scherzofrog
The Doctor loves the entire universe and (almost) everything in it. Surely there's enough room in his hearts for more than one person?
Coming to you from a massive Doctor/Fitz shipper, mind you.
THIS. Personally, I really don't like Rose, and I never understood the whole "epic romance" thing that she supposedly has going on with 10. I myself am a huge 11/River shipper, but I definitely agree that the Doctor is simply not "meant" for one person. After all, he's lived for almost a thousand years now. He's bound to fall in love with more than one person.
The thing I really hate about Rose is that she let her experiences with the Doctor take over her entire life, to the point where she abandoned her family, and everything else she knew. True, River's life also revolves around the Doctor, but she was brainwashed into an obsession with him for twenty years of her life--a good portion of which she did manage to spend with her parents. A big part of Rose's recklessness was her own choice.
I do believe that the Doctor and Rose genuinely loved each other, but that doesn't necessarily mean that they're meant to be together. That's not to say that he and River are meant for each other, either, mind you.
I've said it before and I'll say it again. With people like the Doctor, while loving him is worth it, you need to know your emotional boundaries, and frankly, Rose didn't. Don't forget, Martha was in love with him, too, but she chose to learn from her experiences with the Doctor and find her new place in the world without abandoning her family. Hell, River sacrificed herself for him more than once, because even though she could have stayed with him in the library, she knew that it was more important for him to live than for her to.
Why do I always feel alone in my opinion of Rose? I mean, there are some things I do like about her, but I just don't see her as this pillar of existence like the rest of the Whoniverse does. In fact, I had heard of Rose before I got into Doctor who, and was so taken aback by how much she is just revered by this fanbase. I feel like there's something I'm missing were Rose is concerned, and sometimes I even feel bad for not being hugely in love with her. sweatdrop