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Nicole Ekishou
OneWithDunamis
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Nicole Ekishou


Words change definitions all the time. Read through any three random pages of a sufficiently large dictionary and you'll see what I mean.

Remember when "Cool" only meant "Low temperature", and not, well, "cool?" Of course not. It happened long before either of us were born.

Remember when the definition of "Gay" only meant "Happy and Carefree?", or "f**" was a piece of wood (actual wood, you perverts! mrgreen )?

As our usage of words changes, so does their definition. Slang becomes Dialect becomes Language. That's how they work.



Those are two different situations. Both of them are unequal arrangements where one party has a reduced capacity to fully understand the situation (if at all).

As I've said earlier, while I acknowledge that words have changed meanings overtime, I frown upon it because it confuses people. Namely those not of your age group. I never knew cuntpaste meant copy and paste until recently. I've always used it to mean something else entirely.
Which brings me to my second question: How stupid do you think people are, anyway? I have a pretty low opinion of the intelligence of the general public, but even I give them some credit.

I used to as well, but this thread has shown me otherwise.
So says the guy who thinks a single definition alteration will do what Television, Comics, Rock n' Roll, and Hip-Hop couldn't do combined.

I never said they couldn't, and I condemn them as well.
 
     
 
OneWithDunamis
Nicole Ekishou
OneWithDunamis
Nicole Ekishou
OneWithDunamis
Nicole Ekishou


Words change definitions all the time. Read through any three random pages of a sufficiently large dictionary and you'll see what I mean.

Remember when "Cool" only meant "Low temperature", and not, well, "cool?" Of course not. It happened long before either of us were born.

Remember when the definition of "Gay" only meant "Happy and Carefree?", or "f**" was a piece of wood (actual wood, you perverts! mrgreen )?

As our usage of words changes, so does their definition. Slang becomes Dialect becomes Language. That's how they work.



Those are two different situations. Both of them are unequal arrangements where one party has a reduced capacity to fully understand the situation (if at all).

As I've said earlier, while I acknowledge that words have changed meanings overtime, I frown upon it because it confuses people. Namely those not of your age group. I never knew cuntpaste meant copy and paste until recently. I've always used it to mean something else entirely.
Which brings me to my second question: How stupid do you think people are, anyway? I have a pretty low opinion of the intelligence of the general public, but even I give them some credit.

I used to as well, but this thread has shown me otherwise.
So says the guy who thinks a single definition alteration will do what Television, Comics, Rock n' Roll, and Hip-Hop couldn't do combined.

I never said they couldn't, and I condemn them as well.


I say they couldn't, because they haven't. The first three in particular have been around for more than half a century. They have certainly changed civilization, but are a long way from destroying it.
     

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OneWithDunamis
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OneWithDunamis
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OneWithDunamis

My point has always been "preserve the language as it currently is". There's no change to my point. I never said it's ok to change the definition of marriage to include couples of different races. I said fight the change not fight for the change.

Wait, so you're not for a black person marrying a white person?

Not if that's the current definition. But since now the definition includes couples of any races, I'm for interracial marriages.

So if we change the definition of marriage to include gay couples you will be alright with that when it does.

Yes and I already stated this.


Then you're a ******** moron! If we change the definition of marriage the government isn't suddenly going to go to work on the dictionary, hell some states have already done this and so have many parts of Europe, and their societies can still communicate with each other. Your whole thesis is found on a bullshit premise and is completely illogical, and it's been empirically proven over and over again that your logic is bullshit.
 
     
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It seems like most everyone is outlining the same points. This guys just can't listen to reason. He's making everyone repeat themselves, and he is still not capable of understanding. This means he is either dense, and a*****e, or a dumbass. Either way, we already won, he's fighting a nul arguement now.

And the OP, you should have made it clear IN THE OP, what this thread was REALLY about. Not create a thread who's TOPIC is "Why same sex marriages can never be" then go on to say because the DICTIONARY says so. We even pointed out that homosexuals are, in fact, included IN the dictionary.

So what kind of point are you making now?
     
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OneWithDunamis
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No, not at all. Read with attention.

What I am saying is that the current debate over gay marriage is centered on the discussion of marriage not as a ceremony, but as a state-created creature. Marriage is an institution, for the purposes of gay rights, that the government created and got into the business of establishing with particular benefits. As it is created by the state, where state means government, the state may define it as it so wishes, and can change it at any time.

