When your boyfriend likes another girl...

[Lady_Luckless]

I would try to ignore it, but it would end up bothering me, because I'm a person who's insecure already.

[Stale Humor]

Break up.

[Chomprolosis]

I would probably get extremely bothered as a first reaction, then ignore it.
That boyfriend wouldn't have liked another girl if he really loved you in the first place.

[geminikitten]

While my partner will oggle and fantasize from a purely sexual perspective (he really objectifies <_< wink he's too loyal to do anything and isn't type to form any type of emotional feelings for another person. He's only had feelings for two people in this life and that was after he formed a relationship with them, one of them being me.

[aBlackPie]

It completely depends what you mean on by 'like'. Can my partner look at other people and find them sexually appealing? Of course. Id be crazy to think he couldnt. We have fun pointing out attractive people together. Theres nothing wrong with recognizing someone else is attractive.
If you mean they are interested in furthering a sexual relationship with them whilst still with me? Then that would bother me and id have to sit down and have a chat.

[Cafe Caramella]

aBlackPie

It completely depends what you mean on by 'like'. Can my partner look at other people and find them sexually appealing? Of course. Id be crazy to think he couldnt. We have fun pointing out attractive people together. Theres nothing wrong with recognizing someone else is attractive.
If you mean they are interested in furthering a sexual relationship with them whilst still with me? Then that would bother me and id have to sit down and have a chat.

We do that too, my boyfriends bi so like he's closer to the opposite sex a little cause he has a small camp side too.. it just confuses me sometimes. :s

[aBlackPie]

Happy little toast

aBlackPie

It completely depends what you mean on by 'like'. Can my partner look at other people and find them sexually appealing? Of course. Id be crazy to think he couldnt. We have fun pointing out attractive people together. Theres nothing wrong with recognizing someone else is attractive.
If you mean they are interested in furthering a sexual relationship with them whilst still with me? Then that would bother me and id have to sit down and have a chat.

We do that too, my boyfriends bi so like he's closer to the opposite sex a little cause he has a small camp side too.. it just confuses me sometimes. :s

Why should it confuse you? My partner talks to females more than males all the time. He just feels more comfortable and has lots of female friends and only a few male friends. Im quite visa versa and feel more comfortable talking to guys. I have more guy mates then lady friends.
Its really down to your own insecurities. Do you think he's going to go off with another girl? If your worried about it talk to him. If there arnt any signs of him leaving you or being with one of them then have a sit down and work on your own self esteem. Just because hes friends with girls doesnt mean hes trying to get in all of their pants.

[Cafe Caramella]

aBlackPie

Happy little toast

aBlackPie

It completely depends what you mean on by 'like'. Can my partner look at other people and find them sexually appealing? Of course. Id be crazy to think he couldnt. We have fun pointing out attractive people together. Theres nothing wrong with recognizing someone else is attractive.
If you mean they are interested in furthering a sexual relationship with them whilst still with me? Then that would bother me and id have to sit down and have a chat.

We do that too, my boyfriends bi so like he's closer to the opposite sex a little cause he has a small camp side too.. it just confuses me sometimes. :s

Why should it confuse you? My partner talks to females more than males all the time. He just feels more comfortable and has lots of female friends and only a few male friends. Im quite visa versa and feel more comfortable talking to guys. I have more guy mates then lady friends.
Its really down to your own insecurities. Do you think he's going to go off with another girl? If your worried about it talk to him. If there arnt any signs of him leaving you or being with one of them then have a sit down and work on your own self esteem. Just because hes friends with girls doesnt mean hes trying to get in all of their pants.

Noor, I'm just silly. :3
I jet jealous easily because I'm dumb, he knows that although so like were cool.
I just wanted to see other peoples oppinons really.

[aBlackPie]

Happy little toast

aBlackPie

Happy little toast

aBlackPie

It completely depends what you mean on by 'like'. Can my partner look at other people and find them sexually appealing? Of course. Id be crazy to think he couldnt. We have fun pointing out attractive people together. Theres nothing wrong with recognizing someone else is attractive.
If you mean they are interested in furthering a sexual relationship with them whilst still with me? Then that would bother me and id have to sit down and have a chat.

We do that too, my boyfriends bi so like he's closer to the opposite sex a little cause he has a small camp side too.. it just confuses me sometimes. :s

Why should it confuse you? My partner talks to females more than males all the time. He just feels more comfortable and has lots of female friends and only a few male friends. Im quite visa versa and feel more comfortable talking to guys. I have more guy mates then lady friends.
Its really down to your own insecurities. Do you think he's going to go off with another girl? If your worried about it talk to him. If there arnt any signs of him leaving you or being with one of them then have a sit down and work on your own self esteem. Just because hes friends with girls doesnt mean hes trying to get in all of their pants.

Noor, I'm just silly. :3
I jet jealous easily because I'm dumb, he knows that although so like were cool.
I just wanted to see other peoples oppinons really.

Its okay C: Everyone gets a little jealous sometimes.
You just have to try and stop your insecurities and try be a bit rational when your feeling jealous. Just stop, take a deep breath and ask yourself WHY are you jealous? Yes he's talking to a pretty girl but at the end of the day he's coming home to snuggle with you and your his girlfriend.
Keep that in your head and talk it over to yourself everything you feel a little jealous and it should help kick the feelings smile

[GS Sailor Midnight]

Happy little toast

Do you let it bother you or just ignore it?

He doesn't. emotion_donotwant

[Bourbon Outfitters]

If he found someone attractive, I wouldn't care.
If he thought she was just cool or something, it wouldn't bother me.
If he had a genuine crush on her, I'd leave him, but it wouldn't' necessarily anger me or anything.
Although I'd probably feel a bit insulted, haha.

[Alchemist_Lynn]

never had this problem.

[Kitty Bear Chama]

It would bother me because it hurts to know that the person I love most is having feelings for another so that would change everything.How he looks at me, what he thinks about, etc.

[d y z t o p i a]

i think it depends, if they're just attracted to someone else it's not a big deal as long as they're not like.. obsessing over it. it seems okay to find others attractive if you're taken as long as you don't act on it. eek

if they're like.. pursuing it they to find another girlfriend cause you should dump their a**. emotion_yatta