Can a guy and girl be bestfriends?

Can a guy and girl be bestfriends?

Yes	78.8%	[ 160 ]
No	2.0%	[ 4 ]
Not without developing feelings	3.9%	[ 8 ]
That's a hard one(that's what she said)	9.4%	[ 19 ]
Yes, a horny friendship	5.9%	[ 12 ]
Total Votes:			[ 203 ]

[meh monkey]

So, like, I've been bestfriends with this girl for about 5 years now. She got with a girl recently. I got out of a relationship. She was having problems with her girlfriend. I could only comfort her. We ended up making out...a couple of times.
Anyways, there isn't anything there between us though. Any input on this?

[PlacidPetrichor]

You comforted one another. Some people don't even view kissing as romantic. Lesbians, bisexuals...everyone tends to crave that comfort from the gender they're attracted to.

There doesn't have to be anything romantic about your friendship, but if it ends up being so, that's just an added bonus :3 !

[Elizabethloveu]

meh monkey

So, like, I've been bestfriends with this girl for about 5 years now. She got with a girl recently. I got out of a relationship. She was having problems with her girlfriend. I could only comfort her. We ended up making out...a couple of times.
Anyways, there isn't anything there between us though. Any input on this?

Wow alright I think she is just upset and hurt and she went for the first person to comfort her and that was you... I wouldn't really think anything of it.

[LooseCogs]

girls and guys can totally be friends. I've had a lot of guy friends all my life and there have never really been any issues

as for your situation, making-out doesn't have to have romantic connotations. sometimes this stuff just happens

[Lady Vizsla]

[Nightly Lullaby]

My best friend is a guy I have known for like 14 years. I have never developed romantic feelings for him, so I would say yes. A guy and a girl can be best friends without developing a romantic relationship.

[gucci bart]

I really dont think you can be friends with a girl, least its never worked for me even tho I tried. seems like if you aret involved romantically you are just an acquaintance or a pen pal. confused

[thesupremekaidbz]

I have a female friend who is not attracted to me and I am not attracted to her. We've been friends for years and never developed romantic feelings for each other.

[Pablo1989]

biggrin Pat the girl pelvis and check it out

[Shadower Z0]

If you actually decide to be together in the end, you're just going to be a rebound for her. Then she'll dump you for a "better deal" and say "you are just like a brother to her" in the end confused Naturally.

But yeah, it's possible that a guy can be bestfriends with a girl vice versa, just don't lose your man card in the process.

[Inner Yi]

No. I personally cannot stay friends with a women that I "would" like to bone or make out with. It just doesn't work that way. Most of the time when a male falls in the "friend zone" is because the women simply doesn't respect the man. Men and women don't just become friends so simply. It's either they are both sexually attracted to each other or not. That's it. This is just is my idea on this topic.

[meh monkey]

Lady Kariel

Believe it or not, that's who she looks like xd

[vixterfrerard]

Of course they can! My best friend is a boy... and you actually made this poll on his 13th birthday smile

[DaydreamerAI]

Guys and girls can be friends as long as those guys are in love with other girls.
I've met some guys who aren't interested in relationships, same goes for girls. That is not to say minor crushes are unlikely. 3nodding

But I can understand why some guys/girls think that girls and boys cannot be friends. But I only know one theory. The guy likes the girl but the girl only likes the attention she gets from the guy. Or vice versa.

[HandBananna1234]

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