i know what a possibility means. it ALSO means that it doesn't mean it's NOT going to happen either. i don't think being pessimistic changes the situation in your favor.. sure the choice is made by the gaian mods, but i wouldn't doubt they look through the forum at feedback. many of the popular choices of gaians based on feedback or forum voting end up being chosen. so if you want to see a change, act don't just say. throw out actual ideas/concepts you would like to see, something gaians can work with. or draw out something, anything. you really don't have to be a great artist to get an idea out there. also, it may just be the themes that push end results to be cutesy.
you said 'that CrossStitch isn't as much my style as I was hoping it would be'. i'm just making a point of how even though items don't match your style, they DO match another gaian's style. and i realize you're not the only one who thinks that way, which is why i am always trying to look to giving gaians what they want. example, for the sweets, a gaian said they wanted to see something that wasn't the usual dessert like cake, cupcakes, candy.. so i made a fortune cookie.
look, i'm not trying to prove anything or say you're wrong. i just disagree with 'complaining'. items are chosen, it's done. you can't get rid of them and make people come up with new things. if you're unhappy with something. then DO something about it.