I was 25 before I found someone it lasted about 5 months and then we agreed that we should just be friends. She was 30 and had 4 kids already I eventually wanted my own she made it clear that was never going to happen. She suffers from Fibromyalgia and her last 2 pregnancies were hard on her. She is unable to work and I can't support her and 4 kids. I have been single again since 09 tried several online dating sights along with talking to women I knew or met around town and have had a few dates but nothing worth while. I met a girl online she and I have talked for several years she and her boyfriend broke up. He had lost interest so she wanted to meet me in person. I let her come see me we hung out a few times for a weekend but I wanted someone closer. I have been seeing someone else but shes not acting like shes all that interested she was acting flaky so I spoke up about it. She told me she just started dating again and wants to just date around.