Wait, people actually regularly talk to their exes?

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RayneJade

Yeah I never understood that either. It's like wtf dude you broke my heart. I want to forget you ever existed. Don't speak to me. Don't look for me. Don't send me Facebook messages years later and act like we're friends. Maybe it's just me being a bitter old hag but I just do not deal with my exes at all. Period. talk2hand

Thaaaaaank youuuu

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MuRho

I work with my ex, so we have to be civil. We don't talk outside of work though!

I mean, I understand that
I was more referring to people who still actively seek each other out

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lmfao

Still curious as to what else determines talking to someone lol
Unless you have like..kids together or something

there could b literally thousands of reasons
when ur not being so self absorbed

How am I being self-absorbed?
Why would someone want me to talk to them if I'm no longer interested in them? Like, even as a friend.

talking 2 ppl isn't always about getting something out of it, 4 u or 4 them even
ppl used 2 just talk
ya kno b4 facebook & phones

alternatively actual 'reasons' u would understand maybe they need help or support, maybe it would b nice 4 them 2 kno how u are & u 2 kno how they r etc

I have friends and family I can just talk to, and so do they. If I wanted to be their support system I wouldn't have broken up with them, or they wouldn't have with me.

[Kokoro Kamikaze]

my ex is my best friend ever.
We just realized our friendship was more important then anything else.
Best friends for over five years.

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Kyoto Affairs

my ex is my best friend ever.
We just realized our friendship was more important then anything else.
Best friends for over five years.

Yea, I was never long-term friends with any guys before our relationship

[Vuux Bolton]

I used to, but eventually it didn't work out.

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Kyoto Affairs

my ex is my best friend ever.
We just realized our friendship was more important then anything else.
Best friends for over five years.

Yea, I was never long-term friends with any guys before our relationship

I guess that could change things too. This person is like my friend-soulmate, So we pretty much can't be without each other its weird lol

[TigerLilyChick]

Wow, I still talk to a few of them. Why does everyone find it weird? I'm sorry your exes want nothing to do with you while mine still want to be friends with me.

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Eddie the White Elephant

Well I have no reason not to?

I always distance myself for a while after the break-up, then I'll just chill out with them again when things have settled.

There is a reason why you fell in love in first place, I really don't understand why you can't stay friends just because you don't love each other the same way anymore unless the person was damaging in one way or another

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TigerLilyChick

Wow, I still talk to a few of them. Why does everyone find it weird? I'm sorry your exes want nothing to do with you while mine still want to be friends with me.

I'm the one who broke up with them and cut all contact

[Mediocrity_Flakes]

Yea, I don't understand. It's pretty awk lol

[Little Tasmanian]

hmm only one i can think of that i kinda still keep conections cause it just didnt work right between our parents so thats why we split.

[5 to 8]

I don't. I really only talk to one ex.