not act like an adult.

and please try double checking your grammar before posting, I dislike having to try to guess what words you mean to use.

burning_eyes
You still didn't answer my question on your age
though I disagree with you thoughts on what
it means to be an adult and your view of it is both

flawed and unrealistic..

how is it flawed? I can understand it being unrealistic, but you're 34. You've had 16 years as an adult, and should know how to act like one by now. But apparently not.
If you don't mind me asking, why do you want to know my age?

burning_eyes
So I can see if your an adult or not
and how realistic your views are.. as you trying to use my age
in an ageist way..

where you, what you clam that an adult to be
you'd, know there's no such thing as a universal behavior for
adults... nor well there every be...

Yes, I'm an adult.
Are you admitting to not being mature enough to be considered an adult?
Because there is a universal expectation of adults to be a certain level of maturity and responsibility. However, I doubt you understand that considering how low your understanding of things such as "peer pressure" have proven to be.

burning_eyes
You once again haven't answered the question..
nor can you determine anything about me as an adult
for the simple fact your not respectful enough to share your age as you
so freely posted mine, many times over as though it where anything

but a good thing that I've lived this many years... and might have
fair more wisdom, knowledge, and over all growth then you might
know or see as your years younger...

again you've no right to talk about maturity when you've show now yet..
Dandrogyny
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Dandrogyny
I was in that thread.
She blocked you because you weren't agreeing with her. Simple as that.

I to block people who act like this. You and I argued for a good while and I have not blocked you because even though I disagree with you a lot you're not a douchebag.

burning_eyes
That's my point.... why not just ask your friends
as that topic is a hot button issue and I don't mind people disagreeing with
me, in fact I like it to see the information I lack and gather more..

she never really talked to me one on one nor
commented that my post where hurting her feelings
and the way she was playing with the topic.

then just cutting me off, really makes me feel
as if I just wasted my time.. and that annoys me..
more then the blocked thing..
I think it's weird she blocked you honestly because some other guy was being way more of a c**t about it.

burning_eyes
Again it just made me not care for her
clams or her.. so I'm done with it..
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I was in that thread.
She blocked you because you weren't agreeing with her. Simple as that.

I to block people who act like this. You and I argued for a good while and I have not blocked you because even though I disagree with you a lot you're not a douchebag.

burning_eyes
That's my point.... why not just ask your friends
as that topic is a hot button issue and I don't mind people disagreeing with
me, in fact I like it to see the information I lack and gather more..

she never really talked to me one on one nor
commented that my post where hurting her feelings
and the way she was playing with the topic.

then just cutting me off, really makes me feel
as if I just wasted my time.. and that annoys me..
more then the blocked thing..
I think it's weird she blocked you honestly because some other guy was being way more of a c**t about it.

burning_eyes
Again it just made me not care for her
clams or her.. so I'm done with it..
Try not to take it too personally. She did proclaim that she's a druggie.
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burning_eyes
You still didn't answer my question on your age
though I disagree with you thoughts on what
it means to be an adult and your view of it is both

flawed and unrealistic..

how is it flawed? I can understand it being unrealistic, but you're 34. You've had 16 years as an adult, and should know how to act like one by now. But apparently not.
If you don't mind me asking, why do you want to know my age?

burning_eyes
So I can see if your an adult or not
and how realistic your views are.. as you trying to use my age
in an ageist way..

where you, what you clam that an adult to be
you'd, know there's no such thing as a universal behavior for
adults... nor well there every be...

Yes, I'm an adult.
Are you admitting to not being mature enough to be considered an adult?
Because there is a universal expectation of adults to be a certain level of maturity and responsibility. However, I doubt you understand that considering how low your understanding of things such as "peer pressure" have proven to be.

burning_eyes
You once again haven't answered the question..
nor can you determine anything about me as an adult
for the simple fact your not respectful enough to share your age as you
so freely posted mine, many times over as though it where anything

but a good thing that I've lived this many years... and might have
fair more wisdom, knowledge, and over all growth then you might
know or see as your years younger...

again you've no right to talk about maturity when you've show now yet..

I prefer to be more private at times with my information. You however have your age on your profile, anyone can see it, it's public.
I honestly feel bad for you, I hope that some day you can grow up.
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Dandrogyny
I was in that thread.
She blocked you because you weren't agreeing with her. Simple as that.

I to block people who act like this. You and I argued for a good while and I have not blocked you because even though I disagree with you a lot you're not a douchebag.

burning_eyes
That's my point.... why not just ask your friends
as that topic is a hot button issue and I don't mind people disagreeing with
me, in fact I like it to see the information I lack and gather more..

she never really talked to me one on one nor
commented that my post where hurting her feelings
and the way she was playing with the topic.

then just cutting me off, really makes me feel
as if I just wasted my time.. and that annoys me..
more then the blocked thing..
I think it's weird she blocked you honestly because some other guy was being way more of a c**t about it.

burning_eyes
Again it just made me not care for her
clams or her.. so I'm done with it..
Try not to take it too personally. She did proclaim that she's a druggie.

burning_eyes
Oh that's just it I don't
and I've had the pleasure of knowing
a wide array of different people in my life
and she didn't act like any victim that
something like that has happen too, and I've known
A few female friends that are still haunted

by such events this late in there adult hood..
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Dandrogyny
I was in that thread.
She blocked you because you weren't agreeing with her. Simple as that.