Therefore, there is nothing within the word 'marriage', that binds it exclusively to man and woman, for the purposes of the present political debate.

We just said the same thing. The state has the right to change definitions of terms, which causes mass confusion, making people acting stupid. When what we say no longer means only what we mean, communication breaks down. Perhaps one day "grab milk on the way home" means "I saw you milking that whore after work". There will be hell on earth, or worse. Because hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Or however the line goes.

What mass confusion? I never spoke to this. I am addressing the OP, which makes the argument that the government cannot re-define marriage because to do so causes chaos. Ignoring the chaos point, I addressed the idea that a government cannot do x because of effect y on the populous. I am saying that the government can do whatever it wishes to anything it creates, and the government created marriage, so it is free to do what it wills to it, regardless of the effects it has on the populous, provided it does so in accordance to the proper regulation and law.

It is incorrect to say that if I make product y I cant then change to call it product t if I so wish because I created product y; it is mine to do with as I wish. The government created marriage and, so long as it abides by the rules and regulations, it may define it as it wishes. To talk of chaos is merely irrelevant babble as it relates to the argument presented in the OP.

Yes, technically they are able to do so, but they mustn't, because it'll destroy society. It's like calling Pluto a moon instead of a planet now. People will likely refer to it as either moon or planet, but only one is right. Think of the mass confusion!!

We're talking more than legal issues here. The impact will certainly decimate the nation.

Again, for the second time, 'the destruction of society' argument is irrelevant. If the change is made within the confines of regulation, then it is permissible. There is nothing within the idea of marriage that demands it retain one definition over another.

As one of the great justices on the Supreme Court wrote in an opinion, and I paraphrase, if the people wish to go to hell in a hand basket, then the courts are obliged to allow it to occur, so long as it is in accordance with the law.

How is that irrelevant? If society isn't destroyed as a result they can change every word in the dictionary for all I care. Even if it's permissible by law, people don't forget what words used to mean. And by change I'm including the addition of meanings to pre-existing words.

The courts are wrong then and are not fulfilling their duty to preserve society. If everyone wanted to rape and kill, should they allow it? I think not.

All you did was go off on a tangent.

Show me where, in the description of the court's powers, does it state that it is their job to 'preserve society'. I await your citations.
 
     
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OneWithDunamis
Because by definition a marriage is the union between a man and a woman. If they change the definition of this word, what other words will they change next? Communication will break down and everything becomes ambiguous. Look at the Tower of Babel. They couldn't communicate with each other and an entire nation of people was scattered.

Don't be selfish. Think of the greater good of society, if you intend to stay with the society you're familiar with.












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OneWithDunamis
Because by definition a marriage is the union between a man and a woman. If they change the definition of this word, what other words will they change next? Communication will break down and everything becomes ambiguous. Look at the Tower of Babel. They couldn't communicate with each other and an entire nation of people was scattered.

Don't be selfish. Think of the greater good of society, if you intend to stay with the society you're familiar with.


You're right, if only the Anglo-Saxons had kept their Germanic rule on the English language without ever refining it. If only America had sat back and let the British tax them like crazy and if only Ben Franklin hadn't been such an imposing jackass, then we might not have these stupid things like freedom of speech or religion nowadays.

Yup, tradition's got to have monopoly! We can't allow things to change at all lest we brake society up, and when the inbred sub-human race looks back on where it all went wrong, we could say it was because of a simple word changed in the dictionary.
     
Nicole Ekishou
OneWithDunamis
Nicole Ekishou
OneWithDunamis
Nicole Ekishou
Which brings me to my second question: How stupid do you think people are, anyway? I have a pretty low opinion of the intelligence of the general public, but even I give them some credit.

I used to as well, but this thread has shown me otherwise.
So says the guy who thinks a single definition alteration will do what Television, Comics, Rock n' Roll, and Hip-Hop couldn't do combined.

I never said they couldn't, and I condemn them as well.


I say they couldn't, because they haven't. The first three in particular have been around for more than half a century. They have certainly changed civilization, but are a long way from destroying it.

I'd say teen pregnancies, drug use encouragement, skeet skeet, are all downfalls of society caused by mass media, to name a few.
 
     
 
Comrade Tool
OneWithDunamis
Comrade Tool
OneWithDunamis
Comrade Tool
OneWithDunamis

My point has always been "preserve the language as it currently is". There's no change to my point. I never said it's ok to change the definition of marriage to include couples of different races. I said fight the change not fight for the change.

