* Tainted Tarts
* Unity in Diversity: Faith
* I live in the Philippines, born in a conservative and religious Catholic family. For all of my childhood I had definite boundaries of what was right and wrong. I was taught the ways of Jesus Christ and the values he had portrayed. Even if I wasn’t told to do so, I started viewing non-Catholics as bad people, unable to love or care for other people. As I grew older (I am now 18 ), these boundaries I have set have become blurred.
When I went to high school (it was an all-girl Catholic school), there were students who were Muslims and Born Agains who were allowed to enrol. It was accepting students of other religions, but it still practices our faith. It was awkward to be able to interact with them. And I soon found out, that they were like me – just a school girl who gets excited with boy bands and listens to music and studies during exams and eats a lot of junk food even if our parents tell us not to. These friends of mine have shown me that despite the differences we have, we still have a lot of similarities to share, we still needed each other when we have problems, we still give each other a helping hand when we have a goal to pursue.
Faith is a very sensitive issue, causing wars and holocausts. However, I realized that this is not what Jesus wanted for me to do (and also realize it is not what their beliefs tell them to do). I didn’t have to hate those who don’t believe him, this is not what my parents taught me to do. Even if there are people who hate on me because of my beliefs, I didn’t have to hate them back, instead show a better example.
My Muslim friends at school have shown to me that just because they believe in Allah and I believe in Jesus Christ, and my Born Again friends have different belief practices than me, it doesn’t mean we can’t be together. They made me realize that not all non-Catholics are bad, the same way that not all Catholics are good. Our faith matters so much to each of us, and yet we still find a lot of things to agree on.
I still firmly believe in Jesus Christ, and even if the boundaries I had before are gone, I am happily making more friendships with people now that I have set our differences aside. It gave me more room to love, making me leave the hate behind.