Transgender Issues- not just "men in dresses"

Are you affected by trans issues?

Yes- I'm trans/I think I might be trans	16.2%	[ 919 ]
Yes- I have a trans friend or relative	12.1%	[ 687 ]
Indirectly- I have a trans acquaintance	6.0%	[ 341 ]
Not directly, but I feel these issues affect me indirectly/ I feel that these issues affect everyone	23.5%	[ 1336 ]
Not at all	31.1%	[ 1766 ]
I don't know	11.1%	[ 630 ]
Total Votes:			[ 5679 ]

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September the Eleventh

I know what you mean there, I've gotten hella pleasure from a**l too. The whole "female prostate" thing's probably true though as for location we're all different so meh. Mine's like, way deep...damn this conversation's gotten hot.

Finally someone else knows what I'm talking about. gonk

Lol, I'm not hot and bothered. I had to beat one off like, a half an hour ago, because the testosterone is relentless. The way I masturbate (if it isn't a**l) has to be really indirect, and purely external, for me to be able to get off enough to put my libido at bay. :/ If I had a d**k it would be so much easier to just jack off and get it done with. But because of my dysphoria I have to circumvent around my physical body, and work at it for a damn long time before things feel right.

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Recursive Paradox

NOPE. ********. NOT JUMPING INTO THE s**t POOL AGAIN. I'm gonna just think about the sex I have. The hot wild, omfg sex with someone who doesn't objectify me, who sees me as entirely as a woman, and especially someone whom I can have sex with in any way I can cope with and not in any way will my identity be questioned by them cuz I'm having sex with them.

Not jealous. I know that was your intention, but I'm not fazed in the slightest. But you did sort of just prove my point.

I may be horny and want sex, but I don't get butthurt when others have it. If I did, I would have killed myself a long time ago. It's 10:00 pm. Thousands of people are orgasming RIGHT NOW. And I really don't care.

[Rosetta Celestine]

My two cents: I don't need to prove I'm a girl by doing stereotypically feminine things. I just enjoy doing them. mrgreen

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September the Eleventh

I know what you mean there, I've gotten hella pleasure from a**l too. The whole "female prostate" thing's probably true though as for location we're all different so meh. Mine's like, way deep...damn this conversation's gotten hot.

Finally someone else knows what I'm talking about. gonk

Lol, I'm not hot and bothered. I had to beat one off like, a half an hour ago, because the testosterone is relentless. The way I masturbate (if it isn't a**l) has to be really indirect, and purely external, for me to be able to get off enough to put my libido at bay. :/ If I had a d**k it would be so much easier to just jack off and get it done with. But because of my dysphoria I have to circumvent around my physical body, and work at it for a damn long time before things feel right.

Damn that sucks a**. I know what you're talking about in terms of FUKKIN HORNY
it seems my body makes too much testosterone for a normal female. Which is funny as hell since I've beyond D-Cups and a very curvy figure. I talk to other girls about this and I get WTF looks. I have to bust one off at least three times a day, on my period, maybe four times a day. And is it strange that I prefer penetratING to being penetratED?(with strap-ons of course though at times I would prefer to own a p***s.)

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September the Eleventh

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September the Eleventh

I know what you mean there, I've gotten hella pleasure from a**l too. The whole "female prostate" thing's probably true though as for location we're all different so meh. Mine's like, way deep...damn this conversation's gotten hot.

Finally someone else knows what I'm talking about. gonk

Lol, I'm not hot and bothered. I had to beat one off like, a half an hour ago, because the testosterone is relentless. The way I masturbate (if it isn't a**l) has to be really indirect, and purely external, for me to be able to get off enough to put my libido at bay. :/ If I had a d**k it would be so much easier to just jack off and get it done with. But because of my dysphoria I have to circumvent around my physical body, and work at it for a damn long time before things feel right.

Damn that sucks a**. I know what you're talking about in terms of FUKKIN HORNY
it seems my body makes too much testosterone for a normal female. Which is funny as hell since I've beyond D-Cups and a very curvy figure. I talk to other girls about this and I get WTF looks. I have to bust one off at least three times a day, on my period, maybe four times a day. And is it strange that I prefer penetratING to being penetratED?(with strap-ons of course though at times I would prefer to own a p***s.)

Yeah, it's really damn annoying. Another thing that bothers me; transgirls have the tools, but their libido goes down so they need it less. Transmen lack the tools, but their libido goes up, so they have a dilemma. Therein lies my dilemma.

Grrrrrrrrl, when I had periods I was so turned-off. Then again, I didn't feel like I was supposed to have periods. But I'd go without masturbation for the whole 5-7 days of bleeding nightmare. Fortunately I didn't have the sex drive then that I have now, and I don't have the periods now (As much, I'm running out of T, can't get more, so I've lowered my dose, as a result am having a period every couple months).

I don't thing preferring penetrating or even wanting a p***s is weird for a girl. A lot of girls have completely natural p***s envy. It's when they hate their vag, have serious discomfort with their female attirbutes, etc. that they might want to consider seeing a therapist and seeing if they need to transition.

[e-Claire rc1]

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If they like it, it's not rape.

UHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

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Rosetta Celestine

My two cents: I don't need to prove I'm a girl by doing stereotypically feminine things. I just enjoy doing them. mrgreen

I don't think you need to prove you're a girl to anybody.

I'm really hoping you understood what the argument between Poe and I was about... Because I wasn't saying you're not a girl for using your d**k. But she obviously totally misinterpreted it, and made this argument about identity, when it never really was. I never said anything about gender identity.

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Blairnensha

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If they like it, it's not rape.

UHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Rape is sex someone doesn't want or consent to. If she likes being brutalized, it isn't rape. She enjoyed the experience. It would better be described as "surprise sex," because she LIKED being dominated, LIKED saying no, LIKED the struggle. And of course she's going to call it rape because in her mind the idea of rape turns her on. So she'd never admit that it wasn't rape, even though technically she liked it.

If a girl says she DID not like the rape, was NOT turned on, DID NOT like saying no, etc... Yeah, she was raped. She wasn't getting off on being brutalized.

[e-Claire rc1]

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Blairnensha

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If they like it, it's not rape.

UHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Rape is sex someone doesn't want or consent to. If she likes being brutalized, it isn't rape. She enjoyed the experience. It would better be described as "surprise sex," because she LIKED being dominated, LIKED saying no, LIKED the struggle. And of course she's going to call it rape because in her mind the idea of rape turns her on. So she'd never admit that it wasn't rape, even though technically she liked it.

If a girl says she DID not like the rape, was NOT turned on, DID NOT like saying no, etc... Yeah, she was raped. She wasn't getting off on being brutalized.

You can like it but still not consent for other reasons, like not wanting your hymen broken or something like that.

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Blairnensha

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Blairnensha

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If they like it, it's not rape.

UHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Rape is sex someone doesn't want or consent to. If she likes being brutalized, it isn't rape. She enjoyed the experience. It would better be described as "surprise sex," because she LIKED being dominated, LIKED saying no, LIKED the struggle. And of course she's going to call it rape because in her mind the idea of rape turns her on. So she'd never admit that it wasn't rape, even though technically she liked it.

If a girl says she DID not like the rape, was NOT turned on, DID NOT like saying no, etc... Yeah, she was raped. She wasn't getting off on being brutalized.

You can like it but still not consent for other reasons, like not wanting your hymen broken or something like that.

Hmmm. I concede to that point. I suppose in a very sick, twisted way a woman could call it rape for reasons like that. But she still enjoyed the sex. To pull the rape card would be ridiculous. But I suppose if we took that right away from women then men could just say, "she was enjoying it, but she's lying now in court." NOT like that would effect anything, men almost ALWAYS lose rape cases even if the girl IS lying.

[Rosetta Celestine]

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Rosetta Celestine

My two cents: I don't need to prove I'm a girl by doing stereotypically feminine things. I just enjoy doing them. mrgreen

I don't think you need to prove you're a girl to anybody.

I'm really hoping you understood what the argument between Poe and I was about... Because I wasn't saying you're not a girl for using your d**k. But she obviously totally misinterpreted it, and made this argument about identity, when it never really was. I never said anything about gender identity.

You said something earlier to the effect of "I don't know why a woman would be okay with being ******** like a man with tits".

It was offensive, but I forgive you. You were just frustrated.

EDIT: I wasn't referring to that with this post BTW.

[Wheelbarrow of Dicks]

9-11 call me in why now it's 1:30 AM here in America. mrgreen

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September the Eleventh

I know what you mean there, I've gotten hella pleasure from a**l too. The whole "female prostate" thing's probably true though as for location we're all different so meh. Mine's like, way deep...damn this conversation's gotten hot.

Finally someone else knows what I'm talking about. gonk

Lol, I'm not hot and bothered. I had to beat one off like, a half an hour ago, because the testosterone is relentless. The way I masturbate (if it isn't a**l) has to be really indirect, and purely external, for me to be able to get off enough to put my libido at bay. :/ If I had a d**k it would be so much easier to just jack off and get it done with. But because of my dysphoria I have to circumvent around my physical body, and work at it for a damn long time before things feel right.

Damn that sucks a**. I know what you're talking about in terms of FUKKIN HORNY
it seems my body makes too much testosterone for a normal female. Which is funny as hell since I've beyond D-Cups and a very curvy figure. I talk to other girls about this and I get WTF looks. I have to bust one off at least three times a day, on my period, maybe four times a day. And is it strange that I prefer penetratING to being penetratED?(with strap-ons of course though at times I would prefer to own a p***s.)

Yeah, it's really damn annoying. Another thing that bothers me; transgirls have the tools, but their libido goes down so they need it less. Transmen lack the tools, but their libido goes up, so they have a dilemma. Therein lies my dilemma.

Grrrrrrrrl, when I had periods I was so turned-off. Then again, I didn't feel like I was supposed to have periods. But I'd go without masturbation for the whole 5-7 days of bleeding nightmare. Fortunately I didn't have the sex drive then that I have now, and I don't have the periods now (As much, I'm running out of T, can't get more, so I've lowered my dose, as a result am having a period every couple months.

