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Who the f-ck cares what it's called when same sex couples find a partner. It's silly to get stuck up on it, if someone's against same sex couples, they aren't going to become any more tolerant if the partnership of gays is called 'marriage' or not, and the gays shouldn't give a fudge and should be glad they've got a partner.

It isn't progressive to argue about this sh-t. We all understand what marriage is. Let's focus on something IMPORTANT.
 
     
 
OneWithDunamis
I already said it's fine if that's already the definition today. My point remains that the current definition should not be changed because it'll lead to fights like this. And I'm a peaceful man, except for the occasional execution of non-virgin wives.


Wait, so it's fine if it's changed and you're defending what you believed to be the current version only to find out that the same dictionary had printed a newer definition of the word that you're arguing against? What are you arguing for, again, if the definition has already changed?
     
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Don't be selfish. Think of the greater good of society, if you intend to stay with the society you're familiar with.

"Don't be selfish"?

You can honestly say that with a straight face and not give gays the same rights? It would have absolutely no effect on you, it would do NOTHING to effect normal marriages.
i don't want my morgage to lose its value. that is an effect of this.
 
     
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Wikipedia is not always a valid source. Try something that has .edu or .org instead.


Education system is always great at spreading unbiased history.
 
     
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OneWithDunamis
Because by definition a marriage is the union between a man and a woman. If they change the definition of this word, what other words will they change next? Communication will break down and everything becomes ambiguous. Look at the Tower of Babel. They couldn't communicate with each other and an entire nation of people was scattered.

Don't be selfish. Think of the greater good of society, if you intend to stay with the society you're familiar with.

Because words in the English language never change their meaning.
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OneWithDunamis
Because by definition a marriage is the union between a man and a woman.


Because it's an old definition.

OneWithDunamis
If they change the definition of this word, what other words will they change next?


Meaning of words change over time, language itself is not dead, and evaluates over time...


OneWithDunamis
Communication will break down and everything becomes ambiguous.






OneWithDunamis
Look at the Tower of Babel. They couldn't communicate with each other and an entire nation of people was scattered.


Story about Tower of Babel is just story, it sends message like Cinderella for example..


OneWithDunamis
Don't be selfish. Think of the greater good of society, if you intend to stay with the society you're familiar with.


If earlier generations shared same opinion with you, we would still be playing with dolls made of rock, not typing on keyboard.... rofl

Cinderella has a pretty legitimate message. Don't mess with your step-siblings; love them like they're blood.

I don't see what you mean by playing with rock dolls instead of typing.


I meant that society wouldn't found any improvements if it tends to just those that is familiar with...If there is no will to change and improve society, and it's elements then no improvement would be possible

Some improvements are unnecessarily. They are only seen as improvements because people can put in less effort to get something done. If by doing so we get fatter, are we actually improving? More efficient maybe, but at what costs?
     
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OneWithDunamis
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OneWithDunamis
Because by definition a marriage is the union between a man and a woman.


Because it's an old definition.

OneWithDunamis
If they change the definition of this word, what other words will they change next?


Meaning of words change over time, language itself is not dead, and evaluates over time...


OneWithDunamis
Communication will break down and everything becomes ambiguous.






OneWithDunamis
Look at the Tower of Babel. They couldn't communicate with each other and an entire nation of people was scattered.


Story about Tower of Babel is just story, it sends message like Cinderella for example..


OneWithDunamis
Don't be selfish. Think of the greater good of society, if you intend to stay with the society you're familiar with.


If earlier generations shared same opinion with you, we would still be playing with dolls made of rock, not typing on keyboard.... rofl

Cinderella has a pretty legitimate message. Don't mess with your step-siblings; love them like they're blood.

I don't see what you mean by playing with rock dolls instead of typing.

I think that what Lost means is that you're against change in words, which means you could be against change in general. Change has generally been good for humanity, allowing us to advance as a species.

And words have been changing for thousands of years, so much so that they become obsolete and replaced. How is having a new word for an old definition any different from having a new definition for an old word?

It's different because you have less ambiguity? So what is said actually means what one means to say and no more?

And change isn't always good. The Americans want to change Iraq's government. That's not exactly going too well.
 
     
 
Arabian Tissue Smuggler
Who the f-ck cares what it's called when same sex couples find a partner. It's silly to get stuck up on it, if someone's against same sex couples, they aren't going to become any more tolerant if the partnership of gays is called 'marriage' or not, and the gays shouldn't give a fudge and should be glad they've got a partner.

It isn't progressive to argue about this sh-t. We all understand what marriage is. Let's focus on something IMPORTANT.

The same sex couples do. They fight for the right to be married and be recognized as a married couple under the law. They're not fighting to be something entirely different. And personally I'd be more accepting of same sex marriages if they were called something else. Why? Because I have no qualms with homosexual unions. I have issues with the butchering of the language.

And we clearly don't all understand what marriage is or else people wouldn't be fighting over rights to get married.
     
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OneWithDunamis
I already said it's fine if that's already the definition today. My point remains that the current definition should not be changed because it'll lead to fights like this. And I'm a peaceful man, except for the occasional execution of non-virgin wives.


Wait, so it's fine if it's changed and you're defending what you believed to be the current version only to find out that the same dictionary had printed a newer definition of the word that you're arguing against? What are you arguing for, again, if the definition has already changed?

I'm arguing for whatever the current definition is. And I'm saying people need to stop changing the language if we're going to have ambiguity and what we say is no longer perceived as what we mean to say. And I said look at Babel; they didn't go too well when communication broke down.
 
     
 
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OneWithDunamis

Don't be selfish. Think of the greater good of society, if you intend to stay with the society you're familiar with.

"Don't be selfish"?

You can honestly say that with a straight face and not give gays the same rights? It would have absolutely no effect on you, it would do NOTHING to effect normal marriages.

i don't want my morgage to lose its value. that is an effect of this.
Don't be narrow-minded. This affects more than just normal marriages. This is about communication, and like the example I gave, a break down of communication leads to the destruction of a civilization.

I'm surprised you didn't put that in quotes, because this means you agree that what I consider a valid marriage is normal to you, and any sort of marriage not involving one man and one woman is abnormal in comparison.
     
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Wikipedia is not always a valid source. Try something that has .edu or .org instead.


Education system is always great at spreading unbiased history.

So wiki is unbiased instead. Internet info ftw.
 
     
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