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Rich Pyromaniac

turn someone down after they've been "flirting" with me?

long story short, i have no idea who this person is. she just approached me the other day and now she knows my name and added me on facebook. how do i reject in the non-douchiest way possible?... neutral

oh yeah, now my a*****e friend found out and he and his girlfriends are trying to hook her up with me as a joke.
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"Hey, I'm sorry but I'm not interested in dating anyone at the moment."
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Just don't add her neutral
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Decline the friend request and ignore her.
Grow balls and say 'I don't like you like that',

like s**t, why people need advice on this?
Remove her from your FB.

Also what Dolce mentioned.
But just to be fun.
"I do not want you, you do not interest me. Get out please."
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Rich Pyromaniac

Admiral Absurd
Decline the friend request and ignore her.
i feel like thats the coward's way out and i don't want to hurt any feelings ;_;
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            I'm not sure why it's much of a concern if you don't even know who she is... but I guess, yeah, what everyone else said. Tell her you're not interested and apologize and/or don't add her on FB.
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"yo git up off my dik"
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I'm not into you like that.
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I'm not into you like that.
b***h please. i'm not into asians.

um that was my suggestion on how to say it to the girl

Rude.
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I care about your opinion
turn someone down after they've been "flirting" with me?

long story short, i have no idea who this person is. she just approached me the other day and now she knows my name and added me on facebook. how do i reject in the non-douchiest way possible?... neutral

oh yeah, now my a*****e friend found out and he and his girlfriends are trying to hook her up with me as a joke.

Use the lines the girl used http://www.officehell.co.uk/uploads/items/images/Many-Fall,-Few-Escape!-681.png

"I really like you, I think your really nice and some day your gonna make some lucky guy really happy" 3nodding
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Simply tell her you're not interested. There's no easy way about it. She's going to feel down about it.

Also, to avoid future problems like this, if you don't know them and aren't interested, don't flirt back or add them on FB. Simply deny them that chance in the beginning and they'll get over quickly and go search for someone else.

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