I to block people who act like this. You and I argued for a good while and I have not blocked you because even though I disagree with you a lot you're not a douchebag.

burning_eyes
That's my point.... why not just ask your friends
as that topic is a hot button issue and I don't mind people disagreeing with
me, in fact I like it to see the information I lack and gather more..

she never really talked to me one on one nor
commented that my post where hurting her feelings
and the way she was playing with the topic.

then just cutting me off, really makes me feel
as if I just wasted my time.. and that annoys me..
more then the blocked thing..
I think it's weird she blocked you honestly because some other guy was being way more of a c**t about it.

burning_eyes
Again it just made me not care for her
clams or her.. so I'm done with it..
Try not to take it too personally. She did proclaim that she's a druggie.

burning_eyes
Oh that's just it I don't
and I've had the pleasure of knowing
a wide array of different people in my life
and she didn't act like any victim that
something like that has happen too, and I've known
A few female friends that are still haunted

by such events this late in there adult hood..
Personally I think she is equating regretting sex with a guy to rape.
Was she violated? Sure. But she kind of took that risk going to a party and getting so high that she "didn't know what she was doing".

I'm not saying she deserved it but this wasn't exactly rape. Not in the typical sense. She was consenting to sex until she realized her error. Then she basically didn't say anything.
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burning_eyes
You still didn't answer my question on your age
though I disagree with you thoughts on what
it means to be an adult and your view of it is both

flawed and unrealistic..

how is it flawed? I can understand it being unrealistic, but you're 34. You've had 16 years as an adult, and should know how to act like one by now. But apparently not.
If you don't mind me asking, why do you want to know my age?

burning_eyes
So I can see if your an adult or not
and how realistic your views are.. as you trying to use my age
in an ageist way..

where you, what you clam that an adult to be
you'd, know there's no such thing as a universal behavior for
adults... nor well there every be...

Yes, I'm an adult.
Are you admitting to not being mature enough to be considered an adult?
Because there is a universal expectation of adults to be a certain level of maturity and responsibility. However, I doubt you understand that considering how low your understanding of things such as "peer pressure" have proven to be.

burning_eyes
You once again haven't answered the question..
nor can you determine anything about me as an adult
for the simple fact your not respectful enough to share your age as you
so freely posted mine, many times over as though it where anything

but a good thing that I've lived this many years... and might have
fair more wisdom, knowledge, and over all growth then you might
know or see as your years younger...

again you've no right to talk about maturity when you've show now yet..

I prefer to be more private at times with my information. You however have your age on your profile, anyone can see it, it's public.
I honestly feel bad for you, I hope that some day you can grow up.

burning_eyes
Your post so your no adult no
anywhere close to being one, and I'm not ashamed of myself
in any way or fashion, as I'm a full grown and respectable
man and adult...

may you be blessed or cursed depending on your
fews to get to my age and still be as happy and alive as I am..
no need to reply back I'll not converse with you on this topic
any feather...
Dandrogyny
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Dandrogyny
I think it's weird she blocked you honestly because some other guy was being way more of a c**t about it.

burning_eyes
Again it just made me not care for her
clams or her.. so I'm done with it..
Try not to take it too personally. She did proclaim that she's a druggie.

burning_eyes
Oh that's just it I don't
and I've had the pleasure of knowing
a wide array of different people in my life
and she didn't act like any victim that
something like that has happen too, and I've known
A few female friends that are still haunted

by such events this late in there adult hood..
Personally I think she is equating regretting sex with a guy to rape.
Was she violated? Sure. But she kind of took that risk going to a party and getting so high that she "didn't know what she was doing".

I'm not saying she deserved it but this wasn't exactly rape. Not in the typical sense. She was consenting to sex until she realized her error. Then she basically didn't say anything.

burning_eyes
indeed, my friends never want to
talk about anything close to like that
and you can see it in there faces, it's still very painful

but done with that and her, not to find something of interesting to
talk about... thank you again for sharing your over all
views as someone who was also in the thread at the same time...
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I think it's weird she blocked you honestly because some other guy was being way more of a c**t about it.

burning_eyes
Again it just made me not care for her
clams or her.. so I'm done with it..
Try not to take it too personally. She did proclaim that she's a druggie.

burning_eyes
Oh that's just it I don't
and I've had the pleasure of knowing
a wide array of different people in my life
and she didn't act like any victim that
something like that has happen too, and I've known
A few female friends that are still haunted

by such events this late in there adult hood..
Personally I think she is equating regretting sex with a guy to rape.
Was she violated? Sure. But she kind of took that risk going to a party and getting so high that she "didn't know what she was doing".

