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Or even very little?

this girl I like has loads of friends and goes out clubbing, but she likes anime/pokemon and is kinda nerdy too.

I just like working out and boxing and have a handful of friends but I don't like going out much.

Should I just move on?
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I only have 2 friends ):
But thats mostly because society is a d**k.
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I'd be looking for a reason as to why.

and no you're fine.
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My husband and I have the same friends and he has a couple more that I don’t know too well just yet. They’re off in college and he hasn’t seen them in two years now. But it never really concerned me that we don’t have a ton of friends or go out clubbing and all that jazz. We’re all fairly chill, friendly, and we like hanging out at each other’s houses to unwind with dinner, movies, video games, and playing with the kids and animals.

My husband’s other friends are very sport oriented and when they will be back in town he will likely be off with them playing football, hockey, and other active sports of that nature. I personally suck at these sports, but I don’t mind. It’s not something I’d leave him over, so I don’t understand why you would move on from your girlfriend because she has more friends and a different hobby than you.
Eisefin
My husband and I have the same friends and he has a couple more that I don’t know too well just yet. They’re off in college and he hasn’t seen them in two years now. But it never really concerned me that we don’t have a ton of friends or go out clubbing and all that jazz. We’re all fairly chill, friendly, and we like hanging out at each other’s houses to unwind with dinner, movies, video games, and playing with the kids and animals.

My husband’s other friends are very sport oriented and when they will be back in town he will likely be off with them playing football, hockey, and other active sports of that nature. I personally suck at these sports, but I don’t mind. It’s not something I’d leave him over, so I don’t understand why you would move on from your girlfriend because she has more friends and a different hobby than you.


She's not my girlfriend, just someone I wouldn't mind having as a girlfriend.
I have no friends and my boyfriend is aware of lack of friends. We've been dating for 3 1/2 years and we hang out once a week.

I'm pretty independent but, I do call him frequently when I'm not at school or doing school work.
more time for meee
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Eisefin
My husband and I have the same friends and he has a couple more that I don’t know too well just yet. They’re off in college and he hasn’t seen them in two years now. But it never really concerned me that we don’t have a ton of friends or go out clubbing and all that jazz. We’re all fairly chill, friendly, and we like hanging out at each other’s houses to unwind with dinner, movies, video games, and playing with the kids and animals.

My husband’s other friends are very sport oriented and when they will be back in town he will likely be off with them playing football, hockey, and other active sports of that nature. I personally suck at these sports, but I don’t mind. It’s not something I’d leave him over, so I don’t understand why you would move on from your girlfriend because she has more friends and a different hobby than you.


She's not my girlfriend, just someone I wouldn't mind having as a girlfriend.


I read that wrong. My bad.

If you like her then give it a shot. Then you can see where you two are compatible, what similarities you share, what differences you have and then go from there.
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We've been dating for 3 1/2 years and we hang out once a week.


haha...lol
socialanxietyman
Forever Eccentric
We've been dating for 3 1/2 years and we hang out once a week.


haha...lol


He works 48 hours a week and I attend school full time
Forever Eccentric
socialanxietyman
Forever Eccentric
We've been dating for 3 1/2 years and we hang out once a week.


haha...lol


He works 48 hours a week and I attend school full time


Sorry my aspergers kicked in.
I don't have any close friends and my girlfriend loves me all the same.

I've made it a point since about a year ago to reject any budding platonic relationships.
What can I say, I've become disillusioned with the majority of humankind.
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More often than not, that means they have a better heart and more sympathy for others, so they can typically be a better person to be around overall.

I have few friends and have never dated [mainly because there are no gay/bisexual men anywhere stare ], so whomever does finally get me must have odd tastes rofl
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If they feel comfortable that way, go for it. I just don't want them all over me all the time. Cause I do have things to do. My lover has to be considerate and patient.
socialanxietyman
Or even very little?

this girl I like has loads of friends and goes out clubbing, but she likes anime/pokemon and is kinda nerdy too.

I just like working out and boxing and have a handful of friends but I don't like going out much.

Should I just move on?

dude what the ******** are you on about
she likes pokemon
that means she's available and of good quality

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