Lulakai
The way I was brought to understand how one became a wiccan was that you went through a year and a day apprenticeship with another wiccan well informed in the arts.
Nope. The year and a day isn;t accurate, Wiccan training takes a while, and you really only start to learn about Wicca's rites and practices after you have already become initiated. This is due to the rites and rituals of wicca being oath bound.
Lulakai
A coven was not an essential part of the practice.
It is though. Wicca is about practicing the rites and rituals in a specific way. You can not properly practice the rites and rituals of Wicca with out a coven. To do so is not how the Gods intended. They don't care what you believ, but how you practice.
Lulakai
After you successfully completed the apprenticeship, then you are a wiccan.
When the HP or HPS (depending if you are male or female) decided you are ready they will talk to you about initiation. Only with initiation are you considered a Wiccan. There are 3 degrees of initiation, and each one reveals new aspects of the mysteries and the practices.
Lulakai
This is what I did and while I don't actively practice at the moment, I still consider myself one even though I am not a member of a coven.
Then you are not Wiccan. The rites and rituals of wicca
must be practiced a specific way. Otherwise they are not Wiccan rites any more.
Lulakai
On a personal note, the whole thing in books and movies about being born a wiccan because your parents were is just b.s.
Thats true. No child will ever be Wiccan. The initiation rites of Wicca and all rites of Wicca for that matter are sexual in nature. To initiate a child would count as molestation, which is why no Coven initiates some one unless they are 18 years or older. Linneage in Wicca refers to who trained and initiated you. Not blood.
Lulakai
However, about the whole Jewish thing, my friend, who is half Jewish had told me that as long as your mother is Jewish, then you are Jewish as well. It seems to me that Judaism is much more then just a belief, it is also a practice.
I don't know. I do think there are specific rites that make you Jewish, so maybe it's a mixture of both.