virginity: your thoughts

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Massive Hemorrhage

Fight Club Jesus

I'm a virgin but only because I believe sex clogs the mind and that there is some sort of little attachment with anyone you do it with if you're not a prostitute or do it a lot.
But ohhh lawd I've done just about everything except penetration.

I believe it's up to a person if they want to or not, and people shouldn't judge them on that.

Wow, your point of view makes no ******** sense.

How? It makes perfect sense to me. :
I'm not going to because for me I believe if/when I do I'll get somewhat attached.
I'm cool with others doing it and it's their decision.

[Urusai_Shinjitsu]

botticellis venus

it isent the most important aspect of marriage.

quick question: what is wrong, exactly, with abstinence?

She was talking about abstinence only teaching, it neglects sexual information, discourages the use of birthcontrol, it raises teen pregnancy/STD rates, and is discrimitive towards anyone that doesn't want to get married, isn't heterosexual, and isn't strictly monogamous.

[botticellis venus]

Urusai_Shinjitsu

botticellis venus

it isent the most important aspect of marriage.

quick question: what is wrong, exactly, with abstinence?

She was talking about abstinence only teaching, it neglects sexual information, discourages the use of birthcontrol, it raises teen pregnancy/STD rates, and is discrimitive towards anyone that doesn't want to get married, isn't heterosexual, and isn't strictly monogamous.

that is crap. thats just ignorant to think that everyone will choose abstinence.

[Urusai_Shinjitsu]

botticellis venus

or its a way for them to show their dedication to their god.

That isn't a valid reason either. Its as reasonable as fasting on Ramadan.

[phantomkitsune]

Urusai_Shinjitsu

botticellis venus

or its a way for them to show their dedication to their god.

That isn't a valid reason either. Its as reasonable as fasting on Ramadan.

Well, fasting during Ramadan is one of the Five Pillars. Virginity isn't one of the main points of any religion that I know of.

[botticellis venus]

well, (as i said before) my reasoning is:

i am saving myself for my husband. and he for me. its as simple as that. just a promise to be with only each other. a way to show our dedication for each other. it dosent have to do with what sex actually is, its about what it can represent.


as to an over-glamourization of virginity, i suppose thats just how you see it. i think sex is overly glamourized.

[Massive Hemorrhage]

Fight Club Jesus

How? It makes perfect sense to me. :
I'm not going to because for me I believe if/when I do I'll get somewhat attached.
I'm cool with others doing it and it's their decision.

I suppose what makes utterly no ******** sense to me is why you think penetrative sex will somehow indelibly alter your mind in a way that any other form of sexual intimacy could not.

[scooter booter]

id like two no longer be a virgin but only way i will probably manage it is if i pay a prostitute and the decent looking ones can be EXPENSIVE

[Seraphor]

botticellis venus

Wilczurak

I pretty much disagree with your whole entire view on sex and marriage. (And I feel sorry for you--arranged marriage? Duty? Oh man . . .)

dont feel sorry for me. i love the idea. i have chosen it. its not a duty, its my choice.

If it's entirely your choice, how is it in any sense "arranged"?

[Moniquill]

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Massive Hemorrhage

Reverend Varian

Incorrect sir. Sex did, does, and always will mean something. Its just what it means to you that defines what the meaning itself it.

No, sex is ascribed meaning by people, but it's essentially just a visceral act no more special and magical than eating or shitting.

im going to guess you are atheist. if you view having sex as a basic human action then you probably dont believe in a greater being.

Because there's no such thing as a deity figure that views sex as a basic human action. Nor is there such a thing as a faith system without a central deity (Sorry Buddhism and Taoism. You don't exist AGAIN.)

[botticellis venus]

Seraphor

botticellis venus

Wilczurak

I pretty much disagree with your whole entire view on sex and marriage. (And I feel sorry for you--arranged marriage? Duty? Oh man . . .)

dont feel sorry for me. i love the idea. i have chosen it. its not a duty, its my choice.

If it's entirely your choice, how is it in any sense "arranged"?

my parents and his parents are the ones who choose. i have the choice to say no or yes. and i have choosen to do it in the first place.

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Moniquill

Because there's no such thing as a deity figure that views sex as a basic human action. Nor is there such a thing as a faith system without a central deity (Sorry Buddhism and Taoism. You don't exist AGAIN.)

. . . I love you.

[XxRejected_highFive]

Being a vrigin just means that u havent had sex. That's it. nuthing more to it. people who have sex at a young age for no particualar or stuipd reasons are stupid. And yeah, arranged marriages do suck. no offence or anything.

[Massive Hemorrhage]

What's the sense in possessing willpower if you only apply it in really stupid ******** ways?

[Moniquill]

Massive Hemorrhage

What's the sense in possessing willpower if you only apply it in really stupid ******** ways?

What qualifies 'Really stupid ******** ways', and what gives you the right to qualify such things to anyone else?