Trigona
Except the difference between Cersei and all the other women in these sexist times is that she's the Queen. She rules the whole Seven Kingdoms and what does she do? She pouts and she schemes. I would understand it if she decided to make everyone else's lives hell.
If she threw Tyrion off a tower for sending Myrcella away. But now, she gets sad and drunk. She's wanted power her whole life, and
with Robert dead, she has more power than she's ever had before but she has no clue what to do with it! She's so frustrating. She has potential. If she didn't act like a teenage princess all the time, she'd be great. But she's just so... ugh.
Of course she doesn't know what to do with it. She's not a man and because of that she never got to attend her father's meetings with his little lords or be an active part of the small council meetings. She's like Sansa and Arya in that sense, Ned didn't invite them to meetings either. You hear endlessly from Catelyn about how Ned trained Robb to do this and do that and not a peep about their daughters being afforded the same opportunity. No female was afforded that training time.
She's always wanted it, but she knows ******** all what to do with it and that's why.
I don't know, I just can't see myself behaving very differently from her. She was sold, she hates the way women are treated, she sees it happening to her daughter (after probably vowing to herself that her daughter would have a better life than she had) and it's just...sad. It's a sad life. She has no training or experience and yet she tries to scheme with the best of them because she thinks she can.
Catelyn is the same way. Nearly all her decisions and advice has been horrible. Absolutely horrible with minor exceptions here and there. Dany? Same thing, though I think that's more to do with that she had no training cause she had no family instead of no training cause she's a girl. Brienne is sort of the same as Sansa, trusting and full of songs and honor whether she realizes it or not, but at least she can fight. They are all just supposed to trust the men to make favorable decisions for them. Tis very sad @_@