My first love...I'm still in love. I mean, I've had other boyfriends if you want to call them that. My first treated me like s**t, my second wouldn't keep his hands off me in certain public places, even though i made it clear that it wasn't what i wanted. The third, we were only 'together' for 3 weeks or so and he never talked to me, so silent. Didn't try to connect. I was with my love for a bout 2 weeks, being good friends for a long time before that, when and ex said something to him that made him start thinking....and we broke up. I was starting to fall for a bi friend of mine, in a band, typical whatever, i think just for rebound, when i stopped it after learning from others and what i'd noticed that all he wanted, at all, was sex. my love and i heart got back together after her got his feelings in check and have been together for 3 months since. he has helped me through a lot of s**t, and i couldn't imagine not being with him. heart