Wait, so you're not for a black person marrying a white person?

Not if that's the current definition. But since now the definition includes couples of any races, I'm for interracial marriages.

So if we change the definition of marriage to include gay couples you will be alright with that when it does.

Yes and I already stated this.


Then you're a ******** moron! If we change the definition of marriage the government isn't suddenly going to go to work on the dictionary, hell some states have already done this and so have many parts of Europe, and their societies can still communicate with each other. Your whole thesis is found on a bullshit premise and is completely illogical, and it's been empirically proven over and over again that your logic is bullshit.

I'd rather have a fail logic than to be laughed at. At least I know what I'm doing.
     
MemoriesThatKill
It seems like most everyone is outlining the same points. This guys just can't listen to reason. He's making everyone repeat themselves, and he is still not capable of understanding. This means he is either dense, and a*****e, or a dumbass. Either way, we already won, he's fighting a nul arguement now.

And the OP, you should have made it clear IN THE OP, what this thread was REALLY about. Not create a thread who's TOPIC is "Why same sex marriages can never be" then go on to say because the DICTIONARY says so. We even pointed out that homosexuals are, in fact, included IN the dictionary.

So what kind of point are you making now?

I never said homosexuals aren't in the dictionary. I think sometimes you read what you wanna read.
 
     
 
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OneWithDunamis
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OneWithDunamis
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What mass confusion? I never spoke to this. I am addressing the OP, which makes the argument that the government cannot re-define marriage because to do so causes chaos. Ignoring the chaos point, I addressed the idea that a government cannot do x because of effect y on the populous. I am saying that the government can do whatever it wishes to anything it creates, and the government created marriage, so it is free to do what it wills to it, regardless of the effects it has on the populous, provided it does so in accordance to the proper regulation and law.

It is incorrect to say that if I make product y I cant then change to call it product t if I so wish because I created product y; it is mine to do with as I wish. The government created marriage and, so long as it abides by the rules and regulations, it may define it as it wishes. To talk of chaos is merely irrelevant babble as it relates to the argument presented in the OP.

Yes, technically they are able to do so, but they mustn't, because it'll destroy society. It's like calling Pluto a moon instead of a planet now. People will likely refer to it as either moon or planet, but only one is right. Think of the mass confusion!!

We're talking more than legal issues here. The impact will certainly decimate the nation.

Again, for the second time, 'the destruction of society' argument is irrelevant. If the change is made within the confines of regulation, then it is permissible. There is nothing within the idea of marriage that demands it retain one definition over another.

As one of the great justices on the Supreme Court wrote in an opinion, and I paraphrase, if the people wish to go to hell in a hand basket, then the courts are obliged to allow it to occur, so long as it is in accordance with the law.

How is that irrelevant? If society isn't destroyed as a result they can change every word in the dictionary for all I care. Even if it's permissible by law, people don't forget what words used to mean. And by change I'm including the addition of meanings to pre-existing words.

The courts are wrong then and are not fulfilling their duty to preserve society. If everyone wanted to rape and kill, should they allow it? I think not.

All you did was go off on a tangent.

Show me where, in the description of the court's powers, does it state that it is their job to 'preserve society'. I await your citations.

I knew I was right to look down on the courts.
     
OneWithDunamis
Because by definition a marriage is the union between a man and a woman. If they change the definition of this word, what other words will they change next? Communication will break down and everything becomes ambiguous. Look at the Tower of Babel. They couldn't communicate with each other and an entire nation of people was scattered.

Don't be selfish. Think of the greater good of society, if you intend to stay with the society you're familiar with.


Wait, I'm confused. What have words got to do with this? Weren't the people of Babel scattered because they communicated too well and "God" scattered them and changed their languages?
 
     
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OneWithDunamis
Because by definition a marriage is the union between a man and a woman. If they change the definition of this word, what other words will they change next? Communication will break down and everything becomes ambiguous. Look at the Tower of Babel. They couldn't communicate with each other and an entire nation of people was scattered.

Don't be selfish. Think of the greater good of society, if you intend to stay with the society you're familiar with.












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Times change.


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For the worst.
     
Gift of Dream
Idiotic homophobic troll FTW?

FTW indeed! But not so much idiotic nor homophobic. Until they grind against my thigh. That gets a bit annoying.
 
     
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