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MachineMuse
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MachineMuse
I think people who use pornography a lot should reconsider. Here are some reasons why. Some is more conjecture than others, but everything is rooted in multitudes of anecdotal evidence at the very least.
1) It makes you bad at sex.
2) It makes you extra-focused on the visual aspect of sex.
It's also bad for your sexual standards - you'll find it harder to be turned on by people who don't look like porn stars and might skip over a lot of people who are probably very compatible.
3) It promotes negative gender stereotypes. Still.
And what about lesbian porn?
Anyway, I know not all of these reasons will apply to all of you, but I do think at least one of them might mean something to almost everyone.
1) It makes you bad at sex.
2) It makes you extra-focused on the visual aspect of sex.
It's also bad for your sexual standards - you'll find it harder to be turned on by people who don't look like porn stars and might skip over a lot of people who are probably very compatible.
3) It promotes negative gender stereotypes. Still.
And what about lesbian porn?
Anyway, I know not all of these reasons will apply to all of you, but I do think at least one of them might mean something to almost everyone.
Ok, I cut out the filler explanation bits and left the main bullet points of your OP. Lols at the vast generalizations aside, I have had none of the problems you've mentioned. Maybe I'm some sort of "rare lucky" person. Or maybe, you're generalizing people who use pornographic media to masturbate to on a regular basis and assume they're all deranged addicts.
Bad at sex: I don't take sexual cues from porn. It's fantasy. I didn't learn to drive from movies or video games. Or how to shoot a gun. Why would I hold any entertainment media as a learning vice if it's not made for that purpose? I have discussed a few "techniques" with my fiance that I've noticed in porn, and he has enjoyed it. Then again, I used my brain, and I DISCUSSED it beforehand.
Yup, 1) engaged and 2) open lines of communication. You're lucky and not the target audience of this thread. Sorry! I thought I made that clear with the whole 'if you already have sex regularly it's not such a big deal' bit.
Engaged does not mean I have sex regularly. Isn't that the reason I look up porn regularly? Because I don't have sex as often as my sex drive wants?
Am I not the target audience because even though I get off to porn on average once or twice a day, I am engaged and that makes it magically ok? Or is it because I don't have the problems you posted as "at least one to almost everyone"?
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[...]So don't generalize that it happens in all porn.
I actually specifically pointed out that it doesn't apply to all porn. The very first sentence there! Jeez. If you're gonna cut stuff out, at least make sure you take it into account when you formulate a rebuttal.
My apologies for going back in and re-working my post and then not reading the whole thing through. That was supposed to be a separate thought about the overall OP, not about that specific point.