I'm not saying she deserved it but this wasn't exactly rape. Not in the typical sense. She was consenting to sex until she realized her error. Then she basically didn't say anything.

burning_eyes
indeed, my friends never want to
talk about anything close to like that
and you can see it in there faces, it's still very painful

but done with that and her, not to find something of interesting to
talk about... thank you again for sharing your over all
views as someone who was also in the thread at the same time...
I was sexually abused when I was young. I can talk about it freely, and don't care if people bully me over it. But I certainly don't flaunt it. I will never understand people who flaunt the fact that they were raped. I am inclined to believe they are lying and were never actually raped.

Yeah basically when I was talking to her, her story kept changing and that's what annoyed me.
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burning_eyes
So I can see if your an adult or not
and how realistic your views are.. as you trying to use my age
in an ageist way..

where you, what you clam that an adult to be
you'd, know there's no such thing as a universal behavior for
adults... nor well there every be...

Yes, I'm an adult.
Are you admitting to not being mature enough to be considered an adult?
Because there is a universal expectation of adults to be a certain level of maturity and responsibility. However, I doubt you understand that considering how low your understanding of things such as "peer pressure" have proven to be.

burning_eyes
You once again haven't answered the question..
nor can you determine anything about me as an adult
for the simple fact your not respectful enough to share your age as you
so freely posted mine, many times over as though it where anything

but a good thing that I've lived this many years... and might have
fair more wisdom, knowledge, and over all growth then you might
know or see as your years younger...

again you've no right to talk about maturity when you've show now yet..

I prefer to be more private at times with my information. You however have your age on your profile, anyone can see it, it's public.
I honestly feel bad for you, I hope that some day you can grow up.

burning_eyes
Your post so your no adult no
anywhere close to being one, and I'm not ashamed of myself
in any way or fashion, as I'm a full grown and respectable
man and adult...

may you be blessed or cursed depending on your
fews to get to my age and still be as happy and alive as I am..
no need to reply back I'll not converse with you on this topic
any feather...
Remember what I said about checking your grammar before you post? What is "your post so your no adult no anywhere close..." supposed to mean?
Are you saying I'm not an adult because I post?

"respectable man" is debatable.
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Dandrogyny
Try not to take it too personally. She did proclaim that she's a druggie.

burning_eyes
Oh that's just it I don't
and I've had the pleasure of knowing
a wide array of different people in my life
and she didn't act like any victim that
something like that has happen too, and I've known
A few female friends that are still haunted

by such events this late in there adult hood..
Personally I think she is equating regretting sex with a guy to rape.
Was she violated? Sure. But she kind of took that risk going to a party and getting so high that she "didn't know what she was doing".

I'm not saying she deserved it but this wasn't exactly rape. Not in the typical sense. She was consenting to sex until she realized her error. Then she basically didn't say anything.

burning_eyes
indeed, my friends never want to
talk about anything close to like that
and you can see it in there faces, it's still very painful

but done with that and her, not to find something of interesting to
talk about... thank you again for sharing your over all
views as someone who was also in the thread at the same time...
I was sexually abused when I was young. I can talk about it freely, and don't care if people bully me over it. But I certainly don't flaunt it. I will never understand people who flaunt the fact that they were raped. I am inclined to believe they are lying and were never actually raped.

Yeah basically when I was talking to her, her story kept changing and that's what annoyed me.

burning_eyes
Yeah what I started noticing also..
and whatever happen either she'll lear from it or not..

I personally don't care.. well at lest we somewhat agreed
on a topic for once... hahaha
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Dandrogyny
Try not to take it too personally. She did proclaim that she's a druggie.

burning_eyes
Oh that's just it I don't
and I've had the pleasure of knowing
a wide array of different people in my life
and she didn't act like any victim that
something like that has happen too, and I've known
A few female friends that are still haunted

by such events this late in there adult hood..
Personally I think she is equating regretting sex with a guy to rape.
Was she violated? Sure. But she kind of took that risk going to a party and getting so high that she "didn't know what she was doing".

I'm not saying she deserved it but this wasn't exactly rape. Not in the typical sense. She was consenting to sex until she realized her error. Then she basically didn't say anything.

burning_eyes
indeed, my friends never want to
talk about anything close to like that
and you can see it in there faces, it's still very painful

but done with that and her, not to find something of interesting to
talk about... thank you again for sharing your over all
views as someone who was also in the thread at the same time...
I was sexually abused when I was young. I can talk about it freely, and don't care if people bully me over it. But I certainly don't flaunt it. I will never understand people who flaunt the fact that they were raped. I am inclined to believe they are lying and were never actually raped.

Yeah basically when I was talking to her, her story kept changing and that's what annoyed me.

burning_eyes
Yeah what I started noticing also..
and whatever happen either she'll lear from it or not..

I personally don't care.. well at lest we somewhat agreed
on a topic for once... hahaha
I think you and I might be able to agree on a lot of topics that have nothing to do with transsexuality. I see you posting around and do see eye to eye with you on plenty of things.

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