Sammie of Spades
kage no neko
Except you must be initiated by someone of the opposite gender in a circle, who has been initiated by someone of the opposite gender, which traces it's lineage to Gardner.
The whole point of Wicca is to celebrate fertility, which is kinda difficult to do when you're alone. Masturbation doesn't make babies. There are
some rituals which you can practice alone, but that's only after you've been initiated. Because since all that information is oath-bound, how else would you find out about it?
So is Dianic Wicca a valid tradition to you?
Wicca has alot of emphasis on fertility but it doesn't mean you have to have litteral sex. The fertility aspect is illustrated through the changing of the seasons, which is the celebratory aspect. Ritual is not as important as worship. Ritual is not the equivalent to worship, though it is a type of worship. And you can read books and gather information. That is where the majority of Wiccan Practitioners get to learn because there are not any covens around or there are not any covens whose interests are comon held.
It wouldn't think so since they mostly worship only a goddess, not both of the god and goddess..
For the 3rd degree it does mean literal sex. For the 1st degree it requires kissing of the genitals.
And in Wicca, practice, meaning the rituals, are the most important part.
Even some people who KNOW what Wicca really is can't become Wiccan because they cannot find a coven. They would be called Seekers. You're not Wiccan until you've been initiated into a coven. Even if you find a coven, they don't HAVE to initiate you, you might have to go find a different one.
Being Wiccan isn't for everyone. It's a very specific, strict religion.