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http://equalityrainbow.eq.funpic.org/tgnis.html
When some people hear the words "Gender Identity Disorder" from a doctor. They might assume they are saying they shouldn't change their gender or be transsexual. Also on the other hand, when transsexual people hear it they might think, I don't feel "disordered" when I am expressing myself. Then they might be offended by that term because of it.
This is not the true meaning here in either case of what doctors are saying.
It is not that the basic concept of changing genders, like in SRS or transsexual people expressing their inner gender, that is disorderly. Actually they are saying that is the cure.
For instance, when having the mind of a girl in the body of a guy and their mind tells them they have a body of a girl, they are capable of experiencing a disturbance when they are reminded of the rest of their physical features aren't girlish. When that happens the best treatment for that is making the rest of their body feel like their true inner gender. That is specifically what they are saying.
They also mention societal prejudice. While that is not a part of GID itself, it can hurt them mentally in effect.
Having an aversion from your gender body parts, is different from having a variety in gender expression.
DSM - "Gender Identity disorder can be distinguished from simple noncomformity to stereo-typical sex role behavior by the extent and pervasiveness of the cross-gender wishes, interests, and activities. This disorder is not meant to describe a child’s nonconformity to stereotypic sex-role behavior as, for example, in “tomboyishness” in girls or “sissyish” behavior in boys. Rather, it represents a profound disturbance of the individual’s sense of identity with regard to maleness or femaleness. Behavior in children that merely does not fit the cultural stereotype of masculinity or femininity should not be given the diagnosis unless the full syndrome is present, including marked distress or impairment."
Diagnostic Criteria for Gender Identity Disorder
A. A strong persistent cross-gender identification (not merely a desire for any perceived cultural advantages of being the other sex). In children, the disturbance is manifested by four (or more) of the following:
Repeatedly stated desire to be, or insistence that he or she is, the other sex. In boys, preference for cross-dressing or simulating female attire; In girls, insistence on wearing only stereotypical masculine clothing.
Strong and persistent preferences for cross-sex roles in make believe play or persistent fantasies of being the other sex.
Intense desire to participate in the stereotypical games and pastimes of the other sex. Strong preference for playmates of the other sex.
In adolescents and adults, the disturbance is manifested by symptoms such as a stated desire to be the other sex, frequent passing as the other sex, desire to live or be treated as the other sex, or the conviction that he or she has the typical feelings and reactions of the other sex.
B. Persistent discomfort with his or her sex or sense of inappropriateness in the gender role of that sex. In children, the disturbance is manifested by any of the following:
In boys, assertion that his p***s or testes are disgusting or will disappear or assertion that it would be better not to have a p***s, or aversion toward rough-and-tumble play and rejection of male stereotypical toys, games, and activities.
In girls, rejection of urinating in a sitting position, assertion that she has or will grow a p***s, or assertion that she does not want to grow breasts or menstruate, or marked aversion toward normative feminine clothing.
In adolescents and adults, the disturbance is manifested by symptoms such as preoccupation with getting rid of primary and secondary sex characteristics (e.g., request for hormones, surgery, or other procedures to physically alter sexual characteristics to simulate the other sex) or belief that he or she was born the wrong sex.
C. The disturbance is not concurrent with physical intersex condition.
D. The disturbance causes clinically significant distress or impairment in social, occupational, or other important areas of functioning.
Therefore encouraging sex changes and Transexual equality is not encouraging a disorder, it is encouraging the cure.
Harry Benjamins Standards of Care:
Are Gender Identity Disorders Mental Disorders?
" To qualify as a mental disorder, a behavioral pattern must result in a significant adaptive disadvantage to the person or cause personal mental suffering. The DSM-IV and ICD-10 have defined hundreds of mental disorders which vary in onset, duration, pathogenesis, functional disability, and treatability. The designation of gender identity disorders as mental disorders is not a license for stigmatization, or for the deprivation of gender patients' civil rights. The use of a formal diagnosis is often important in offering relief, providing health insurance coverage, and guiding research to provide more effective future treatments. "
People with GID deserve to be treated just as any other person because they are people. Even treating them friendly helps them very much with what they have to go through. No matter the case they didn't ask to be born that way and to be treated the way society treats them.