I don't thing preferring penetrating or even wanting a p***s is weird for a girl. A lot of girls have completely natural p***s envy. It's when they hate their vag, have serious discomfort with their female attirbutes, etc. that they might want to consider seeing a therapist and seeing if they need to transition.

Daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayum, that's ******** up.
Glad I'm not trans though thinking about it I just may be in terms of sex.
I don't know. I don't think I have p***s envy as I just enjoy being dominant and on top. ALWAYS. I'm only submissive with myself, alone, with toys. Man I ******** hate periods not only do I get turned on IMMENSELY FOR NO REASON the bleeding's a real b***h. But I deal with it. One word. TAMPONS. FUKKIN TAMPONS. PADS ARE FOR BITCHES. But I fukkin hate my vag. Would rather have a c**k but I don't want to be a man. If I could somehow have a c**k and be a woman through and through then I'd sign RIGHT the ******** up I would yes I would!!!

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Rosetta Celestine

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Rosetta Celestine

My two cents: I don't need to prove I'm a girl by doing stereotypically feminine things. I just enjoy doing them. mrgreen

I don't think you need to prove you're a girl to anybody.

I'm really hoping you understood what the argument between Poe and I was about... Because I wasn't saying you're not a girl for using your d**k. But she obviously totally misinterpreted it, and made this argument about identity, when it never really was. I never said anything about gender identity.

You said something earlier to the effect of "I don't know why a woman would be okay with being ******** like a man with tits".

It was offensive, but I forgive you. You were just frustrated.

Thank you. You understand where I'm coming from.

But yeah, I legitimately don't understand that. I would not like to be ******** like a woman with a beard (sorry, can't come up with a better example). BUT like I said earlier sometimes I'm horny enough that I would go to that extreme just for sex. And I don't think that makes me a nymphomaniac as Poe accused me.

I just realized she hasn't gone by that name for SUCH a long time. Does she still go by that? >_>

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September the Eleventh

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September the Eleventh

I know what you mean there, I've gotten hella pleasure from a**l too. The whole "female prostate" thing's probably true though as for location we're all different so meh. Mine's like, way deep...damn this conversation's gotten hot.

Finally someone else knows what I'm talking about. gonk

Lol, I'm not hot and bothered. I had to beat one off like, a half an hour ago, because the testosterone is relentless. The way I masturbate (if it isn't a**l) has to be really indirect, and purely external, for me to be able to get off enough to put my libido at bay. :/ If I had a d**k it would be so much easier to just jack off and get it done with. But because of my dysphoria I have to circumvent around my physical body, and work at it for a damn long time before things feel right.

Damn that sucks a**. I know what you're talking about in terms of FUKKIN HORNY
it seems my body makes too much testosterone for a normal female. Which is funny as hell since I've beyond D-Cups and a very curvy figure. I talk to other girls about this and I get WTF looks. I have to bust one off at least three times a day, on my period, maybe four times a day. And is it strange that I prefer penetratING to being penetratED?(with strap-ons of course though at times I would prefer to own a p***s.)

Yeah, it's really damn annoying. Another thing that bothers me; transgirls have the tools, but their libido goes down so they need it less. Transmen lack the tools, but their libido goes up, so they have a dilemma. Therein lies my dilemma.

Grrrrrrrrl, when I had periods I was so turned-off. Then again, I didn't feel like I was supposed to have periods. But I'd go without masturbation for the whole 5-7 days of bleeding nightmare. Fortunately I didn't have the sex drive then that I have now, and I don't have the periods now (As much, I'm running out of T, can't get more, so I've lowered my dose, as a result am having a period every couple months.

I don't thing preferring penetrating or even wanting a p***s is weird for a girl. A lot of girls have completely natural p***s envy. It's when they hate their vag, have serious discomfort with their female attirbutes, etc. that they might want to consider seeing a therapist and seeing if they need to transition.

Daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayum, that's ******** up.
Glad I'm not trans though thinking about it I just may be in terms of sex.
I don't know. I don't think I have p***s envy as I just enjoy being dominant and on top. ALWAYS. I'm only submissive with myself, alone, with toys. Man I ******** hate periods not only do I get turned on IMMENSELY FOR NO REASON the bleeding's a real b***h. But I deal with it. One word. TAMPONS. FUKKIN TAMPONS. PADS ARE FOR BITCHES. But I fukkin hate my vag. Would rather have a c**k but I don't want to be a man. If I could somehow have a c**k and be a woman through and through then I'd sign RIGHT the ******** up I would yes I would!!!

Hey, if you're trans, you might not necessarily be "100% man" or "100% women." You may very well be trans but fall into a middleground. 3nodding

You probably get turned on during the period because of the increase in hormones during that time. For me it felt SO WRONG, I could tell a period was coming, the hormones increase, I could physically notice the changes; my breasts would get larger, my skin softer, and I would just feel DIFFERENT, and I HATED it... so much.

Well, it's hard to say. A lot of people deny having "p***s envy" when they really do because they think that undermines their desire. I can tell you right now: I am a transman, LEGITIMATELY a man, and I have very strong p***s envy. I don't think that undermines my desire or makes it fake or anything.